Update: I went clubbing, got laid, got dumped, and now I'm depressed

[Pikabro]

She's the most prime example of a club girl you can imagine. Wild personality, unpredictable mood, drinks, smokes, even has a tattoo that says "YOLO". The problem isn't her, it's me. How the fuk did I ever think I could hold on to a girl like that who has a million options and why did I develop these emotions. I didn't even start getting oneitis for her until I realized I was losing her.

Party ‘girl’ at 30 with a teenage son idk

 

[ivan.kuk]

I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

nigga i swear you posted this a year ago

 

[ivan.kuk]

Where are you based bhai? Let's go clubing together.

 

[Britmaxxer]

These are the latest messages with the Ukrainian girl, it's been radio silence since



The craziest thing, an hour after I sent that last message I actually SAW HER IN REAL LIFE. I live in a big city where you might see someone you know once a year, or once every 5 years, so this is so coincidental that it seems supernatural. She was walking toward me and right by me on a crowded bridge. She was wearing black boots with heels so above 6 foot, a long black leather jacket, face full of makeup with long brown hair, and she was walking full of arrogance. She looked like an evil vampire queen. She must have seen me and had this smirk on her face. I looked down when she passed by me. She legit traumatized me.

its over

 

[isuperfy]

These are the latest messages with the Ukrainian girl, it's been radio silence since



The craziest thing, an hour after I sent that last message I actually SAW HER IN REAL LIFE. I live in a big city where you might see someone you know once a year, or once every 5 years, so this is so coincidental that it seems supernatural. She was walking toward me and right by me on a crowded bridge. She was wearing black boots with heels so above 6 foot, a long black leather jacket, face full of makeup with long brown hair, and she was walking full of arrogance. She looked like an evil vampire queen. She must have seen me and had this smirk on her face. I looked down when she passed by me. She legit traumatized me.

this feels like begging bro, I promise you she is not your future wife. Move on and find a better one brother!

 

[fetterarschtritt]

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

She is literally pimping you. This "it's just your turn" is not valid in this scenario, because you fucked it up. It's your fault she doesn't wanna fuck you anymore

 

[IncelJihadist]

I

I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

I will jerk off to that photo fuck you

 

[codeberserk]

we made fun of his son in school, don't worry

 

[iblamericky]

was over when u cried infront of her, was doomed when u tried to make a wife out of her jfl

 

[vinn98]

She is literally pimping you. This "it's just your turn" is not valid in this scenario, because you fucked it up. It's your fault she doesn't wanna fuck you anymore

Update: She said she missed me and came over 2 weeks ago. We had sex all night. She's coming over this weekend and she made me buy her Apple earphones for Christmas which cost 250 euros to "prove I love her".

 

[vinn98]

this feels like begging bro, I promise you she is not your future wife. Move on and find a better one brother!

Update above

 

[vinn98]

 

[vinn98]

 

[Niko.]

Mirin setup

 

[Chadeep]

Update: She said she missed me and came over 2 weeks ago. We had sex all night. She's coming over this weekend and she made me buy her Apple earphones for Christmas which cost 250 euros to "prove I love her".

Brutal

 

[fetterarschtritt]

Update: She said she missed me and came over 2 weeks ago. We had sex all night. She's coming over this weekend and she made me buy her Apple earphones for Christmas which cost 250 euros to "prove I love her".

Means that the dude she was fucking in the meantime doesn't give a shit about her.
The first time he gives her a kiss on the forehead before sleep, she's ghosting you again

 

[vinn98]

Means that the dude she was fucking in the meantime doesn't give a shit about her.
The first time he gives her a kiss on the forehead before sleep, she's ghosting you again

This is brutal because the last meeting went well, but she only wants to see me again this weekend which is 2 weeks later. I don't know wtf she was doing in the meantime or who she was with. For all I know this could be the last time we meet and she ghosts me again.

I sent my grandma a picture of the rings she's wearing on her finger and my grandma says she's 100% certain it's an engagement and wedding ring.

 

[fetterarschtritt]

This is brutal because last meeting went well, but she only wants to see me again this weekend which is 2 weeks later. I don't know wtf she was doing in the meantime or who she was with. For all I know this could be the last time we meet and she ghosts me again.

I wish you good luck G

 

[vinn98]

Another detail, she had a new phone when she came, the newest Iphone. I looked up the price and it's 1200 euros. There's no fucking way she could afford that, because she's poor and has a low wage job, and her old phone still works fine. My only conclusion is she was also dating another guy recently who bought her that phone, and then she got me to buy her the earphones

 

[vinn98]

Means that the dude she was fucking in the meantime doesn't give a shit about her.
The first time he gives her a kiss on the forehead before sleep, she's ghosting you again

I did exactly that last time and told her I fucking love her.

 

[fetterarschtritt]

I did exactly that last time and told her I fucking love her.

You shouldn't have, sounds like you are "plan b". Now she knows you are her little thing and whatever happens, she can always come back to you.

 

[fetterarschtritt]

Update: She said she missed me and came over 2 weeks ago. We had sex all night. She's coming over this weekend and she made me buy her Apple earphones for Christmas which cost 250 euros to "prove I love her".

Just read that again, thought she bought you shit for 250 to show you that she cares. You paid 250? Cheaper than fucking a hooker all night but remember that the other dude fucked her for free and probably had skid marks in his toilet.

Not saying you should leave her, but yeah she's leading you on. Keep fucking her but try to find someone else in the process

 

[andy9432]

If u need to resort to betabuxing to keep her. She was never primally attracted to you in the first place.

 

[vinn98]

Just read that again, thought she bought you shit for 250 to show you that she cares. You paid 250? Cheaper than fucking a hooker all night but remember that the other dude fucked her for free and probably had skid marks in his toilet.

Not saying you should leave her, but yeah she's leading you on. Keep fucking her but try to find someone else in the process

Tbh I suspect she has a boyfriend or husband and I'm the guy she's cheating with. She's literally wearing a wedding and engagement ring on her finger, but I don't want want to ask about it because I don't want to rock the boat. She said she's going back to Kyiv for New Year's, and when I asked what she's going to do there she became quiet and uncomfortable. I think she's hiding something from me.

 

[fetterarschtritt]

Tbh I suspect she has a boyfriend or husband and I'm the guy she's cheating with. She's literally wearing a wedding and engagement ring on her finger, but I don't want want to ask about it because I don't want to rock the boat. She said she's going back to Kyiv for New Year's, and when I asked what she's going to do there she became quiet and uncomfortable. I think she's hiding something from me.

Fuck you