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Preface: there’s a lot of yap here but I’ll summarise it at the end if you can’t be fucked to read it
- firstly the heightpill is brutal. Recently me and a friend were out with 3 huzz the other night till super late. We usually hang out with them and more of our friends and more of their friends most days this summer and one of those days previously the girls were ranking all the boys in terms of good mid and bad. The fittest girl there (true sl) said the 6’6igga mtn was a good last week but when we were hanging out the other night my friend asked is it just because he’s super tall and she j giggled and said yeah. So I guess the takeaway from that one is that height CAN save you if you’re ugly but not too ugly. Heightpill definitely brutal there but that’s kind of obvious so I’ll move onto different observations now
- secondly confidence is genuinely so important but nobody acknowledges it. Until this year I was a ltn if even that with literally no confidence and no idea how to talk to girls or anything. I had an insane glow up and now I’d put myself around mtn but I guess in real life i could be considered attractive by a decent amount of people (the only girl who rated me (cos I wasn’t there the original night where they did all the ratings and my friend asked her to do me the other night) said I was a good which she only gave to 2 other people tho she did give head to a guy she called mid). Anyway the point is I basically never had confidence but since I got invited to my first BIG party a few months ago, I was kind of forced to gain it due to environment. hanging around huzz more and more recently I’ve just gotten to the point where I’m very confident with girls. And what u guys gotta understand if you’ve never really had a girlfriend or anything is that once you meet a certain hltn kind of threshold with a somewhat decent height other factors like confidence start to come into play. girls can genuinely tell so easily whether your confident or not and will treat you accordingly. For example I have a friend who’s the same if not more attractive than me and he just kind of snuck into our group that hangs out with all the girls but he’s simply just quiet. DONT BE NONCHALANT around girls please especially if your not attractive. The first time I went I was fine making dumb jokes that weren’t even that funny and my attractive mate who I just mentioned was pretty much j sitting there tryna be nonchalant because he for whatever fucking reason always makes the mistake of treating girls differently to boys. He can’t just see them as friends and make jokes to them like I can and then guess what, the 3 girls I was out with the other night all said he was mid and he was acting weird. There’s also another group of girls in my year at school who the boys hung out with whilst I was away and according to all the boys as well as girls they don’t rate him because he can’t fucking talk to girls whatsoever and he’s just quiet in general. He sort of doesn’t act like he’s supposed to be there
Additionally the girls all laughed at my jokes because I’m confident. My entire life until this year girls never laughed at my jokes whatsoever unless they were genuinely funny because I was always quiet around girls and scared to assert myself or portray confident body language. It was clear to them that I considered myself inferior so they treated me as such. I promise it had nothing to do with my looks because I’m still not crazy attractive or tall either.
- a few points now that I can’t really be fucked to explain or give anecdotes for
IF YOU FOLLOW ALL OF THESE I PROMISE THE AMOUNT OF GIRLS YOU GET WILL INCREASE
Grow your hair out I promise it will look better
Train your neck in the gym
If you have light eyebrows dye them or if your lucky like me to have them naturally black then shape them so they don’t look fucked
It’s okay to talk about sexual dynamics between boys and girls to the girls
Eat steak
Sauna is great because your body’s best detoxification process is sweat so you won’t have as bad acne
Girls are literally just people don’t pedestalise them or convey to them in anyway that your inferior
Don’t just stare into space when your around girls and your afraid to join in the conversation because that’s the go to method for everyone unconfident I know and also me back when I got no hoes.
To summarise my yaps from before basically heightpill is brutal and confidence is the single most underrated thing you can have. Tho I recommend you read both of those long ass paragraphs because if you’ve never been given the time of day before by girls then it should help u understand the dynamics and thought processes behind why it’s important and you probably don’t actually understand confidence in the right way unless your properly NT
but yeah the best way to learn this shit is to just hang around girls and push away that anxiety before u talk to them
- firstly the heightpill is brutal. Recently me and a friend were out with 3 huzz the other night till super late. We usually hang out with them and more of our friends and more of their friends most days this summer and one of those days previously the girls were ranking all the boys in terms of good mid and bad. The fittest girl there (true sl) said the 6’6igga mtn was a good last week but when we were hanging out the other night my friend asked is it just because he’s super tall and she j giggled and said yeah. So I guess the takeaway from that one is that height CAN save you if you’re ugly but not too ugly. Heightpill definitely brutal there but that’s kind of obvious so I’ll move onto different observations now
- secondly confidence is genuinely so important but nobody acknowledges it. Until this year I was a ltn if even that with literally no confidence and no idea how to talk to girls or anything. I had an insane glow up and now I’d put myself around mtn but I guess in real life i could be considered attractive by a decent amount of people (the only girl who rated me (cos I wasn’t there the original night where they did all the ratings and my friend asked her to do me the other night) said I was a good which she only gave to 2 other people tho she did give head to a guy she called mid). Anyway the point is I basically never had confidence but since I got invited to my first BIG party a few months ago, I was kind of forced to gain it due to environment. hanging around huzz more and more recently I’ve just gotten to the point where I’m very confident with girls. And what u guys gotta understand if you’ve never really had a girlfriend or anything is that once you meet a certain hltn kind of threshold with a somewhat decent height other factors like confidence start to come into play. girls can genuinely tell so easily whether your confident or not and will treat you accordingly. For example I have a friend who’s the same if not more attractive than me and he just kind of snuck into our group that hangs out with all the girls but he’s simply just quiet. DONT BE NONCHALANT around girls please especially if your not attractive. The first time I went I was fine making dumb jokes that weren’t even that funny and my attractive mate who I just mentioned was pretty much j sitting there tryna be nonchalant because he for whatever fucking reason always makes the mistake of treating girls differently to boys. He can’t just see them as friends and make jokes to them like I can and then guess what, the 3 girls I was out with the other night all said he was mid and he was acting weird. There’s also another group of girls in my year at school who the boys hung out with whilst I was away and according to all the boys as well as girls they don’t rate him because he can’t fucking talk to girls whatsoever and he’s just quiet in general. He sort of doesn’t act like he’s supposed to be there
Additionally the girls all laughed at my jokes because I’m confident. My entire life until this year girls never laughed at my jokes whatsoever unless they were genuinely funny because I was always quiet around girls and scared to assert myself or portray confident body language. It was clear to them that I considered myself inferior so they treated me as such. I promise it had nothing to do with my looks because I’m still not crazy attractive or tall either.
- a few points now that I can’t really be fucked to explain or give anecdotes for
IF YOU FOLLOW ALL OF THESE I PROMISE THE AMOUNT OF GIRLS YOU GET WILL INCREASE
Grow your hair out I promise it will look better
Train your neck in the gym
If you have light eyebrows dye them or if your lucky like me to have them naturally black then shape them so they don’t look fucked
It’s okay to talk about sexual dynamics between boys and girls to the girls
Eat steak
Sauna is great because your body’s best detoxification process is sweat so you won’t have as bad acne
Girls are literally just people don’t pedestalise them or convey to them in anyway that your inferior
Don’t just stare into space when your around girls and your afraid to join in the conversation because that’s the go to method for everyone unconfident I know and also me back when I got no hoes.
To summarise my yaps from before basically heightpill is brutal and confidence is the single most underrated thing you can have. Tho I recommend you read both of those long ass paragraphs because if you’ve never been given the time of day before by girls then it should help u understand the dynamics and thought processes behind why it’s important and you probably don’t actually understand confidence in the right way unless your properly NT
but yeah the best way to learn this shit is to just hang around girls and push away that anxiety before u talk to them
