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Me and this girl have been friends since around 7th grade. Back then, I didn't know she actually liked me. At the time, I was focused on another girl. Looking back, I don't even think I liked that other girl that much, but I thought she was the better choice.
The girl who liked me stayed interested in me until around the end of 7th grade, but eventually she moved on because nothing happened between us. She even helped me a little while I was dealing with my feelings for the other girl.
Then, around the middle of 8th grade, everything changed. I started catching real feelings for her. We were still friends, so I told her that I liked her and asked if she wanted to go out sometime. She told me she wasn't sure how she felt anymore. She kept saying she needed time and didn't really know what she wanted. Looking back, I think some of what she said was probably meant to make me feel better. At that time, I was completely obsessed with her. I would've done almost anything just to be with her. Eventually, I realized I wasn't acting like myself and decided to stop chasing her so much. Even after all this time, though, I still love her deeply.
Now we're at the end of 9th grade, and school is basically over. We probably won't see each other very often anymore, maybe only once in a while.
By the end of the school year, things between us had gotten much better. After everything that happened me confessing my feelings and us both getting upset we eventually became friends again.
At the end-of-year party that our friends organized, we spent quite a bit of time together. She was laughing a lot, joking around, We played volleyball together with one of her friends for a long time.
Another thing I noticed is that she used to have her Snapchat location on all the time. After all the arguments and everything that happened between us, she turned it off for about a year. After that conversation where I apologized, she turned it back on again.
Now we mostly just snap each other and send TikToks back and forth.
I honestly don't know what to think anymore. I still care about her a lot, but I can't tell if she's just being friendly or if there could still be something there.
a lil corny but ya.
The girl who liked me stayed interested in me until around the end of 7th grade, but eventually she moved on because nothing happened between us. She even helped me a little while I was dealing with my feelings for the other girl.
Then, around the middle of 8th grade, everything changed. I started catching real feelings for her. We were still friends, so I told her that I liked her and asked if she wanted to go out sometime. She told me she wasn't sure how she felt anymore. She kept saying she needed time and didn't really know what she wanted. Looking back, I think some of what she said was probably meant to make me feel better. At that time, I was completely obsessed with her. I would've done almost anything just to be with her. Eventually, I realized I wasn't acting like myself and decided to stop chasing her so much. Even after all this time, though, I still love her deeply.
Now we're at the end of 9th grade, and school is basically over. We probably won't see each other very often anymore, maybe only once in a while.
By the end of the school year, things between us had gotten much better. After everything that happened me confessing my feelings and us both getting upset we eventually became friends again.
At the end-of-year party that our friends organized, we spent quite a bit of time together. She was laughing a lot, joking around, We played volleyball together with one of her friends for a long time.
Another thing I noticed is that she used to have her Snapchat location on all the time. After all the arguments and everything that happened between us, she turned it off for about a year. After that conversation where I apologized, she turned it back on again.
Now we mostly just snap each other and send TikToks back and forth.
I honestly don't know what to think anymore. I still care about her a lot, but I can't tell if she's just being friendly or if there could still be something there.
a lil corny but ya.
