This Girl I’m Talking To Likes Me, But I’m Scared I’ll Ruin It in Person

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Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
 
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just have the balls nigga, and watch a Hamza video before will defo help
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it did for me
 
Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
Don’t imagine her as a girl. Treat her like she’s your friend and the rest will follow. Don’t be nervous talk to her like you’re chillin with your bro. Keep it natural don’t force it
 
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just drink 1-2 beers before then you will be more social and not so akward. Works for first dates just brush your teeth and take gum after
 
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Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
maybe try sending voice messages or video calls to build up to it
 
Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
Just fuck it all and be yourself. Your looks are the main thing that matter anyways so stop caring
 
Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
Nigga im telling u from personal experience, dont meet her if you are cooked. Bring up some fucking reason or ghost the bitch. Ypull keep your respect and still keep the door open when u actually ascend, cz in her mind she goes "damn this is the first dude to not want me"
 
Nigga im telling u from personal experience, dont meet her if you are cooked. Bring up some fucking reason or ghost the bitch. Ypull keep your respect and still keep the door open when u actually ascend, cz in her mind she goes "damn this is the first dude to not want me"
It’s not my looks, it’s my social skills.
 
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Shove your fingers in your ass before the encounter. Then when you meet her and she talks, smell your fingers.

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don't over think it, be yourself :heart:
 
use benzodiazepines or something like that
 
Been there. Met up with foids from online dating back in my early 20s.

All you can do is meet up and hope it goes well.

Despite being an autist, I had multiple foids from online dating come back to my place.

But not every date went well.

Being an autist, my social instinct is simply lacking (and there's no way to fake it). So I guess what I'm saying is there's no way for you to trick her into liking your in-person self. She'll either like you or not. There's no control over how she'll react to you. Regardless, I recommend finding out.
 
Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
INVITE HER OVER AND DRINK ALCOHOL BEFORE SO YOU LOOSEN UP. Make sure to not drink too much and brush your teeth after drinking.
 
INVITE HER OVER AND DRINK ALCOHOL BEFORE SO YOU LOOSEN UP. Make sure to not drink too much and brush your teeth after drinking.
Don’t worry, I ended up meeting with her and everything went amazing.
 
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when a girl likes you cant do and say whatever you want, you can say some nazi stuff and then just say “haha im laughing relax” and she will laugh
 
Been talking to this girl Ana for a few days. She wants to meet. She laughs at my texts, she double texts me, she’s clearly into me.

But here’s the problem. Over text I sound confident, funny, interesting. In real life I’m stiff. I freeze up. My voice is shaky, I struggle to hold eye contact. I feel like I come off autistic as hell.

I’m cooked. I’m so close to ascending and I know I’ll fumble it. What the hell do I do?

Anyone else been in this exact spot? How do you not ruin it when you finally get the chance?
Take 500mg of testosterone and stall for a month until it saturates
 

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