This site could do with more discussion of how to meet girls for slays or gf

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Lets discuss this in the thread, ive basically only really met girls ive slayed off tinder but I really need to start meeting girls another way. Ive been going club alone a bit recently and approaching girls there, had some success got makeouts and numbers but no P in V so far. Anyway what are some good ways I can meet some girls as final year 21 yo college student
 
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Why didn't u take it sny further than a makeout?
 
Tinder if you're a loner, bars, clubs and all kinds of past-time activities if you're socially fluent type of guy with a solid friendgroup and status.
 
Why didn't u take it sny further than a makeout?
Well ive only been out by myself twice and i documented both nights in detail in another thread, Ive been very busy with exams recently and this weekend ive got a friends birthday so im spending my time doing that but next weekend ill start going out on my own again and keep you updated on the results. The first girl i was making out asked me to come outside for a fag then basically there was some masive social cirlce of like 12 people all of a sudden i had to appease and i basially just lost her to all her friends and they pulled her away from me. Second time the girl was majorly drunk and i was completley sober so i made out with her and danced with her for like an hour then her sister was like she has to go home shes too drunk i got her number though and texted her with the intentions of meeting her the next weekend, small talked her a bit during the week, friday rolls round and she just ignores my message asking her whats shes doing and thats the end of that
Tinder if you're a loner, bars, clubs and all kinds of past-time activities if you're socially fluent type of guy with a solid friendgroup and status.
I have plenty of friends but its hard to get them to specifically come out and try and pull girls with me when they mostly have gfs. Also i honestly kinda find it easier to talk yo girls without all my mates around me and outside the context of a social cirlce since i know there rent really any recprocussions in that case of messing up the interaction
 
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Tbf there were caveats to this, also i missed out on meeting girls organically in first year of uni due to having a gf. For example the hottest girl i ever slayed I had met her in the queue to a club through a mutual friend and chatted to her plutonically for a few minutes, then like a week later she matched me on tinder and opened me saying did i meet you outside such and such place, then we chatted there for a few weeks and after that we bumped into eachother on a different night out and she basically dragged me back to her place. Thats literally happened to me once in my lifetime and i think it was genuinely just a one off fluke/frerak occurence but i guess i should be happy it happened still, she also rejected me afterwards when i wanted to see her again
 
If she made out with you for some time she very likely wants to fuck. Ask her to come to your place and order an Uber or something.
 
If she made out with you for some time she very likely wants to fuck. Ask her to come to your place and order an Uber or something.
I mean obviously that is my intention mate. IRL scenarios often have caveats that make things a lot less straightforward/simple. Ill be going out again soon and trying to get pussy
 
I mean obviously that is my intention mate. IRL scenarios often have caveats that make things a lot less straightforward/simple. Ill be going out again soon and trying to get pussy
You can also try going there with a car. Girls are open to having sex in a car. Can't drink much tho.
 
You can also try going there with a car. Girls are open to having sex in a car. Can't drink much tho.
i dont drink at all when i go out alone because i feel like if im using drugs to lower my inhib then im reliant on then and not really working on improving my inhib levels/'game'. Even though i admit its a lot harder sober, last time it took me about 40 minutes of just wondering around the club aimlessly to do my first approach. my place is closeish to the clubs, 25 min walk which i dony mind
 
i dont drink at all when i go out alone because i feel like if im using drugs to lower my inhib then im reliant on then and not really working on improving my inhib levels/'game'. Even though i admit its a lot harder sober, last time it took me about 40 minutes of just wondering around the club aimlessly to do my first approach. my place is closeish to the clubs, 25 min walk which i dony mind
I don't think I can make myself to approach sober.

Also, some girls may think it's a bit creepy if there is a guy who's completely sober trying to lay them.

I always have some Red Bull vodkas, it works great for me. I don't get drunk, just a bit buzzed.
 
But in all seriousness what about some more organic/day time sort of environments in which we can meet girls, I hate meeting girls in clubs or off tinder but it feels like my only option
I don't think I can make myself to approach sober.

Also, some girls may think it's a bit creepy if there is a guy who's completely sober trying to lay them.

I Always have some Red Bull vodkas, it works great for me.
Im not gonna tell them im sober? and yeah I agree it is, the second girl was so fucking drunk which made things a bit awkward, I figure ideally i could get their number then link them another time when were both sober
 

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