Those of you who have no friends irl: how do you cope with the loneliness?

[rambocel]

Title

 

[Sprinkles]

This site is my social interaction.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

Do you have friends irl?

 

[rambocel]

Do you have friends irl?

No. I've kind of gotten used to the solitude, but every once in a while, I get overwhelmed with feelings of emptiness and sadness when I realize I am a loner, and have been one for an embarrassingly long time at that. What about you?

 

[Sprinkles]

No. I've kind of gotten used to the solitude, but every once in a while, I get overwhelmed with feelings of emptiness and sadness when I realize I am a loner, and have been one for an embarrassingly long time at that. What about you?

I haven’t had friends my entire life. My imagination and video games keep me company.

Isolation is all I’ve ever known.

 

[WeiWei]

You need to ask yourself the question of why you think you need male friends to begin with. There's zero need of male friends for me. Nothing I can do with a man I cannot do with a woman. But since I am not gay, I don't want to fuck men; I want to fuck women. A man is useless to me: no money and no sex thru his existence, so should I care if he lives or not? I don't care.

On the other hand, a woman I fuck on the regular, I can have deep convos with them and most importantly, they are USEFUL to me. They give me sex and enjoyment, fulfillment.

 

[Deleted member 30959]

i dont and it makes me insane

 

[Deleted member 30942]

I just rot

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Video games & incelosphere forums with other outcasts. I’m used to it and friends isn’t something I strive for anymore, tried for years without success

 

[Deleted member 31155]

You need to ask yourself the question of why you think you need male friends to begin with. There's zero need of male friends for me. Nothing I can do with a man I cannot do with a woman. But since I am not gay, I don't want to fuck men; I want to fuck women. A man is useless to me: no money and no sex thru his existence, so should I care if he lives or not? I don't care.

On the other hand, a woman I fuck on the regular, I can have deep convos with them and most importantly, they are USEFUL to me. They give me sex and enjoyment, fulfillment.

its because his life feels like an empty canvas and he wants to have something like a social group to compensate for it

 

[LampPostPrime]

You need to ask yourself the question of why you think you need male friends to begin with. There's zero need of male friends for me. Nothing I can do with a man I cannot do with a woman. But since I am not gay, I don't want to fuck men; I want to fuck women. A man is useless to me: no money and no sex thru his existence, so should I care if he lives or not? I don't care.

On the other hand, a woman I fuck on the regular, I can have deep convos with them and most importantly, they are USEFUL to me. They give me sex and enjoyment, fulfillment.

Thats cope humans are the most social animals in the world you need connection. U can get that through a woman but it wud have to be a serious relationship not casual sex

 

[Tabula Rasa]

No. I've kind of gotten used to the solitude, but every once in a while, I get overwhelmed with feelings of emptiness and sadness when I realize I am a loner, and have been one for an embarrassingly long time at that. What about you?

Friendships are not something I particularly care for, however, I lament the negative impacts that come alongside it, that is, lower quality of life, social status, etc.

 

[LampPostPrime]

As for op i dont lol. I talk on here and a few people online but it sucks. Its so hard to make friends irl

 

[LampPostPrime]

Friendships are not something I particularly care for, however, I lament the negative impacts that come alongside it, that is, lower quality of life, social status, etc.

Impossible humans need connection

 

[Tabula Rasa]

Impossible humans need connection

cope.. if I were wealthy with all my material needs taken care of and the ability to do whatsoever at my whim, making friends would not even cross my mind

 

[rambocel]

As for op i dont lol. I talk on here and a few people online but it sucks. Its so hard to make friends irl

Indeed. Thing is, I'm very sociable and outgoing irl, but that doesn't matter if you have no exposure to people. Once you're out of high school, it is exponentially harder to make new friends, unless you go to college ofc. I decided to immediately enter the workforce after I graduated, and the youngest person I work with directly is 27 years old. I am 19, btw. Really hard to form meaningful relationships with people who are nearly 10 years your senior

 

[Deleted member 31155]

cope.. if I were wealthy with all my material needs taken care of and the ability to do whatsoever at my whim, making friends would not even cross my mind

do you have a girlfriend?

 

[Deleted member 19499]

Posting on here. No friends, most of my family sucks, no gf/bf, etc. can really take a toll on a girl.

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Indeed. Thing is, I'm very sociable and outgoing irl, but that doesn't matter if you have no exposure to people. Once you're out of high school, it is exponentially harder to make new friends, unless you go to college ofc. I decided to immediately enter the workforce after I graduated, and the youngest person I work with directly is 27 years old. I am 19, btw

why arent u going to a college?

 

[Tabula Rasa]

do you have a girlfriend?

why do you ask?

 

[WeiWei]

Thats cope humans are the most social animals in the world you need connection. U can get that through a woman but it wud have to be a serious relationship not casual sex

Ofc I need it, I said I can get it thru women and women are useful to me potentially, men cannot be.

 

[WeiWei]

its because his life feels like an empty canvas and he wants to have something like a social group to compensate for it

OK, so he should strive for FWBs? I fucking love having FWBs when I do. I dont currently but as I said, I can have amazing convos with women. I have zero need for men irl. In fact they';re just competition so I would do anything to fuck them over.

 

[LampPostPrime]

Ofc I need it, I said I can get it thru women and women are useful to me potentially, men cannot be.

Yea but its hard to find women u can get genuine interesting convo with

 

[LampPostPrime]

OK, so he should strive for FWBs? I fucking love having FWBs when I do. I dont currently but as I said, I can have amazing convos with women. I have zero need for men irl. In fact they';re just competition so I would do anything to fuck them over.

Not sure if trolling lol

 

[LampPostPrime]

Also

>Amazing convos with women

Brutal the halo effect even applies here lol

 

[NotoriousLoser]

dont know man, im watching a lot of tv or im hanging on my laptop. time flies somehow..

 

[WeiWei]

Not sure if trolling lol

Why would I be trolling? It's true! You'll, too, get to find out irl men are only competition and foes you have ZERO need of.

 

[WeiWei]

Yea but its hard to find women u can get genuine interesting convo with

That entirely depends on if she's attracted to you or not. Women tend to adopt the personalities and hobbies of their BF's or fuckbuddies lol

 

[Ruben]

But since I am not gay

Yeah sure

 

[rambocel]

why arent u going to a college?

I struggled lots in high school. Didn't know how to study effectively, was super unconscientious; I am honestly fortunate to have graduated on time. Anyway, doing so poorly in school really fucked up my confidence, and ultimately made me decide to not pursue post-secondary education.

College really isn't a place for burnouts who haven't the slightest clue about how to be a good student. Not to mention it would also be a significant financial investment.

 

[Sprinkles]

Posting on here. No friends, most of my family sucks, no gf/bf, etc. can really take a toll on a girl.

are you a tranny maxxer?

 

[LampPostPrime]

That entirely depends on if she's attracted to you or not. Women tend to adopt the personalities and hobbies of their BF's or fuckbuddies lol

R u really saying ur having a genuine interesting convo with someone ur literally saying is larping lol

And yea exactly its why women are so boring

 

[tombradylover]

I have 2-4 friends I can occasionally hang out with. Otherwise I cope with using this forum.
It can be painful sometimes but at least I have a few friends I can see time to time

 

[Deleted member 31155]

I struggled lots in high school. Didn't know how to study effectively, was super unconscientious; I am honestly fortunate to have graduated on time. Anyway, doing so poorly in school really fucked up my confidence, and ultimately made me decide to not pursue post-secondary education.

College really isn't a place for burnouts who haven't the slightest clue about how to be a good student. Not to mention it would also be a significant financial investment.

You dont have ADHD? Learning disability? Im pretty sure in college you dont have to give a shit about what happens socially like in HS bc everyone minds their own business there. Its all about connections and meeting new people.

 

[LampPostPrime]

I have 2-4 friends I can occasionally hang out with. Otherwise I cope with using this forum.
It can be painful sometimes but at least I have a few friends I can see time to time

I used to have irl friends but problem is i didnt really relate to them

 

[rambocel]

You dont have ADHD? Learning disability? Im pretty sure in college you dont have to give a shit about what happens socially like in HS bc everyone minds their own business there. Its all about connections and meeting new people.

Conflicting evidence for adhd. One doctor said I had it, and another said I didn’t. Lol. I definitely meet the criteria from a symptoms standpoint, though.

 

[WeiWei]

R u really saying ur having a genuine interesting convo with someone ur literally saying is larping lol

And yea exactly its why women are so boring

wut

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Conflicting evidence for adhd. One doctor said I had it, and another said I didn’t. Lol. I definitely meet the criteria from a symptoms standpoint, though.

You really need treatment though. based on what you said above theres clearly some sort of an issue in ur brain. You cant visit a professional again?

 

[Jhon Smith]

Most people are lonely even women

 

[LampPostPrime]

wut

Ur literally saying they're pretending to have your interests. How is that a genuine conversation? Lmao

This is making me think ur a psychopath lol. How can u connect with someone pretending, or not see a problem with it

 

[rambocel]

You really need treatment though. based on what you said above theres clearly some sort of an issue in ur brain. You cant visit a professional again?

I do need treatment tbh. The last psych I was with said she was gonna give me stims, but she left the practice and I have to start all over again with a new person. Lol

 

[Deleted member 31155]

I do need treatment tbh. The last psych I was with said she was gonna give me stims, but she left the practice and I have to start all over again with a new person. Lol

Yep u have to start over. but once u start the treatment u will feel like a completely different person (in a good way lol)

 

[rambocel]

Yep u have to start over. but once u start the treatment u will feel like a completely different person (in a good way lol)

Yeah. My adhd has never been the main focus point with any psychiatrist I’ve been with, and I’m ngl, I think the adhd is the source of almost all of my problems

 

[Deleted member 32094]

I fucked up my prime years of making friends (Covid) and now it’s worse because ppl don’t want to be friends with a loner, like a feedback loop

I have a few people I’m familiar with and can make conversation, but I don’t get invited anywhere

Hopefully I can get a fresh start in college

 

[Deleted member 19499]

are you a tranny maxxer?

Is that a bad thing?

 

[Sprinkles]

Is that a bad thing?

no.

 

[Deleted member 19499]

no.

 

[Pikabro]

It's impossible to cope. You need regular socialisation. At least now I managed to get back into my old highschool circle and they seem to do activities pretty often. Alhamdulillah. I just need college friends and I'm set now

 

[Nick.Harte]

This site is my social interaction.

Same

 

[Deleted member 22627]

I haven’t had friends my entire life. My imagination and video games keep me company.

Isolation is all I’ve ever known.

I'd take you under my wing, show you life, but I have a feeling you'd sperg out and make my buddies and girlfriends uncomfortable and scared.