
Brisy
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I´m about to narrate a real story that appeared in a podcast recently. This involves a man who is concerned about his wife´s obsession with hardmax (cosmetic surgery), and explains how that made him lose interest on her after getting married. The objective of this is giving a different perspective, so it is not the male who hardmax, is the woman. As many people thinks that hardmax is the solution for gaining terrain on the appeal area. Here are the literal words of this concerned husband:
A REAL STORY
-My wife and I have been together for three years, and honestly I don´t think I could´ve asked for a better wife because she´s a very good woman. I love the fact that she´s very traditional, but it just feels like everything has flipped upsidedown because when we first got married, she told me she has been insecure her whole life and a minor cosmetic procedure on her face would help her insecurities.
We just got married at the time and I was trying to be supportive, so I agreed for her to get some lip filler and botox on her face. I still hate myself for accepting her request that day, because after a few moths she got more and more lip fillers till it started looking scary to me, and I didn´t want to say anything because she was very happy with them. She later came to meet me and said she wanted to make an augmentation surgery (increasing breasts size). At first, I was like, no, but she keep saying that she´s doing them for me, which I don´t agree with, because I didn´t ask for it.
We argued back and forth for hours before I ended up telling her she can do it but I don´t support it. I didn´t expect her to do it, but she did. Again she was happy with how they turned out, but to me, they looked weird because my wife is a very skinny woman, so you can tell something isn´t right, because they don´t look proportional to the resto of her body.
Then, last year she said she wanted to get a BBL (Brazilian Butt Lift), and I told her I won´t be paying for it. Inmediatly, she flipped and called me insecure. I was even trying to show her an article that I read about this woman that died during her BBL procedure, but she wouldn´t listen. I even asked her to go to therapy about her body dysmorphia, but she refused and said it wouldn´t help. Then she started talking about how could she get the money herself since I didn´t want to pay for it. I told her if she ever does the surgery, she can just consider that the end of the marriage.
Since that day, she doesn´t even talk to me anymore, she just cries unnecessairly and doesn´t even let me console her. We were even planning for kids at some point, but now I´m not sure I want her to raise a child yet. I am so fed up, and I just need help. Like, how can I make my wife see that this is bad for her?. What should I say to convince her that I just want what´s best for her?.
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MY CONSIDERATION
First, I think never is enough, especially in the hardmax community, they get so hipped up with the first change they start to lose their real identity. You can say anything about the hardmax and the blackpill, but there´s a truth they all need to swallow: They are unable to build sufficient self-esteem around their appearances. They are the most insecure in the community. And in the same way, they are helpless and desperate on looking better resulting in a reality were his individual identity doesn´t match with this transformations, being totally uncanny and detached from what they aspire: An attractive human specimen. Truth is that the appeal produced in other persons is because our looks are saying that our natural composition as humans is quite decent. Putting titanium implants will never compare to a high-density human bone, doing a BBL will never compare to the jiggle of a real well developed booty, hopping on roids will not compare to a perfect hormonal balance in terms of attraction, and yet people will choose this delusional path were the end will never be defined, as well as their identity.
Thoughts on this????