This site has killed my confidence

The blackpill killed my will to live.

Realizing that the most important value you have in life is something as genetically determined as looks is simply too brutal.
It explained to me why I mostly prefered to socialize through virtual online worlds instead of doing so irl where I was discriminated against.

Is what it is.
 
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Same. It fucked me up in the head so much that I literally thought girls were just pranking me when they asked me out.
I developed a huge complex about height (not only because of this site, I hated it even before that). Whatever. When we read here we realize we're far from Chad. But I don't think I'm too ugly for a normal life anymore. Don't be autistic. I get laughed at because of acting like an insecure gay pussy, not because my IPD is a little too small.
 
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You still need to be NT though. I don't believe what this site says about how autistic chad slays more than a normie. Simply not true. But a non-autistic chad will slay infinitely more than a normie, of course.
a mildly autistic chad can still slay, as long as he is in a position for women to approach him. if he goes to class or lectures or goes out after work etc. it doesnt really matter that he cant approach girls. if he literally doesnt go out though or hes severely antisocial to the extent that people cant talk to him at all then yeah its over, unless hes so hot they literally just molest him without him saying anything coherent lmao
 
Sorry if you responded to this before: but how would you rate yourself? Also do you have your pic here? As a life long incel I have a strong feeling that you're a high tier normie who managed to get demoralised because of some autistic teenagers who posted too many models they fantasize about.
in most aspects i unironically mog most guys. wealthy, fairly normal, find it easy to talk to girls, tall, controlled agression, can fight, fairly large frame, people comment on my muscles but im just not a twig (im actually in fairly bad shape at the moment), larger than average dick. facially though im a mess. only a couple of big, though still not death sentence halos, but im competing with a lot of very good looking guys in london. im not delusional in thinking that im super ugly, but i think ive been haloed a lot by confidence, ability to approach women, and the other aspects ive mentioned, and im worried that this realisation will take a lot of that away from me. im not the kind of guy who can slay without going out a lot and talking to a lot of women. girls approach me but only in specific settings, certain nightclubs, but i cant emphasise how easy it is in uk clubs, wouldnt happen anywhere else
 
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apart from the current girl but shes rich and i think its hot that she treats me so badly). i can guarantee i was not an incel (at least not until now)

I think you were already screwed up before this site.
 
up until this week I genuinely thought (or just presumed) I mogged everyone who wasnt conspicuously attractive. I had so much swagger and confidence. I used to look down on people tbh. now i feel like an untermensch
Send pics
 
cope, this site opens your eyes
 
When I first came her I thought I was a normal guy with a couple of specific flaws (unilateral ptosis/uee, crooked nose/deviated septum and a asymmetric jaw/face) but who was otherwise fairly attractive and got with a good number of girls. I was here for aesthetic reasons not to pick up more girls or due to insecurity/lack of confidence since coming here ive realised that basically every aspect of me is severely lacking. this has destroyed my self image. i should never have come; ive become one of you...

Bruh if you can get women... You are winner already.. People like to say its over here. They enjoy it.
 
almost all the girls ive dated are more attractive than i am. (apart from the current girl but shes rich and i think its hot that she treats me so badly). i can guarantee i was not an incel (at least not until now)

What you look like? If you get women like this.. Are you sure you are incel?
 
What you look like? If you get women like this.. Are you sure you are incel?
Im not an incel. ive never said I was. by definition that would make me not an incel
 
Im not an incel. ive never said I was. by definition that would make me not an incel

If they find you attractive.. YOu dont need worry man. I would rather listen to women than people here.
 
It has done the same to me but I recovered by taking breaks from the site. If I post here every day, I start to lose my mind, but if I log off and wait a few days, then I go back to feeling normal again.

The reason why it kills your confidence is because you are constantly getting compared to supermodels which are actually just a small minority of people. Incels worship supermodels like Franciso Lachowski, Sean O' Pry and David Gandy and wish they could look like them because they think that getting laid and/or getting into a relationship with someone who is attracted to them would fix everything.

The truth is that it won't, even though there is value in dating women and it can be fun, it should never be seen as a priority, blue pilled guys who are uglier than average maybe even a bit fat can date Stacies if they are successful in life and confident enough, I have seen it happen many times, women don't just chase good looking men, they also chase successful men who make high incomes and have a high status. Which is why FaceandLMS describes that what attracts women is mostly Looks, Money and Status (LMS), not just looks.

Since looks is part of the equation, working on your looks is important but so is your money and your status, a looksmaxxed, moneymaxxed and statusmaxxed normie will be able to attract lots of beautiful women with ease. Of course, a Chad only needs his looks but my point is that being extremely good looking isn't the only way to attract women.

Even rich guys who date gold diggers but know how to play the dating game well usually get laid a lot with lots of beautiful young women even if the men are not very good looking. And the idea that rich men can only be cucks is false, because if the rich guy isn't satisfied with a sexless relationship, he has limitless options so he can get another woman who treats him better, even if she is after his money, she will still treat him better to keep enjoying some of his wealth.

Rich men can also use their money as bait to attract women to have sex easily while not giving them anything and being very much like a Scrooge McDuck and it works. Rich men can also easily fight against false accusations with access to the best lawyers and by recording each girl's consent as evidence against her.

So even if you are normie or below, you can always ascend as long as you put the work in, the more time you waste wishing you had been born as a Chad, the less time you have to focus on ascending and the more likely you will stay the same as time goes by. Ascending is possible, it's just a matter of hard work and dedication and putting in the time to succeed.
 
Just avoid this site in large doses. A healthy dose of the blackpill will help you realize the flaws that can be fixed and motivates you to fix them. Having people spit on you, even if you're just kinda average like me, will still motivate you to your true potential.
 
If you are PSL 4.75-5+ just adopt redpill strategies while looksmaxxing on the side and you will be decently successful (as long as success doesn't mean stacylites/stacies every night). If you are below that, you got to take the blackpill and committ to a strong plan to ascend to PSL 5+. If you had ok success with normies/high-tier normies you are mostly likely in the PSL 4.75-5+ range, so quit with this lack of confidence.
 

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