Tinder is Easy! IRL is Nightmare Mode

[DivineBeing]

Tinder:

On Tinder, getting a meeting is easy. It's just a swipe and asking to meet in a location you can choose. There are hundreds of girls to choose from, too.

During the meeting, you fraud hard. You can wear make-up, tell a narrative about yourself that's most favourable and find out within minutes whether a girl is attracted or not. On Tinder dates the intention is clear as well, both want to get laid so there's no awkwardness escalating or asking to go home together. You can get laid on the same date as the first date (always happened to me if I got laid)

IRL:

Getting laid IRL is nightmare mode. Whether it is social circle, clubs or bars.

Social Circle takes impossibly long and the mindgames that need to be played are too confusing and simply not worth it.

In Clubs or Bars, it's frame + height or nothing. As a 5'10 twink, it was therefore over for me. 6'3 RTT only.

 

[hebbewem]

I cant get neither

 

[Deleted member 3055]

This comes from an internal issue, the belief that you are not good enough to be wanted
on online apps intentions are clear and chances are, before the meeting, she already stated she wants you.
however in real life there is no validation and confirmation, you are on your own, and you most likely have to put yourself out there to find out whether girls want you or not. obviously if you are gigachad they may approach but thats not the case most of the time, even if you are gl

i do very good online but an irl social interaction is always death tier ptsd inducing event
its over

 

[DivineBeing]

This comes from an internal issue, the belief that you are not good enough to be wanted
on online apps intentions are clear and chances are, before the meeting, she already stated she wants you.
however in real life there is no validation and confirmation, you are on your own, and you most likely have to put yourself out there to find out whether girls want you or not. obviously if you are gigachad they may approach but thats not the case most of the time, even if you are gl

i do very good online but an irl social interaction is always death tier ptsd inducing event
its over

yes it's over irl if you are an abused dog like us

 

[Deleted member 3055]

yes it's over irl if you are an abused dog like us

i am indeed an abused dog irl and i realized i cannot cheat life by just going online and avoiding irl interactions.
the type of girls to text me first online are exactly the type i fear to talk to irl. even if i respond to them online and eventually meet, it does not give me fulfillment and sense of improvement. real ascending is going to a bar and picking up random whores

 

[DivineBeing]

i am indeed an abused dog irl and i realized i cannot cheat life by just going online and avoiding irl interactions.
the type of girls to text me first online are exactly the type i fear to talk to irl. even if i respond to them online and eventually meet, it does not give me fulfillment and sense of improvement. real ascending is going to a bar and picking up random whores

damn what kind of girls are you scared of?

 

[Deleted member 3055]

damn what kind of girls are you scared of?

groups nigga. meeting with a girl solo i am perfectly capable of. i can put on my most attractive intellectual gigachad mask and present myself as if i dont actually despise living on this gay earth. but walking into a place where i dont know anyone and seeing a group of 8 attractive girls talking to each other, and i am supposed to join the conversation? ptsd inducing nigga, get me out of there tbh

 

[DivineBeing]

groups nigga. meeting with a girl solo i am perfectly capable of. i can put on my most attractive intellectual gigachad mask and present myself as if i dont actually despise living on this gay earth. but walking into a place where i dont know anyone and seeing a group of 8 attractive girls talking to each other, and i am supposed to join the conversation? ptsd inducing nigga, get me out of there tbh

yeah i met a girl who was a in group once it ruined my whole life i was bullied and mocke and abused by other girls calling me ugly

rather not go into groups of girls

 

[Kroker]

yeah i met a girl who was a in group once it ruined my whole life i was bullied and mocke and abused by other girls calling me ugly

rather not go into groups of girls

How is it possible that a Walmart version of Zac Cocks is being mocked and called ugly? Larping or tales?

 

[DivineBeing]

How is it possible that a Walmart version of Zac Cocks is being mocked and called ugly? Larping or tales?

doesn't matter how gl you are unless you're 6'4 PSL 6 with 24 bidelt some girl will find you ugly

i was 5'10 so that itself disqualified me

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

groups nigga. meeting with a girl solo i am perfectly capable of. i can put on my most attractive intellectual gigachad mask and present myself as if i dont actually despise living on this gay earth. but walking into a place where i dont know anyone and seeing a group of 8 attractive girls talking to each other, and i am supposed to join the conversation? ptsd inducing nigga, get me out of there tbh

this times 100- I can flirt really well on 1 on 1 dates. In a bar theres all her foid friends to navigate, your own social cirelce to worry about etc; its so much more complicated

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Tinder:

On Tinder, getting a meeting is easy. It's just a swipe and asking to meet in a location you can choose. There are hundreds of girls to choose from, too.

During the meeting, you fraud hard. You can wear make-up, tell a narrative about yourself that's most favourable and find out within minutes whether a girl is attracted or not. On Tinder dates the intention is clear as well, both want to get laid so there's no awkwardness escalating or asking to go home together. You can get laid on the same date as the first date (always happened to me if I got laid)

IRL:

Getting laid IRL is nightmare mode. Whether it is social circle, clubs or bars.

Social Circle takes impossibly long and the mindgames that need to be played are too confusing and simply not worth it.

In Clubs or Bars, it's frame + height or nothing. As a 5'10 twink, it was therefore over for me. 6'3 RTT only.

IRL is easy. Got so many more ways to showcase yourself and hook them. Only so much you can convey through a profile. And how could tinder be easy if real life is hard when you gotta meet irl to seal the deal anyways?

 

[Anyanglover]

I think this depends on the person.yeah i got tinder matches though i should’ve used better photos than cellphone shots with my sis as the photographer and I should of not been shaven bald and also been shaven in the face but i felt these women just wanted to match me for validation cuz if I message them they don’t reply tho this is the norm even for pretty women like my sis.Inguess it’s just tinder culture unless you’re a male model.also im five foot five if women knew that I’d gotten zero matches.Inactually have had women that want to date me wherever i met them but I don’t meet them anywhere which is why i tried old.i also can show off my body irl and pics always make me look worse.too much competition.also old only works for white men.and data says women swipe only on two percent of men.

 

[DivineBeing]

IRL is easy. Got so many more ways to showcase yourself and hook them. Only so much you can convey through a profile. And how could tinder be easy if real life is hard when you gotta meet irl to seal the deal anyways?

on Tinder there is much less exposure so you can create a false reality and maintain it easier. Social Circles there's long exposure so that option is out of the question.

On Tinder you already know the girl likes you, whereas in bars/ clubs it's hard to tell unless you're getting approached and even then it's uncertain what will happen.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

IRL is easy. Got so many more ways to showcase yourself and hook them. Only so much you can convey through a profile. And how could tinder be easy if real life is hard when you gotta meet irl to seal the deal anyways?

because its easy to flirt and esclate with a girl when you know shes already attracted to you by the virtue of the fact she met you for a date. IRL you know if youre a normie that most girls wont find you attractive, so even when some girls are theres much more self doubt which creeps in and makes it harder to esclate things

 

[Deleted member 275]

IRL is easy. Got so many more ways to showcase yourself and hook them. Only so much you can convey through a profile. And how could tinder be easy if real life is hard when you gotta meet irl to seal the deal anyways?

He explain exactly why online is easier.

You get to isolate her 1on1, you can portray yourself much easier in the exact way you want for the date, and you already know there's interest before you interact meaning you can more easily have a more aggressive/flirty personality with her from the start.

 

[Deleted member 275]

I agree with OP, almost all my lays are from online.

Clubs/Festivals/Parties are way more hypergameous than Tinder which is already really bad tbh.

The only advantage that IRL has is that you can hit on intoxicated girls which are easier to fuck than sober girls.

 

[Anyanglover]

because its easy to flirt and esclate with a girl when you know shes already attracted to you by the virtue of the fact she met you for a date. IRL you know if youre a normie that most girls wont find you attractive, so even when some girls are theres much more self doubt which creeps in and makes it harder to esclate things

You gotta be white to get action off old and at least five ten.also women swipe only on two percent of men.and hypergamy is thru the roof.bars and clubs aren’t the only avenues to met women irl

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You gotta be white to get action off old and at least five ten.also women swipe only on two percent of men.and hypergamy is thru the roof.bars and clubs aren’t the only avenues to met women irl

im 5'11 but jsut fraud my height to 6'0 on my bio and i never get called out for it- I do alrite but not exactly a massive slayer - msotly low quality girls

 

[Deleted member 15099]

Tinder:

On Tinder, getting a meeting is easy. It's just a swipe and asking to meet in a location you can choose. There are hundreds of girls to choose from, too.

During the meeting, you fraud hard. You can wear make-up, tell a narrative about yourself that's most favourable and find out within minutes whether a girl is attracted or not. On Tinder dates the intention is clear as well, both want to get laid so there's no awkwardness escalating or asking to go home together. You can get laid on the same date as the first date (always happened to me if I got laid)

IRL:

Getting laid IRL is nightmare mode. Whether it is social circle, clubs or bars.

Social Circle takes impossibly long and the mindgames that need to be played are too confusing and simply not worth it.

In Clubs or Bars, it's frame + height or nothing. As a 5'10 twink, it was therefore over for me. 6'3 RTT only.

Your fucking retarded.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

on Tinder there is much less exposure so you can create a false reality and maintain it easier. Social Circles there's long exposure so that option is out of the question.

On Tinder you already know the girl likes you, whereas in bars/ clubs it's hard to tell unless you're getting approached and even then it's uncertain what will happen.

Only losers need to rely on a false reality. Same goes for social circles.

In a bar all you gotta do to figure out if a girl likes you or not is impose on her a little bit but don't buy her anything.

 

[DivineBeing]

Your fucking retarded.

it's over for you if you get 0 matches buddybody

irl is nightmare mode

 

[DivineBeing]

Only losers need to rely on a false reality. Same goes for social circles.

In a bar all you gotta do to figure out if a girl likes you or not is impose on her a little bit but don't buy her anything.

bar and clubs is not possible for high inhibcels like me

if i get rejected once in a bar i'd have to go home and rot for 1 week to recover

 

[Deleted member 15099]

it's over for you if you get 0 matches buddybody

irl is nightmare mode

Bro you need to be put down

 

[Deleted member 275]

In a bar all you gotta do to figure out if a girl likes you or not is impose on her a little bit but don't buy her anything.

I've found that girls in bars reject me faster than they can swipe left on me on tinder.

They seem to have incredibly high standards and are completely unimpressed by sub-chads approaching them tbh.

Also if they are with female friends, then approaching literally never works.

 

[Tusseleif]

Yes there are so many people on tinder, everyone knows about it and it’s where everyone goes. On there you will find all kinds of girls that you are interested in so it’s just to meet up with them. Online dating is pretty easy actually

 

[Deleted member 12002]

because its easy to flirt and esclate with a girl when you know shes already attracted to you by the virtue of the fact she met you for a date. IRL you know if youre a normie that most girls wont find you attractive, so even when some girls are theres much more self doubt which creeps in and makes it harder to esclate things

No, I'm talking about the part before you agree to go on a date.

What's so hard about figuring out if a girl likes you? There's a formula for that. If you think she might then push the envelope with her a bit. The problem with dudes like you is you agonize over whether she does or not. Instead of seeing if you can escalate with her you waste time going online and asking other dudes "what does it mean if she bla bla bla?" It's very simple really.

 

[Anyanglover]

Yes there are so many people on tinder, everyone knows about it and it’s where everyone goes. On there you will find all kinds of girls that you are interested in so it’s just to meet up with them. Online dating is pretty easy actually

Opinions from white tall chads https://hastyreader.com/why-tinder-sucks/ this is the truth with raw numbers end of thread

 

[Prettyboy]

if i get rejected once in a bar i'd have to go home and rot for 1 week to recover

That’s so me.

I’d rather not approach at all if I am not 110% certain it will be a success

Being the narcy I am I cannot take rejection in any form so I had times when I ldared for days after a rejection in club

Every rejection puts me into a full introspective self doubt mode in which I question my existence

 

[Deleted member 12002]

bar and clubs is not possible for high inhibcels like me

if i get rejected once in a bar i'd have to go home and rot for 1 week to recover

Gotta figure out a way to stop caring one way or another.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

You just do it. Many guys have problems going on the first date. They overthink it. You just do it! If it works out, great; if it doesn't, move the fuck on! Women are deliberately unpredictable. It's not that they're complicating. On the contrary, they're simple-minded. But they make themselves confounding, so you'll never learn about their weaknesses, imperfections, anything that could be used against her.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

He explain exactly why online is easier.

You get to isolate her 1on1, you can portray yourself much easier in the exact way you want for the date, and you already know there's interest before you interact meaning you can more easily have a more aggressive/flirty personality with her from the start.

Isolate a girl online? How does that work?

You can only portray yourself easier online if you got something terrible to hide. Otherwise you got so many more cards to play when you find yourself face to face with a person.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Isolate a girl online? How does that work?

You can only portray yourself easier online if you got something terrible to hide. Otherwise you got so many more cards to play when you find yourself face to face with a person.

You isolate her in a 1on1 conversation and subsequently a 1on1 date.

IRL you always have other people around. Whether it's her friends or people from the social setting that will interfere with your interaction.

Also you don't need something terrible to hide lol. If you you don't have many friends or have low-value friends only then that's already something worth hiding.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

You isolate her in a 1on1 conversation and subsequently a 1on1 date.

IRL you always have other people around. Whether it's her friends or people from the social setting that will interfere with your interaction.

Also you don't need something terrible to hide lol. If you you don't have many friends or have low-value friends only then that's already something worth hiding.

For one thing, you shouldn't let a girl bring her friends on a date with you. As for other people from a particular social setting interfering with you, that's just an opportunity to showcase how well you deal with people/enforce your boundaries.

Having no friends is nothing to hide. It's never hurt me any. I think it's all to do with how you feel about it. If you're sheepish about it then yeah, you're gonna look like a loser. I've always used it to create intrigue. If you're good with people but have no friends it just makes you more interesting. I guess it boils down to why you have no friends. Is it by choice? Still though, you can fake your reasoning behind just about anything.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

That’s so me.

I’d rather not approach at all if I am not 110% certain it will be a success

Being the narcy I am I cannot take rejection in any form so I had times when I ldared for days after a rejection in club

Every rejection puts me into a full introspective self doubt mode in which I question my existence

yeah i got rejected a few times on firday - feeling quite sui now, I mean if i approached more i probabyl would have more succdess, but is the ratio of rejections to success worth it? for the toll it will take on my mental health

 

[DivineBeing]

yeah i got rejected a few times on firday - feeling quite sui now, I mean if i approached more i probabyl would have more succdess, but is the ratio of rejections to success worth it? for the toll it will take on my mental health

no just rot

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Co

Tinder:

On Tinder, getting a meeting is easy. It's just a swipe and asking to meet in a location you can choose. There are hundreds of girls to choose from, too.

During the meeting, you fraud hard. You can wear make-up, tell a narrative about yourself that's most favourable and find out within minutes whether a girl is attracted or not. On Tinder dates the intention is clear as well, both want to get laid so there's no awkwardness escalating or asking to go home together. You can get laid on the same date as the first date (always happened to me if I got laid)

IRL:

Getting laid IRL is nightmare mode. Whether it is social circle, clubs or bars.

Social Circle takes impossibly long and the mindgames that need to be played are too confusing and simply not worth it.

In Clubs or Bars, it's frame + height or nothing. As a 5'10 twink, it was therefore over for me. 6'3 RTT only.

COPE, it’s the other way around mate. Irl is easy FAR EASIER than online dating, IRL I can pull 7s on tinder all I get is 4s and 5s fuck thatb

 

[DivineBeing]

Co

COPE, it’s the other way around mate. Irl is easy FAR EASIER than online dating, IRL I can pull 7s on tinder all I get is 4s and 5s fuck thatb

you're just an outlier

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

you're just an outlier

Nar it’s the truth. Online dating is super hard man, IRL I grab stacylites and they kiss me. On tinder I get left on read and ghosted

 

[Beetlejuice]

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

How is online supposed to be easier you utter dog? Is everyone here a white Chadlite or something

 

[Lawton88]

bar and clubs is not possible for high inhibcels like me

if i get rejected once in a bar i'd have to go home and rot for 1 week to recover

Just make sure she is into you before approaching and if you aren't sure if she is or not buy her a drink and she will usually give clear signals then if you pay attention.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

How is online supposed to be easier you utter dog? Is everyone here a white Chadlite or something

He’s cappin hard. Online is super harder due to women standards being put into hyperdrive

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Just make sure she is into you before approaching and if you aren't sure if she is or not buy her a drink and she will usually give clear signals then if you pay attention.

Shit advice @DivineBeing do not buy the slut a drink (cuck move ), try to talk to the girl by whispering in her ear watch how she touches you and responds if she is very touchy then Make a move

 

[DivineBeing]

How is online supposed to be easier you utter dog? Is everyone here a white Chadlite or something

it is and many users agree

IRL is impossible

online is fast, easy and convenient

 

[Lawton88]

Shit advice @DivineBeing do not buy the slut a drink (cuck move ), try to talk to the girl by whispering in her ear watch how she touches you and responds if she is very touchy then Make a move

Just to clarify how I handle bar situations is I never buy a woman a drink unless I know she is interested by what she is doing or it's one of those rare cases I can't pin down if she is or not but I think it might be useful for guys that struggle picking up on that.

 

[DivineBeing]

Just to clarify how I handle bar situations is I never buy a woman a drink unless I know she is interested by what she is doing or it's one of those rare cases I can't pin down if she is or not but I think it might be useful for guys that struggle picking up on that.

i once insisted on buying a girl a drink she didn't want me to it was embarassing in hindsight

people like me aren't even allowed to buy drinks

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

i once insisted on buying a girl a drink she didn't want me to it was embarassing in hindsight

people like me aren't even allowed to buy drinks

Good at least she never led you on, only buy her a drink if you know she’ll at least kiss or touch your PP. never use your money on a whore

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

it is and many users agree

IRL is impossible

online is fast, easy and convenient

If you look good sure
If you are below htn it's better to run nt game irl, correct me if I'm wrong

 

[DivineBeing]

Good at least she never led you on, only buy her a drink if you know she’ll at least kiss or touch your PP. never use your money on a whore

yep agree i only get girls buying me drinks nowadays but still can't get laid

at least i don't spend money on anyone (even on dates i want to pay for dinner because i'm a subhuman basically paying for a girls time but i can't because of my face)