Tinder texting for hookups -- how to do better?

[Deleted member 10782]

First of all, you can find my pictures and Tinder profile here:

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Basic stats: Height: 168cm (5'6") Weight: 73kg (160lbs) Age: 26 Erect penis length and girth: 5.5" 5.0" Face pictures and videos + upper body video: Tinder profile: Sexual stats: N count: 33 2 multi-year LTRs Spreadsheet: Most are one night stands/hookups from Tinder. It's hard...

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My current "routine" for Tinder hookups is as follows:

1. "Hey <name>, whatcha up to?"
2. <she replies with something boring/generic>
3. <I reply with whatever I am doing>
4. "Fancy splitting a bottle of wine at mine <time>"?

I've tried slight variations where I open with something related to the girl's pictures, or where I tell the girl to tell me more about herself or her interests. In general conversation goes well, but it almost always immediately stops (I get ghosted) as soon as we move from "small talk" to actually meeting. If I had to estimate, if I open 100 girls like this, 85 will ghost me after the meetup request, 10 will tell me they are not up to meet during the pandemic, 4 will tell me they're busy but will give me their number, 1 will enthusiastically agree and I will end up fucking her.

The problem is that the conversion ratio is abysmal. The girls who give their number usually never reply to my text either. And the girls I fuck usually disappear after the first night.

I've also tried building more rapport and texting for longer, sometimes video chatting, but it never pays off. All time wasted and the girl never meets in the end.

Here are some examples of successful chats:



And here are some examples of failures:



How can I do better?

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

Grow 1/2 a ft, get a better physique, grow your dick +1.5 inches and FACE.

Irl being NT is important but for Tinder texting it's a complete cope. Either the girl likes your FACE or she doesn't. If she matches but is reluctant to meet up it means she has better options or she is keeping them open for a bigger chad...

Just have a chad FACE and you win...

 

[gamma]

What's your objective? Slaying more girls or better looking girls?

 

[Deleted member 10782]

What's your objective? Slaying more girls or better looking girls?

Both would be appreciated

 

[everythingisacope]

Grow 1/2 a ft, get a better physique, grow your dick +1.5 inches and FACE.

Irl being NT is important but for Tinder texting it's a complete cope. Either the girl likes your FACE or she doesn't. If she matches but is reluctant to meet up it means she has better options or she is keeping them open for a bigger chad...

Just have a chad FACE and you win...

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Conversations are cope, if she likes you she will make It easy if she doesn't she will ghost you. Looksmax or move on.

 

[Deleted member 9568]

mafiosa max u italian, rape some ee/balkan whore on ur stolen yacht or som eshiet

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

First of all, you can find my pictures and Tinder profile here:

ULTIMATE Rate Me + Provide Looksmaxing Suggestions THREAD | Looksmax.org - Men's Self-Improvement & Aesthetics

Basic stats: Height: 168cm (5'6") Weight: 73kg (160lbs) Age: 26 Erect penis length and girth: 5.5" 5.0" Face pictures and videos + upper body video: Tinder profile: Sexual stats: N count: 33 2 multi-year LTRs Spreadsheet: Most are one night stands/hookups from Tinder. It's hard...

looksmax.org

My current "routine" for Tinder hookups is as follows:

1. "Hey <name>, whatcha up to?"
2. <she replies with something boring/generic>
3. <I reply with whatever I am doing>
4. "Fancy splitting a bottle of wine at mine <time>"?

I've tried slight variations where I open with something related to the girl's pictures, or where I tell the girl to tell me more about herself or her interests. In general conversation goes well, but it almost always immediately stops (I get ghosted) as soon as we move from "small talk" to actually meeting. If I had to estimate, if I open 100 girls like this, 85 will ghost me after the meetup request, 10 will tell me they are not up to meet during the pandemic, 4 will tell me they're busy but will give me their number, 1 will enthusiastically agree and I will end up fucking her.

The problem is that the conversion ratio is abysmal. The girls who give their number usually never reply to my text either. And the girls I fuck usually disappear after the first night.

I've also tried building more rapport and texting for longer, sometimes video chatting, but it never pays off. All time wasted and the girl never meets in the end.

Here are some examples of successful chats:

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And here are some examples of failures:

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How can I do better?

Tell them that instead if wanting to commit suicide by necking yourself you want them to suffocate you to death between their legs.... works everytime I swear

 

[brainded]

 

[Deleted member 6512]

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Brutal Chadpill

 

[Deleted member 11388]

First of all, you can find my pictures and Tinder profile here:

ULTIMATE Rate Me + Provide Looksmaxing Suggestions THREAD | Looksmax.org - Men's Self-Improvement & Aesthetics

Basic stats: Height: 168cm (5'6") Weight: 73kg (160lbs) Age: 26 Erect penis length and girth: 5.5" 5.0" Face pictures and videos + upper body video: Tinder profile: Sexual stats: N count: 33 2 multi-year LTRs Spreadsheet: Most are one night stands/hookups from Tinder. It's hard...

looksmax.org

My current "routine" for Tinder hookups is as follows:

1. "Hey <name>, whatcha up to?"
2. <she replies with something boring/generic>
3. <I reply with whatever I am doing>
4. "Fancy splitting a bottle of wine at mine <time>"?

I've tried slight variations where I open with something related to the girl's pictures, or where I tell the girl to tell me more about herself or her interests. In general conversation goes well, but it almost always immediately stops (I get ghosted) as soon as we move from "small talk" to actually meeting. If I had to estimate, if I open 100 girls like this, 85 will ghost me after the meetup request, 10 will tell me they are not up to meet during the pandemic, 4 will tell me they're busy but will give me their number, 1 will enthusiastically agree and I will end up fucking her.

The problem is that the conversion ratio is abysmal. The girls who give their number usually never reply to my text either. And the girls I fuck usually disappear after the first night.

I've also tried building more rapport and texting for longer, sometimes video chatting, but it never pays off. All time wasted and the girl never meets in the end.

Here are some examples of successful chats:

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And here are some examples of failures:

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How can I do better?

didn't i already tell you its number game ? just count the slays per matches, best i've ever got was 1/35 matches and i was in Vietnam(litterally a good looking white guy with really good pictures in Asian coutnry). There is no way around it, 80% of girls on tinder are attention whores with no intention to meeting you no matter what you do(with anyone from tinder just wanna chat).

Count your matches and your slays from that profile and if you doing better than 1/50 matches you are good and not much you can improve tbh