Thoughts on cold approaching and clubbing?

[Deleted member 2268]

Before I used to go out every weekend Friday and Saturday to bars and clubs to cold aporoach women. When I used to approach I noticed most normies would just stand there with their friends drinking and not talking to any girls.

Why do normies go out if they don’t approach girls? What is the point of trashing your body with alcohol and not even achieving anything? This is something I’ve never understood.

When I used to go clubbing I would get laid, not every single night but often. However over time I realized that the slays were not worth the impact of alcohol/no sleep to my gym progress and health. Drinking alcohol made me feel like shit the next day and made me gain weight. This led me ti stop going clubbing and instead use online dating to meet girls.

Recently I have been wondering if it’s worth it to get back to going out on the weekends. What do you guys think? What has your experience been at bars/clubs?

 

[Bojack]

I wish i had a car to get to some decent clubs

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I wish i had a car to get to some decent clubs

So you can waste money on gas and drinks? JFL

 

[thereallegend]

I don't drink at clubs or parties. I come with friends already, preferably female.

 

[thereallegend]

@Tylermax knows a lot about this

 

[NotoriousLoser]

alcohol is only for the kuffr(unbelievers) anyway. just islam maxx bro allah will give u a good wife bro

 

[Bojack]

So you can waste money on gas and drinks? JFL

It’s my only pathway to greatness

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I don't drink at clubs or parties. I come with friends already, preferably female.

Yeah I hate alcohol. It’s a major looksmin and waste of money

 

[Prettyboy]

If you really want to maximize results you almost have to treat it like a job (like @Amnesia did or still does), but the very least as a lifestyle

I like to visit clubs whenever I travel but I’m young, still in college. I can easily see it getting boring later on, especially if you lose the motivation to keep up the logistics for it

Ideally you would be known in your local club. Either be a promoter or know the staff, it beats being just a random guy there

 

[Deleted member 2268]

If you really want to maximize results you almost have to treat it like a job (like @Amnesia did or still does)

I like to visit clubs whenever I travel but I’m young, still in college. I can easily see it getting boring later on, especially if you lose the motivation to keep up the logistics for it

Ideally you would be known in your local club. Either be a promoter or know the staff, it beats being just a random guy there

Yup I agree when I was going hard I was approaching tons of girls and it felt like work. Your going from girl to girl looking for the DTF ones with good logistics. It can get tiring and boring especially when you’re sober. Nowadays I find this affects my overall fitness and bodybuilding so I’ve taken a break. But I will probably get back to doing it soon. The issue I had was the alcohol was a looksmin and the late nights didn’t help either. I have to replace alcohol with phenibut or Lyrica and maybe keep it to once a week.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

@JOJOcel

 

[Prettyboy]

Yup I agree when I was going hard I was approaching tons of girls and it felt like work. Your going from girl to girl looking for the DTF ones with good logistics. It can get tiring and boring especially when you’re sober. Nowadays I find this affects my overall fitness and bodybuilding so I’ve taken a break. But I will probably get back to doing it soon. The issue I had was the alcohol was a looksmin and the late nights didn’t help either. I have to replace alcohol with phenibut or Lyrica and maybe keep it to once a week.

Honestly when you are clubbing regularly it becomes the center point of your week, everything else you do , you do it only to get prepared / recover from friday night. You push yourself hard in the gym only to destory your efforts with alcohol, missed sleep and fast food, you have to have well thought out logistics (how do you get home, how does she gets home - I personally don’t like random girls sleeping at my place)

Then of course a lot of it depends what kind of clubs you are attending, there are no clubs that are the same. Each have their own demographics & music, vibe

I find clubs with themes much better than regular ones with shitty mainstream pop music. Rave places are great if you are open into that scene

I always try to avoid “oldcel clubs” , I think it was @MoggerGaston who coined the term for these places; they are clubs where there’s no specific theme, are open for everyone, so they naturally attract guys who only go there to flaunt everything they got and show off to other guys

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Honestly when you are clubbing regularly it becomes the center point of your week, everything else you do , you do it only to get prepared / recover from friday night. You push yourself hard in the gym only to destory your efforts with alcohol, missed sleep and fast food, you have to have well thought out logistics (how do you get home, how does she gets home - I personally don’t like random girls sleeping at my place)

Then of course a lot of it depends what kind of clubs you are attending, there are no clubs that are the same. Each have their own demographics & music, vibe

I find clubs with themes much better than regular ones with shitty mainstream pop music. Rave places are great if you are open into that scene

I always try to avoid “oldcel clubs” , I think it was @MoggerGaston who coined the term for these places; they are clubs where there’s no specific theme, are open for everyone, so they naturally attract guys who only go there to flaunt everything they got and show off to other guys

Yup and OLD is a much more efficient way to meet girls. Definitely can relate to it becoming a big part of your life almost like a hobby. I used to think about it all week. And you’re not guaranteed to get a lay although if you look good and approach you will get laid frequently. The biggest issues are

-waste of money
- ruins gym progress
- ruins sleep
- alcohol/lack of sleep is a looksmin
- girl has to have good logistics

Overall it’s inefficient and unhealth but drunk girls are easier to bang so it has its benefits as well. In the future I plan to replace alcohol with phenibut and go clubbing once a week max to avoid the negatives but still get the benefits

 

[Prettyboy]

Yup and OLD is a much more efficient way to meet girls. Definitely can relate to it becoming a big part of your life almost like a hobby. I used to think about it all week. And you’re not guaranteed to get a lay although if you look good and approach you will get laid frequently. The biggest issues are

-waste of money
- ruins gym progress
- ruins sleep
- alcohol/lack of sleep is a looksmin
- girl has to have good logistics

Overall it’s inefficient and unhealth but drunk girls are easier to bang so it has its benefits as well. In the future I plan to replace alcohol with phenibut and go clubbing once a week max to avoid the negatives but still get the benefits

Phenibut is an interesting drug, it doesn’t substitute alcohol but certainly can alter your state of mind

For me clubbing seems to be getting outdated. Of course clubs will always exist, but in retrospect the whole clubbing culture to me seems like an archetypically millenial thing, it probably peaked around 2005-2010.

People will always attend clubs but I‘m coming to the conclusion nowadays it’s a rather specific subgroup of girls who visit them. You are either interested in going for them or don’t, I’m increasangly don’t. They don’t bring much value to the table.

A better alternative to weekly clubbing for me are festivals. They are less frequent (less wear on your body) but still offer the same dynamics clubs do. Music is lot better , girls are equally drunk and logistics aren’t a problem

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Phenibut is an interesting drug, it doesn’t substitute alcohol but certainly can alter your state of mind

For me clubbing seems to be getting outdated. Of course clubs will always exist, but in retrospect the whole clubbing culture to me seems like an archetypically millenial thing, it probably peaked around 2005-2010.

People will always attend clubs but I‘m coming to the conclusion nowadays it’s a rather specific subgroup of girls who visit them. You are either interested in going for them or don’t, I’m increasangly don’t. They don’t bring much value to the table.

A better alternative to weekly clubbing for me are festivals. They are less frequent (less wear on your body) but still offer the same dynamics clubs do. Music is lot better , girls are equally drunk and logistics aren’t a problem

I agree completely

 

[Skywalker]

yes but if you want to slay volume you need to work there or something like that; phenibut, kratom, weed or other drugs besides alcohol can help with calorie control

 

[ambiguous]

imagine cold approaching in 2022

 

[the BULL]

imagine cold approaching in 2022

 

[Tylermax]

Went to club yesterday. I'm like you got an IG. She's like no with a hideous ugly face. I'm like alright what's your name then. And she's like yikes. And I'm like "bitch you don't even got a name? Bye". And I was like the tallest dude in the club who looked exotic. It's beyond me

 

[Tylermax]

Also grabbed another chick she didn't even look me in the eye around 5"5 midget whore and she's like "ugh no no don't touch me" lmao these hoes spend 5 hours behind a mirror to go to a club to reject dudes. It's legit over

 

[Tylermax]

And I'm not bad looking. At least tell me hey Im not interested.these bitches are legit antisocial and retarded. They can't even speak with their mouths anymore. Only their bodies work. Their minds are turned off permanently

 

[the BULL]

Went to club yesterday. I'm like you got an IG. She's like no with a hideous ugly face. I'm like alright what's your name then. And she's like yikes. And I'm like "bitch you don't even got a name? Bye". And I was like the tallest dude in the club who looked exotic. It's beyond me

Girls don't go clubbing to get approached. Only girls into electronic music go clubbing and only to dance. Girls leave the house as less as possible and only by car to move to the desired destination

 

[Tylermax]

Girls don't go clubbing to get approached. Only girls into electronic music go clubbing and only to dance. Girls leave the house as less as possible and only by car to move to the desired destination

So where do you find girls who can actually eye contact you and talk? Cuz I'm legit despised by them. I just feel they are legit npcs at this point

 

[the BULL]

So where do you find girls who can actually eye contact you and talk? Cuz I'm legit despised by them. I just feel they are legit npcs at this point

You don't past college Age it's only OLD. IRL only chads get approached

 

[Tylermax]

You don't past college Age it's only OLD. IRL only chads get approached

So how do you pull chicks past college?

 

[the BULL]

So how do you pull chicks past college?

you don't, it's a meme

 

[Deleted member 22780]

you don't, it's a meme

Brutal reality. Can confirm

 

[Deleted member 2268]

you don't, it's a meme

I have pulled many times from clubs

 

[Deleted member 2268]

.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

you could try day game

 

[the BULL]

I have pulled many times from clubs

in 2022?? miring. i haven't bothered because they told me girls had no reasons to go to clubs to get approached because they had chad avaiable anytime

 

[Deleted member 2268]

in 2022?? miring. i haven't bothered because they told me girls had no reasons to go to clubs to get approached because they had chad avaiable anytime

Yeah I’ve gotten a lot of lays from it. You just have to approach a lot of girls and find the ones that are DTF

 

[Orc]

there aren't any quality women in clubs sadly, there's plenty that you'd fuck for the night but virtually none that you'd see yourself in a relationship with, even the prettiest ones are medium term FwB at material at best.

then again I'm old.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

there aren't any quality women in clubs sadly, there's plenty that you'd fuck for the night but virtually none that you'd see yourself in a relationship with, even the prettiest ones are medium term FwB at material at best.

then again I'm old.

There’s no such thing as a quality women. Women are for sex JFL

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Also grabbed another chick she didn't even look me in the eye around 5"5 midget whore and she's like "ugh no no don't touch me" lmao these hoes spend 5 hours behind a mirror to go to a club to reject dudes. It's legit over

A lot of them get an ego boost from rejecting guys. You just have to keep approaching until you find one that’s DTF don’t take it personally. Everyone gets rejected when approaching

 

[Orc]

There’s no such thing as a quality women. Women are for sex JFL

quality means they're mentally stable enough to raise a child, and pretty enough for the child to not be ugly.

then again those also hardly exist.

 

[treveo]

Before I used to go out every weekend Friday and Saturday to bars and clubs to cold aporoach women. When I used to approach I noticed most normies would just stand there with their friends drinking and not talking to any girls.

Why do normies go out if they don’t approach girls? What is the point of trashing your body with alcohol and not even achieving anything? This is something I’ve never understood.

When I used to go clubbing I would get laid, not every single night but often. However over time I realized that the slays were not worth the impact of alcohol/no sleep to my gym progress and health. Drinking alcohol made me feel like shit the next day and made me gain weight. This led me ti stop going clubbing and instead use online dating to meet girls.

Recently I have been wondering if it’s worth it to get back to going out on the weekends. What do you guys think? What has your experience been at bars/clubs?

Dude…you don’t need booze to slay…I know guys who don’t touch liquor and gets girls…take your head out from your ass.