Tinder makes me depressed

Why would you think I’m a woman?
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I’m trying to increase my options to have a higher chance of getting a long term relationship. Plus I feel like if I go for those okayish options I’ll be tempted to cheated on him with a bbc Tyrone or some 6’6 blonde white chad who would never commit to me unless if I give him sex early. This is the looksmax forum so I am trying to looksmax to increase my options. Is that a crime or something? Jeezz
@Red Fox @5.5psl I tried genderswapping this quote too, thoughts?
 
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That's an easy fix if done right. Your problem really is somewhere else. How tall are you and how big is your penis
I’m 5’10 and my dick is 6.2 inches erect
 
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I’m 5’10 and my dick is 6.2 inches erect
Women are gonna expect you to be bigger. That depends on how masculine you look though. I guess if you are a prettyboy 6-6.5 inches is good. But if not, you need to be 7 inches. So start dickmaxxing.
 
I get a lot of matches on tinder and alot women messaging me first but it makes me depressed because these women are below my looks level. It’s mainly landwhales and really ugly women mostly. I have matched with some moderately attractive women but those women never message me first and usually they don’t reply alot of the time. Today I had a conversation with a a 7/10 girl on tinder who isn’t a robot and it just seems strange to me because I’m so used to landwhales or foreign women from another country talking to me.

I thought I was a handsome 7 or 8 out of 10 but I guess I’m just not. The only way I get treated like chad is if I change my location to some ethnic country where I’ll be the only white guy. Every time a fat woman sends me heart eyes and compliments me on tinder it makes me want to cry. All I wanted was a 6/10 or 7/10 out of 10 Becky, my only option is plastic surgery and gymmaxing I guess. I would have a better chance of winning the lottery than dating a 6/10 white girl.
Stopped reading at "i get a lot of matches"
You're just a normie standardcel, accept what you can get and be thankful at least some foids are willing to date you
 
What are you on psl scale ?
MTN/htn/chadlite/chad ?
I’ve had good looking women (8/10) compliment me on my looks in real life but after the age of 21 I feel like I kept getting those compliments less often. If I had to take a guess I’d say I’m a chadlite. Good jawline, strong compact midface, I think my nose may be slightly off putting when I smile but when I’m not smiling it looks normal. I have straight teeth. I can grow a full beard. I don’t go out in public much or at all real, I just stay in my house and work from home. I’m too afraid to approach women in real life because I’ve been rejected 4 times in real life. I’ve seen men who are uglier than me with girls that I would consider dating but I’m not sure those guys are betabux or jestermaxxing. Some pictures I look great but other pictures I don’t look that good.
 
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I’ve had good looking women (8/10) compliment me on my looks in real life but after the age of 21 I feel like I kept getting those compliments less often. If I had to take a guess I’d say I’m a chadlite. Good jawline, strong compact midface, I think my nose my be slightly off putting when I smile but when I’m not smiling it looks normal. I have straight teeth. I can grow a full beard. I don’t go out in public much or at all real, I just stay in my house and work from home. I’m too afraid to approach women in real life because I’ve been rejected 4 times in real life. Im seen men who are uglier than me with girls that I would consider dating but I’m not sure those guys are betabux or jestermaxxing. Some pictures look great but other pictures I don’t look that good.
I can't fuckin beleive this rant post was made by a chadlite
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Why don’t you looksmax or accept ur fate by killing yourself
Bro do you know how rare that shit is in America ? It is literally like matching with a unicorn and then that unicorn goes home and fucks a bbc Tyrone that isn’t me.
 
I get a lot of matches on tinder and alot women messaging me first but it makes me depressed because these women are below my looks level. It’s mainly landwhales and really ugly women mostly. I have matched with some moderately attractive women but those women never message me first and usually they don’t reply alot of the time. Today I had a conversation with a a 7/10 girl on tinder who isn’t a robot and it just seems strange to me because I’m so used to landwhales or foreign women from another country talking to me.

I thought I was a handsome 7 or 8 out of 10 but I guess I’m just not. The only way I get treated like chad is if I change my location to some ethnic country where I’ll be the only white guy. Every time a fat woman sends me heart eyes and compliments me on tinder it makes me want to cry. All I wanted was a 6/10 or 7/10 out of 10 Becky, my only option is plastic surgery and gymmaxing I guess. I would have a better chance of winning the lottery than dating a 6/10 white girl.
Just leave what are u waiting for
 
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I’ve had good looking women (8/10) compliment me on my looks in real life but after the age of 21 I feel like I kept getting those compliments less often. If I had to take a guess I’d say I’m a chadlite. Good jawline, strong compact midface, I think my nose may be slightly off putting when I smile but when I’m not smiling it looks normal. I have straight teeth. I can grow a full beard. I don’t go out in public much or at all real, I just stay in my house and work from home. I’m too afraid to approach women in real life because I’ve been rejected 4 times in real life. I’ve seen men who are uglier than me with girls that I would consider dating but I’m not sure those guys are betabux or jestermaxxing. Some pictures I look great but other pictures I don’t look that good.
 
Get off tinder then lol . I was matching normie women on hinge and going on dates . Bumble and hinge are generally better imo for getting looksmatch
Imo just leave all those apps and go chasing IRL so u wont have the suifuel first date expectation thinking anxiously and stressed "I hope i will look as good and as tall as my photos to her eyes", nothing sane can come in this chronic behavior except teasing the norwood reaper demon
 
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Why don’t you looksmax or accept ur fate by killing yourself
I live with my parents and I’m afraid about them finding out about my plastic surgery
 
Imo just leave all those apps and go chasing IRL so u wont have the suifuel first date expectation thinking anxiously and stressed "I hope i will look as good and as tall as my photos to her eyes", nothing sane can come in this chronic behavior except teasing the norwood reaper demon
Nah disagree. Apps are the easiest way to get dates by far. You don’t need to go through cold approaching with a shit percentage of girls that like you. Even slayers will have less than 50% of girls that like them. Apps make it way easier to find girls that like you assuming you are somewhat attractive online.
 
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Dude I'm with you. My results dating wise have completely gone down the shitter. Nothing changed except hypergamy increasing quicker than I could self improve.

@Amnesia literal model Chad made a thread how some MTB used him for free dinner.

Dating in America is completely destroyed because of obesity. Fat women only dating non fat guys. It's over. Not worth it.

I also remember @Deusmaximus making a thread like this recently. It's easy to get matches but incredibly hard to get dates. I get more matches nowadays but less dates.
 
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Nah disagree. Apps are the easiest way to get dates by far. You don’t need to go through cold approaching with a shit percentage of girls that like you. Even slayers will have less than 50% of girls that like them. Apps make it way easier to find girls that like you assuming you are somewhat attractive online.
Not for hypersensitive HPI guys like me with Asperger syndrom, we dont face serial rejection in the same way
 
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Not for hypersensitive HPI guys like me with Asperger syndrom, we dont face serial rejection in the same way
Mirin ngl. I got the shittier version of autism
 
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I’ve had good looking women (8/10) compliment me on my looks in real life but after the age of 21 I feel like I kept getting those compliments less often. If I had to take a guess I’d say I’m a chadlite. Good jawline, strong compact midface, I think my nose may be slightly off putting when I smile but when I’m not smiling it looks normal. I have straight teeth. I can grow a full beard. I don’t go out in public much or at all real, I just stay in my house and work from home. I’m too afraid to approach women in real life because I’ve been rejected 4 times in real life. I’ve seen men who are uglier than me with girls that I would consider dating but I’m not sure those guys are betabux or jestermaxxing. Some pictures I look great but other pictures I don’t look that good.
Chadlite doesn’t struggle on tinder. Jfl at this autist over-rating himself to feel better.
 
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Dude I'm with you. My results dating wise have completely gone down the shitter. Nothing changed except hypergamy increasing quicker than I could self improve.

@Amnesia literal model Chad made a thread how some MTB used him for free dinner.

Dating in America is completely destroyed because of obesity. Fat women only dating non fat guys. It's over. Not worth it.
Looksmax for fun I guess? Just ltr, slaying is over with sun chadlite
 
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Lighter version of yours prob. High functioning. I’m going to a psychiatrist soon.
I am close to that as well with a chronic determinism and existancial crisis induced depression, even if i win at life in some way making my life on the rails i will probably will never be happy because i don't find any purpose or goal to existence in this today world, everything is so sanitized and disconnected from the natural balance
 
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I am close to that as well with a chronic determinism and existancial crisis induced depression, even if i win at life in some way making my life on the rails i will probably will never be happy because i don't find any purpose or goal to existence in this today world, everything is so sanitized and disconnected from the natural balance
Feel the same way man. We as men were taught to do the normal bluepill shit and we learned it wasn’t as fufilling as it was made out to be. Me personally I’m just going through the motions when it comes to normie things. Surgery maxxing is the only thing I’m focused on right now because I know it will actually benefit me and make my life quality better.
 
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Feel the same way man. We as men were taught to do the normal bluepill shit and we learned it wasn’t as fufilling as it was made out to be. Me personally I’m just going through the motions when it comes to normie things. Surgery maxxing is the only thing I’m focused on right now because I know it will actually benefit me and make my life quality better.
The true blackpill is that u need a developed hedonistic existence and view to cope the void of ur existence, all we do through looksmaxxing, video games and so on are just there to nourish our hedonistic patterns in order to cope
 
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Also op you are literally typing like a foid
Muh I get so many matches on tinder but all the men are so fuckin ugly I just can't ...
But those are legit ugly women he is mad about not average or looksmatched ones. Women want guys out of their league, not on par with them or slightly above them.
 
But those are legit ugly women he is mad about not average or looksmatched ones. Women want guys out of their league, not on par with them or slightly above them.
Thank god someone finally is agreeing with what I’m saying. You don’t have to be a full blown truecel to be pissed off with the dating market. That’s why I’m getting plastic surgery.
 
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The true blackpill is that u need a developed hedonistic existence and view to cope the void of ur existence, all we do through looksmaxxing, video games and so on are just there to nourish our hedonistic patterns in order to cope
I used to cope with video games but for some reason my attention span is so low that i cant even focus for 5 seconds.
I spend at least half of my day here lol
 
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I’m trying to increase my options. Plus I feel like if I go for those okayish options I’ll get cheated on by a bbc Tyrone or some 6’6 blonde white chad. This is the looksmax forum so I am trying to looksmax to increase my options. Is that a crime or something? Jeezz
Tbh I would just EEmaxx. They are budget white women. That is what im gonna do. I want to grt a slavic ginger stacey gf.
 
Also op you are literally typing like a foid
Muh I get so many matches on tinder but all the men are so fuckin ugly I just can't ...
It's kinda sad tho, most women get that treatment but it is very small minority of males who can write a post like this
 
It's kinda sad tho, most women get that treatment but it is very small minority of males who can write a post like this
There are a lot men writing posts like this. Some men have the potential to plastic surgery max. Some incels just aren’t trying, i know that isn’t true for all incels but some people can ascend especially if it is something to do with their hair and nose.
 
There are a lot men writing posts like this. Some men have the potential to plastic surgery max. Some incels just aren’t trying, i know that isn’t true for all incels but some people can ascend especially if it is something to do with their hair and nose.
Say that to my incel face
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I’m confused. What was wrong about your face? Is it the mid race ratio that is what’s causing the problem. It is hard to tell cuz it’s a selfie. Maybe if the photo was further away with the back camera it might look better.
 
I’m confused. What was wrong about your face? Is it the mid race ratio that is what’s causing the problem. It is hard to tell cuz it’s a selfie. Maybe if the photo was further away with the back camera it might look better.
Wait so you think I qm ugly as fuck? 🥲🥲. Feel like I have potential.
 
Wait so you think I qm ugly as fuck? 🥲🥲. Feel like I have potential.
To me you look normie. Not ugly or attractive. Maybe you could gym max. How tall are you? Height > face remember that is law
 
To me you look normie. Not ugly or attractive. Maybe you could gym max. How tall are you? Height > face remember that is law
Fuck sad that I have 0 appeal it's the same as being subhuman I guess
 
I get a lot of matches on tinder and alot women messaging me first but it makes me depressed because these women are below my looks level. It’s mainly landwhales and really ugly women mostly. I have matched with some moderately attractive women but those women never message me first and usually they don’t reply alot of the time. Today I had a conversation with a a 7/10 girl on tinder who isn’t a robot and it just seems strange to me because I’m so used to landwhales or foreign women from another country talking to me.

I thought I was a handsome 7 or 8 out of 10 but I guess I’m just not. The only way I get treated like chad is if I change my location to some ethnic country where I’ll be the only white guy. Every time a fat woman sends me heart eyes and compliments me on tinder it makes me want to cry. All I wanted was a 6/10 or 7/10 out of 10 Becky, my only option is plastic surgery and gymmaxing I guess. I would have a better chance of winning the lottery than dating a 6/10 white girl.
Ignore the rest of these fools. I believe that you are 8/10 handsome, I've been in your shoes. If you aren't somewhat muscular or shredded, it's going to be hard to pull Beckys, it's the main thing they look for on top of a good base (height+face). They are very simple.

Understand your competition online, even a 6/10 Becky will have hundreds of shredded fuckboys with good fashion wanting to sleep with them (and 500 more ugly dudes. On a DAILY basis). A few of them with 8/10 faces too. I'm exaggerating, but you should understand.

It seems pretty obvious that you are just lacking a good-quality/appealing profile. What kind of photos are you including? Is your fashion 'good'? Are you a prettyboy? Are you fit? Everything needs to be at least 'good' to pull a 7/10 Becky.

A law is that if you are attracting a shit ton of ugly girls, you have great potential to attract ALL girls. A good base, height + face, isn't good enough online for Stacys. You will only be pulling ethnics who have much lower standards (mainly for body/fashion).

Also, if you are looking for LTR, try Hinge/Bumble.
 
Same as you my man my last hope online will be with gymmaxxing but since my t levels are completely dogshit i will probab have to go trt.
 

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