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"Accept the fact that sex with another human being is a privilege, and remind yourself that many people live happy and fulfilling lives without sexual intimacy.
You have the necessary equipment (hands) to relieve your physical frustration, and your mental frustration can be resolved if you rid yourself of your toxic feelings of entitlement. You can be happy without sex, but not if you’ve convinced yourself that you were meant to have it. Human beings can adjust to unbelievable hardships, as long as they accept that life doesn’t owe them anything.
Not having sex is a very minor problem compared to what some people endure, and the fact that it requires the participation of another person should be adequate proof that it isn’t a right. Yet by identifying as “involuntarily celibate” you’ve chosen to align yourself with a group of men who view access to sex as a human right. Saying that you are “starved” of sex sends the same message, as though access to sex was a basic human entitlement like food.
The sexual urges of humans are strong, but they are not outside of your control. You can satisfy your desire for physical stimulation and sexual release by masturbating, just like everyone else who finds themselves without a willing partner at the time. It is only to be expected that you’ll have moments when you long for a woman to have sex with, but you decide if you will allow yourself to wallow in your longing or if you will focus on finding more productive ways to spend your time.
If you are truly depressed then it isn’t because you are not having sex, but the belief that you are being denied something that you are entitled to could contribute to your problems. It’s not sexlessness in itself that will hurt your emotional health, it’s the way you think about sex. A lot of the same men who identify as Incels are the same ones who define masculinity by sexual accomplishments, and with that attitude, not having sex begins to equal not being a man – and that idea could contribute to a crisis.
I want to make one thing absolutely clear: If you believe that you are suffering from depression, you need to seek help from a professional. If you used the word “depressed” more colloquially to say that you feel sad and unhappy, you may still want to discuss your feelings with a therapist, but sadness and frustration would be a normal response to being robbed of something that you view as a human right. That is obviously not what is happening to you, but emotionally you will respond to events as you experience them as opposed to how to they really took place.
Incels often talk about discrimination. A human female’s (a straight one, that is) default setting towards human males is a complete and utter lack of sexual interest or attraction. Incels do not want to accept this, so they choose to believe that women actively deselect in an act of discrimination. Being the victim of discrimination multiple times a day, being denied something that you are entitled to, and watching as the women you were meant to be fucking fuck everyone but you would be extremely upsetting. That’s not what’s going on though, so happiness can be found by shedding your voluntary delusions.
You are not entitled to sex, you don’t deserve to fuck another living creature, and the fact that 90 to 99 percent of women will never give you a second look is only to be expected. You do not need sex, and you can be happy without it."
This is what they will tell you.
Bitch please people have murdered others in the past in order to get laid and now you tell us you can be happy and fine without getting any
You have the necessary equipment (hands) to relieve your physical frustration, and your mental frustration can be resolved if you rid yourself of your toxic feelings of entitlement. You can be happy without sex, but not if you’ve convinced yourself that you were meant to have it. Human beings can adjust to unbelievable hardships, as long as they accept that life doesn’t owe them anything.
Not having sex is a very minor problem compared to what some people endure, and the fact that it requires the participation of another person should be adequate proof that it isn’t a right. Yet by identifying as “involuntarily celibate” you’ve chosen to align yourself with a group of men who view access to sex as a human right. Saying that you are “starved” of sex sends the same message, as though access to sex was a basic human entitlement like food.
The sexual urges of humans are strong, but they are not outside of your control. You can satisfy your desire for physical stimulation and sexual release by masturbating, just like everyone else who finds themselves without a willing partner at the time. It is only to be expected that you’ll have moments when you long for a woman to have sex with, but you decide if you will allow yourself to wallow in your longing or if you will focus on finding more productive ways to spend your time.
If you are truly depressed then it isn’t because you are not having sex, but the belief that you are being denied something that you are entitled to could contribute to your problems. It’s not sexlessness in itself that will hurt your emotional health, it’s the way you think about sex. A lot of the same men who identify as Incels are the same ones who define masculinity by sexual accomplishments, and with that attitude, not having sex begins to equal not being a man – and that idea could contribute to a crisis.
I want to make one thing absolutely clear: If you believe that you are suffering from depression, you need to seek help from a professional. If you used the word “depressed” more colloquially to say that you feel sad and unhappy, you may still want to discuss your feelings with a therapist, but sadness and frustration would be a normal response to being robbed of something that you view as a human right. That is obviously not what is happening to you, but emotionally you will respond to events as you experience them as opposed to how to they really took place.
Incels often talk about discrimination. A human female’s (a straight one, that is) default setting towards human males is a complete and utter lack of sexual interest or attraction. Incels do not want to accept this, so they choose to believe that women actively deselect in an act of discrimination. Being the victim of discrimination multiple times a day, being denied something that you are entitled to, and watching as the women you were meant to be fucking fuck everyone but you would be extremely upsetting. That’s not what’s going on though, so happiness can be found by shedding your voluntary delusions.
You are not entitled to sex, you don’t deserve to fuck another living creature, and the fact that 90 to 99 percent of women will never give you a second look is only to be expected. You do not need sex, and you can be happy without it."
This is what they will tell you.
Bitch please people have murdered others in the past in order to get laid and now you tell us you can be happy and fine without getting any
