Tinder/dating apps are NOT real life

[Deleted member 7580]

First of all I have no problem getting matches, even with girls who are top 10% on apps (type you see on top pics or standout section)

But most matches go nowhere, even girls who message me first and are sexual will ghost

On the other hand I get approached in clubs all the time and many times (if I’m not too drunk and she isn’t either) I will take a girl home after little bit of making out and dancing

I met this girl in a club like back in 2019 and she took me to her home and we hooked up multiple times

Matched with her on tinder last week and she didn’t even reply, even tho I look much better than 3 years ago

I’ve tried chadfishes and girls even ghost them if I try to hangout. You have to be crisick to not get ghosted .. yea girls would totally reject them irl

Inb4 autists with their Muh tinder is real life cope

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Cope tinder is real life

 

[Deleted member 20370]

yeah 90% of matches you get go absolutely nowhere.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

First of all I have no problem getting matches, even with girls who are top 10% on apps

 

[zharupodrugu]

Social circles>Tinder

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

Tinder is easier than real life

 

[tehVigilante]

A lot of girls are just there to get validation and grow their instagrams tbh

 

[MoggerGaston]

First of all I have no problem getting matches, even with girls who are top 10% on apps (type you see on top pics or standout section)

So you do well on tinder, matching toptier girls and getting messaged first. Not something average men will EVER experience even if they locationmax to SEA.

And you also do well IRL.

Aka Tinder=IRL. very nice. If you don't get shit on tinder, you wouldn't get shit IRL either.

 

[Johnnybegood]

A lot of girls are just there to get validation and grow their instagrams tbh

Some of them are for sure.

But i've seen guys of all looks levels and ages have some success on OLD.

But to consistently have success with HTB+ on Tinder you have to be minimum Chadlite otherwise whats the point

 

[Pendejo]

Nice humblebrag cunt, mogs me.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

So you do well on tinder, matching toptier girls and getting messaged first. Not something average men will EVER experience even if they locationmax to SEA.

And you also do well IRL.

Aka Tinder=IRL. very nice. If you don't get shit on tinder, you wouldn't get shit IRL either.

Matches are cope
What’s the point if they’re not gonna meet up

They’re talking to 50 guys at a same time on apps… irl they’re just talking/dancing with one person so it’s easier to take em home

 

[Deleted member 14160]

Life as Sub-Crisick. He has yet to have a single ghost ever.
Psl theory is alive and well

 

[Pendejo]

Life as Sub-Crisick.

*Sub-Maher

 

[MoggerGaston]

Matches are cope
What’s the point if they’re not gonna meet up

They’re talking to 50 guys at a same time on apps… irl they’re just talking/dancing with one person so it’s easier to take em home

It's not cope because it clearly shows you have good looks and therefore also good IRL appeal.

If you do poorly on dating-apps, it means ur ugly, which means girls IRL wont want to talk/dance with you.

IRL and online are interchangeable. Someone who does poorly online will do poorly irl, vice versa.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

*Sub-Maher

No my Maher fish was getting ghosted too

You have to be crisick in 2022

 

[tehVigilante]

So you do well on tinder, matching toptier girls and getting messaged first. Not something average men will EVER experience even if they locationmax to SEA.

And you also do well IRL.

Aka Tinder=IRL. very nice. If you don't get shit on tinder, you wouldn't get shit IRL either.

Kinda aspie vibes coming from your post, we know how shit the average looking guy is and most normies are getting sex.

Now lemme ask you one thing, how do you think this happen? Thought irl social circles, if they had this aspie thinking they would get none because on tinder they dont get shit.

Like real life is gonna be "easier" but the problem is most people here are too much of pussies to even approach even when its normal social circle, the fear of rejection is too big.

 

[aBetterMii]

No my Maher fish was getting ghosted too

You have to be crisick in 2022

Crisick mogs Maher clearas day

 

[MoggerGaston]

most normies are getting sex.

Now lemme ask you one thing, how do you think this happen? Thought irl social circles, if they had this aspie thinking they would get none because on tinder they dont get shit.

irl mixed gender social circles are a privilege that 50+% of men don't have tbh.

Study/work in male-dominated spaces? Automatically over and you are reliant on dating apps.

Like real life is gonna be "easier" but the problem is most people here are too much of pussies to even approach even when its normal social circle, the fear of rejection is too big.

Cold-approaching women is complete cope and never works.

Approaching girls in your social circle that don't show they like you will destroy the 1 asset you have as a normie which is a mixed gender social circle. self sabotage

you are the aspie here

 

[tehVigilante]

The only one delusional here is you since you never leave your basement. Your whole reality is skewed.

You're like this guys that say gym is cope cuz your too lazy to do anything productive.

There is more to life than dating apps mate.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

The only one delusional here is you since you never leave your basement. Your whole reality is skewed.

You're like this guys that say gym is cope cuz your too lazy to do anything productive.

There is more to life than dating apps mate.

Mirin reading comprehension

 

[tehVigilante]

Mirin reading comprehension

Im not gonna even gonna bother with a guy that sits at home all day and cries about Tinder =/= real life.

Isn't it obvious that it isn't true? You have to be moronic to even think that.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Im not gonna even gonna bother with a guy that sits at home all day and cries about Tinder =/= real life.

Isn't it obvious that it isn't true? You have to be moronic to even think that.

Amazing reading comprehension you curry

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

COPE

Online dating is number 1 way relationships start nowadays and presumably hook ups too(harder to get accurate data on this though)

 

[tehVigilante]

Amazing reading comprehension you curry

imagine thinking im curry

 

[forevergymcelling]

Tinder is easier than real life

this has been my experience too, and its not even close

 

[Wallenberg]

Tinder is real life if you are chad or subhuman. As a chad, you get a lot of matches, etc. on Tinder. As a subhuman, you don't get anything, just like in real life.

If you are HTN or chadlite you have a hard time on tinder.

 

[the BULL]

but when i told you about that story of that girl approaching me the day after swiping left on me you were like "girls on tinder have higher standards "

 

[Enfant terrible]

No my Maher fish was getting ghosted too

You have to be crisick in 2022

what pics did you use for that fish

 

[the BULL]

this has been my experience too, and its not even close

because it is easier to fraud pics

 

[forevergymcelling]

Tinder is real life if you are chad or subhuman. As a chad, you get a lot of matches, etc. on Tinder. As a subhuman, you don't get anything, just like in real life.

If you are HTN or chadlite you have a hard time on tinder.

More importantly, you have to have sex appeal

Tinder especially, it's all about sex appeal. Maybe less so on something like Hinge

 

[the BULL]

No my Maher fish was getting ghosted too

You have to be crisick in 2022

crisick

 

[forevergymcelling]

because it is easier to fraud pics

It doesn't matter though I still managed to fuck them all on the first date with no resistance

 

[the BULL]

It doesn't matter though I still managed to fuck them all on the first date with no resistance

once the road is open for fucking it's very unlikely they will reject you unless massive amount of faceapp. real life is another story, you need to be legit adonis to get approached or to fuck random girls.

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

Girls in real life have more standards

 

[Deleted member 7580]

this has been my experience too, and its not even close

Uk is just different

More importantly, you have to have sex appeal

Tinder especially, it's all about sex appeal. Maybe less so on something like Hinge

Idk tinder is easier than hinge ime

Girls on hinge are flakier than tinder

 

[Deleted member 7580]

crisick

He’s the only person who’s never ghosted by girls
I’m honestly mirin

 

[Prettyboy]

On tinder you increasingly have to compete with faceapped and otherwise morphed guys it’s losing touch with reality at this point, people irl look nothing like they do on their handpicked morphed pics

 

[Enfant terrible]

On tinder you increasingly have to compete with faceapped and otherwise morphed guys it’s losing touch with reality at this point, people irl look nothing like they do on their handpicked morphed pics

men fraud on high levels there but i dont think morphing is that present

 

[Deleted member 7580]

On tinder you increasingly have to compete with faceapped and otherwise morphed guys it’s losing touch with reality at this point, people irl look nothing like they do on their handpicked morphed pics

Are non psl autists really morphing their pics too

What’s the point tho ? She’d be turned off if you don’t look like your pics irl

 

[the BULL]

On tinder you increasingly have to compete with faceapped and otherwise morphed guys it’s losing touch with reality at this point, people irl look nothing like they do on their handpicked morphed pics

average guy on tinder

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Okay I’m gonna break it dow for you guys since some don’t understand

There are only really 3 ways to meet a girl either for slays or GF:

1. Social cirlce (also including work,school uni etc). This metho has the lowest looks requirement of the 3, any man other than those in the bottom 10% can probably get a gf this way if they’re lucky. The main difference between this and the two latter methods is you get very long exposure time to girls but you are exposured to a much lower number of girls. If you’re out of uni and age 22+ , you might only meet 2-4 single girls around your age per year through this method- therefore the trade off of the lower looks threshold is the lower number of girls you can meet through this method.

Method 2 online dating. Much higher looks threshold - I would say you need to be in at least the top half of men SMV wise to get anything through this method. Way less exposure time to each girl but a great number of exposures - essentially turning into a numbers game where your looks are a coefficient for how many of these girls you have any success with. The advantage of this over cold approaching is you can flex things like your physique , money, status etc more easily which can be a good crutch for those without a top tier faxe

Method 3 cold/warm approaching: basicall approaching girls in any kind of setting be it daytime or night without any prior rapport. The highest looks requirement of all because girls have their guard up in such situations - it’s also very reliant specifically on face and you don’t have the same crutches to lean on in online dating

If I had to guess I’d say method 2 is the most popular in todays society just edging out method 1. Method 3 is quite unusual still tbh but could work for some people espeically those who are low inhib + good face

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

First of all I have no problem getting matches, even with girls who are top 10% on apps (type you see on top pics or standout section)

But most matches go nowhere, even girls who message me first and are sexual will ghost

On the other hand I get approached in clubs all the time and many times (if I’m not too drunk and she isn’t either) I will take a girl home after little bit of making out and dancing

I met this girl in a club like back in 2019 and she took me to her home and we hooked up multiple times

Matched with her on tinder last week and she didn’t even reply, even tho I look much better than 3 years ago View attachment 1767521

I’ve tried chadfishes and girls even ghost them if I try to hangout. You have to be crisick to not get ghosted .. yea girls would totally reject them irl

Inb4 autists with their Muh tinder is real life cope

Ofc its not real life you are capped by the algorithm and your message wont be seen most times.

I mean i get dates off tinder but never even talked to a girl IRL.

 

[the BULL]

Are non psl autists really morphing their pics too

What’s the point tho ? She’d be turned off if you don’t look like your pics irl

most ppl realistically just get their pics touched by a photographer. then there are some crisicks too, they just try to appear as close as possible as that irl and girls tend to forgive it as they fraud too

 

[tehVigilante]

More importantly, you have to have sex appeal

Tinder especially, it's all about sex appeal. Maybe less so on something like Hinge

Half the cucks in this forum havent swallowed the sex appeal pill just yet

 

[Prettyboy]

men fraud on high levels there but i dont think morphing is that present

Are non psl autists really morphing their pics too

What’s the point tho ? She’d be turned off if you don’t look like your pics irl

Iirc I even made a thread about it recently I was watching two girls swiping on tinder and they were ridiculing guys

There were so many blatantly morphed dudes and lot of subtle ones like faceapp smooth skin or better jaw

Your average online competitor gives @Xangsane a run for his money

Autism tbh
Clubbing is still the classic and best way to meet girls for flings

 

[Blackgymmax]

Iirc I even made a thread about it recently I was watching two girls swiping on tinder and they were ridiculing guys

There were so many blatantly morphed dudes and lot of subtle ones like faceapp smooth skin or better jaw

Your average online competitor gives @Xangsane a run for his money
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Autism tbh
Clubbing is still the classic and best way to meet girls for flings

ye online dating is getting stupid. every guy and girl is using photoshop and face app for their pics Lol. alot of ugly to average at the gym i work at dont like getting their pics taken and will make any excuse not to for the sign up because theyre too used to seeing their edited pics. ive seen plenty of them come and my boys would know who they are theyd look NOTHING like they do online

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Okay I’m gonna break it dow for you guys since some don’t understand

There are only really 3 ways to meet a girl either for slays or GF:

1. Social cirlce (also including work,school uni etc). This metho has the lowest looks requirement of the 3, any man other than those in the bottom 10% can probably get a gf this way if they’re lucky. The main difference between this and the two latter methods is you get very long exposure time to girls but you are exposured to a much lower number of girls. If you’re out of uni and age 22+ , you might only meet 2-4 single girls around your age per year through this method- therefore the trade off of the lower looks threshold is the lower number of girls you can meet through this method.

Method 2 online dating. Much higher looks threshold - I would say you need to be in at least the top half of men SMV wise to get anything through this method. Way less exposure time to each girl but a great number of exposures - essentially turning into a numbers game where your looks are a coefficient for how many of these girls you have any success with. The advantage of this over cold approaching is you can flex things like your physique , money, status etc more easily which can be a good crutch for those without a top tier faxe

Method 3 cold/warm approaching: basicall approaching girls in any kind of setting be it daytime or night without any prior rapport. The highest looks requirement of all because girls have their guard up in such situations - it’s also very reliant specifically on face and you don’t have the same crutches to lean on in online dating

If I had to guess I’d say method 2 is the most popular in todays society just edging out method 1. Method 3 is quite unusual still tbh but could work for some people espeically those who are low inhib + good face

How is 3 highest looks requirement

Only reason dating apps seem easier is bcz you can message 20 girls at same time

3 is actually easier
Last weekend I hooked up with a hot redhead who was visiting my city… girls like that get 100s of matches on tinder over the weekend and don’t even reply most guys

she’s not talking to 50 guys in a bar/club/party at a same time

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

How is 3 highest looks requirement

Only reason dating apps seem easier is bcz you can message 20 girls at same time

3 is actually easier
Last weekend I hooked up with a hot redhead who was visiting my city… girls like that get 100s of matches on tinder over the weekend and don’t even reply most guys

she’s not talking to 50 guys in a bar/club/party at a same time

@Prettyboy @Blackgymmax u have experience in clubs is it easier than online? Can ethnics get girls there

 

[the BULL]

How is 3 highest looks requirement

Only reason dating apps seem easier is bcz you can message 20 girls at same time

3 is actually easier
Last weekend I hooked up with a hot redhead who was visiting my city… girls like that get 100s of matches on tinder over the weekend and don’t even reply most guys

she’s not talking to 50 guys in a bar/club/party at a same time

you also can't fraud irl
most girls became conscious
one girl's bio was "if you don't look like your pics you offer drinks until it doesn't matter ahahah"

 

[Deleted member 17829]

has anyone ever thought maybe its not a looks problem

maybe theyre just overwhelmed with thousands of matches

just be above average and play numbers game and you'll be fine.