Things I’ve learnt from first LTR - there is no such thing as controlling

[Copeful]

I let her go out to club for graduation, I stayed home cause had to work and got cucked, not brutally but she "talked" and took some ltns snap and insta.

 

[edodalic29]

true , if u are controlling it just means u care that much , you just gotta let them be hoes while being one yourself

 

[WishIwasChico]

true , if u are controlling it just means u care that much , you just gotta let them be hoes while being one yourself

ye bro i made an L i had htbs+ everywhere on insta no joke and i was loyal for this bitch who didn't mog these girls at all what a fucking idiot i am

 

[edodalic29]

ye bro i made an L i had htbs+ everywhere on insta no joke and i was loyal for this bitch who didn't mog these girls at all what a fucking idiot i am

Can you get those girls back ?
u mog so u can get new chicks eazy bro , every few days i get at least 1 new potential girl to rotate and i forget about the previous ones

 

[gymcel64]

damn mirin bro you broke up with her for that not even give her a second chance? getting just snap i suppose you could let go of once if she didn't do anything else??

I have no idea of what happened that night, she also lied to me several times, had an orbiter I told her to get him to fuck off and lied about cutting him off. After she came crying saying she felt so bad for getting his snapchat and talking and me kinda breaking down in front of her, literally 2min after us talking for like 30mins about what she did and how she said she would never fuck up again, I catch her on texting him sending pictures, LITERALLY 2mins after all that fuss. I couldn't handle that. I also completely feel like she was getting bored of me like they do, we had been together for pretty long, honeymoon phase and the "magic" was fading away for her.. She literally told me like "maybe I'm not made for LTR" after what happened, JFL. I also respect myself.

 

[WishIwasChico]

I have no idea of what happened that night, she also lied to me several times, had an orbiter I told her to get him to fuck off and lied about cutting him off. After she came crying saying she felt so bad for getting his snapchat and talking and me kinda breaking down in front of her, literally 2min after us talking for like 30mins about what she did and how she said she would never fuck up again, I catch her on texting him sending pictures, LITERALLY 2mins after all that fuss. I couldn't handle that. I also completely feel like she was getting bored of me like they do, we had been together for pretty long, honeymoon phase and the "magic" was fading away for her.. She literally told me like "maybe I'm not made for LTR" after what happened, JFL. I also respect myself.

insane, women will do anything but take accountability

 

[WishIwasChico]

Can you get those girls back ?
u mog so u can get new chicks eazy bro , every few days i get at least 1 new potential girl to rotate and i forget about the previous ones

ye bro always hoes about, never gonna run dry in that department here LOL

 

[gymcel64]

insane, women will do anything but take accountability

Yeah that is the thing that shocked me the most, they will do absolutely anything, like ANYTHING but take responsibility for their actions.

 

[WishIwasChico]

Yeah that is the thing that shocked me the most, they will do absolutely anything, like ANYTHING but take responsibility for their actions.

ye bro i used to think it was a meme that they didn't but they seriously won't probs a survivial strategy tbh as women are weaker than men, so taking accountability could in the past (and still jfl) get them seriously hurt

 

[gymcel64]

ye bro i used to think it was a meme that they didn't but they seriously won't probs a survivial strategy tbh as women are weaker than men, so taking accountability could in the past (and still jfl) get them seriously hurt

I guess but I also feel like it's because of white knight fathers that always defend their precious little daughters and never punish them for doing stupid shit. Also white knight cucks that will do everything to "protect" random bitches because they think they'll get a crumb of pussy.

 

[WishIwasChico]

I guess but I also feel like it's because of white knight fathers that always defend their precious little daughters and never punish them for doing stupid shit. Also white knight cucks that will do everything to "protect" random bitches because they think they'll get a crumb of pussy.

you think she was physically cheating on you btw at clubs?

 

[gymcel64]

you think she was physically cheating on you btw at clubs?

I have no idea, and I'd rather not know, this is a thing of the past.

 

[WishIwasChico]

I have no idea, and I'd rather not know, this is a thing of the past.

mirin mentality

 

[gymcel64]

mirin mentality

I'm guessing you're pretty young? Can't let stupid shit like that ruin your life, even if I get painful flashbacks sometimes and I had some sleepless nights. You have to move forward and with purpose.

 

[WishIwasChico]

I'm guessing you're pretty young? Can't let stupid shit like that ruin your life, even if I get painful flashbacks sometimes and I had some sleepless nights. You have to move forward and with purpose.

Ye mirin my girl did way worse tbh than yours and I still stayed it’s beyond over for me

 

[gymcel64]

Ye mirin my girl did way worse tbh than yours and I still stayed it’s beyond over for me

Nah man if you had htbs in your dms it is beyond begun for you bro. Go ravage some pussy. I had to come back to my hometown where I don't know a lot of people and it's taking so much time to build up new friendships and meeting girls.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Got cucked clearly cause I didn’t set boundaries cause first ltr but now I’ve learnt

That’s how my first relationship went too. Except I did set boundaries, no partying (without me), no revealing clothes and no other men(on socials). It all worked fine till I cheated, her love disappeared and with it any respect. Got back with her despite infidelity on both ends and she never respected or loved me the same again.

The power to walk away is something most men lack, cus they have few or no options. Even if this is the case you should lie and make her believe you have options and are actually willing to walk. Regardless of looks, for a relationship to work you need to be firm and stand by your words, don’t bend over backwards for her

 

[WishIwasChico]

That’s how my first relationship went too. Except I did set boundaries, no partying (without me), no revealing clothes and no other men(on socials). It all worked fine till I cheated, her love disappeared and with it any respect. Got back with her despite infeselity on both ends and she never respected or loved me the same again.

The power to walk away is something most men lack, cus they have few or no options. Even if this is the case you should lie and make her believe you have options and are actually willing to walk. Regardless of looks, for a relationship to work you need to be firm and stand by your words, don’t bend over backwards for her

she knows i have options she's seen my hinge and cries sometimes about how insecure it made her i had legit very fogger girls dming me on it.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

she knows i have options she's seen my hinge and cries sometimes about how insecure it made her i had legit very fogger girls dming me on it.

Yes, but you fell in love and did anything to keep her happy. Hence the power dynamics flipped, I was most loved when I didn’t care about her. Simping and constantly compromising will kill attraction

 

[Aladin]

How long was the LTR?

 

[PARISIEN]

she did cheat?

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Some men will argue if you have to set boundaries it’s already over. A good women that’s truly loves you knows better than to have other men, have active socials, go partying. You shouldn’t have to tell her how to act, if she’s truly loyal to you she won’t even think about other men

 

[WishIwasChico]

Some men will argue if you have to set boundaries it’s already over. A good women that’s truly loves you knows better than to have other men, have active socials, go partying. You shouldn’t have to tell her how to act, if she’s truly loyal to you she won’t even think about other men

that's rare tho tbh

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

that's rare tho tbh

End of the day regardless of how you act and treat your bitch, she will cheat if she wants to cheat. Boundaries are def crucial and insane power plays to maintain respect however.

If you have to constantly check a woman’s behaviour she isn’t worth it. If she doesn’t respect her father, she’ll never respect you

 

[WishIwasChico]

End of the day regardless of how you act and treat your bitch, she will cheat if she wants to cheat. Boundaries are def crucial and insane power plays to maintain respect however.

If you have to constantly check a woman’s behaviour she isn’t worth it. If she doesn’t respect her father, she’ll never respect you

facts tbh

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I don’t understand why girls love clubbing so much? Like what’s the appeal of horny creeps swarming you surely it’s uncomfortable

The validation

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

women will test you early and you need to stop it before she sees how far she can go. Even something like a playful insult, jokes at ur expense or celebrity crushes need to be checked hard

 

[WishIwasChico]

women will test you early and you need to stop it before she sees how far she can go. Even something like a playful insult, jokes at ur expense or celebrity crushes need to be checked hard

very true