TIFU by taking my gf to a nudist beach

[fjor2096]

So me (24M) and my gf (22F) are on holiday in Spain, first time away in a long time and the weather is amazing. There's a nudist beach and she asked to go as we have never been to one before. I don't see the appeal but she has always been spontaneous and adventurous, one of the things I love about her, so I said okay let's go.
When I think of a nudist beach, I think of old people. Very rarely do you get a younger demographic. Sadly this time I was mistaken.
Everyone seemed younger than 30, in incredible shape with a tan, and a lot of another thing which I don't need to spell out but you can probably guess.
I kept hearing my gf gasp and whisper "oh my god". I made up an excuse so we left as my ego was getting battered, but she is annoyed and is now saying she will go back tomorrow without me.
A huge FU. Don't go there if you're even a tiny bit insecure.
TLDR: Took gf to a nude beach and she was clearly impressed by what she saw there, leaving my ego shattered.
EDIT: This post blew up and it's kinda overwhelming, I can't read all the comments. But this has made me think about the relationship as a whole.
Firstly, I agree what she did was very rude and disrespectful and kinda against the rules of a nudist beach.
Secondly, after speaking she said she wanted to go because she wanted to make me jealous and "put up a fight for her". This seems very immature to me and I said that to her and she was backing off and apologising. Not sure where to go from here but the relationship is definitely on the rocks right now. Clearly she is unhappy to think of doing something like that anyway. Idk.

 

[Deleted member 8904]

I have a 6 inch flaccid

 

[fjor2096]

This is the equivalent of a manlet taking his gf to an NBA locker room, jfl why are normies so retarded?

 

[fjor2096]

I have a 6 inch flaccid

pics or larp

 

[Tusseleif]

 

[buckchadley31]

Probably some horny cuck wrote this tale

 

[Reckless Turtle]

5337

I think you need to talk to her about that like an adult. Insecurity breeds jealousy and if she goes back with or without you, you’re likely going to do nothing but assume she’s staring at other guys or that she’ll hop on it.
Talk with her and approach her with a “hey when we went to the beach, this is how I felt and I wanted to see if we can mitigate that.” Open a dialogue with her on this and let he know that your issue wasn’t her or other people or anything like that- it was going to that beach a little under prepared mentally. Maybe you two can go again on a less nice day when there’s less people.
Every person there is there to chill. I doubt anyone’s going to say anything to either of you aside from general conversation but if you’re trapped in your own head, then that’s something to get with your girl on and work out together.
Edit: thanks much for the awards frens!
Edit2: Let me say that this conversation may lead to the end of their relationship. If they talk and things don’t work out between them, then that relationship may end.
This is about talking out his and his gf’s psycho emotional state and mental well being over one or the other being hurt/hurting the other. This is about establishing boundaries and if they can’t be met then so be it.
Even at 25, I comprehend this so them being in their early 20’s is irrelevant. We’re in a state where we can learn from stereotypes and how we expect people to act and change our thinking over this in regards to our partner.
She may just want to go to the beach and look at people though this attitude and behavior is frowned upon in nudist areas. Not everyone is out to hurt you. Just because your girl wants to see people naked, doesn’t mean she wants to ride dick. With that said, if that’s what she wants and he’s not okay with that- then that’s an established boundary and a broken one.

 

[11gaijin]

5337

I think you need to talk to her about that like an adult. Insecurity breeds jealousy and if she goes back with or without you, you’re likely going to do nothing but assume she’s staring at other guys or that she’ll hop on it.
Talk with her and approach her with a “hey when we went to the beach, this is how I felt and I wanted to see if we can mitigate that.” Open a dialogue with her on this and let he know that your issue wasn’t her or other people or anything like that- it was going to that beach a little under prepared mentally. Maybe you two can go again on a less nice day when there’s less people.
Every person there is there to chill. I doubt anyone’s going to say anything to either of you aside from general conversation but if you’re trapped in your own head, then that’s something to get with your girl on and work out together.
Edit: thanks much for the awards frens!
Edit2: Let me say that this conversation may lead to the end of their relationship. If they talk and things don’t work out between them, then that relationship may end.
This is about talking out his and his gf’s psycho emotional state and mental well being over one or the other being hurt/hurting the other. This is about establishing boundaries and if they can’t be met then so be it.
Even at 25, I comprehend this so them being in their early 20’s is irrelevant. We’re in a state where we can learn from stereotypes and how we expect people to act and change our thinking over this in regards to our partner.
She may just want to go to the beach and look at people though this attitude and behavior is frowned upon in nudist areas. Not everyone is out to hurt you. Just because your girl wants to see people naked, doesn’t mean she wants to ride dick. With that said, if that’s what she wants and he’s not okay with that- then that’s an established boundary and a broken one.

 

[Lihito]

This is the equivalent of a manlet taking his gf to an NBA locker room, jfl why are normies so retarded?

Normies are truly making their own demise

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Normies are truly making their own demise

Insha allah