Tips on akwardness

[height maxxer]

I always feel so weird and akward talking to people, its like I never really know what to say, or what to talk about.

It feels like im much more different from them and they cant truly understand. A reason for that might be that I got no social life but what can I do to improve?

 

[tension]

Idk bro I’m the same way

 

[11lusion]

I always feel so weird and akward talking to people, its like I never really know what to say, or what to talk about.

It feels like im much more different from them and they cant truly understand. A reason for that might be that I got no social life but what can I do to improve?

look good and stop caring

 

[nwed]

I always feel so weird and akward talking to people, its like I never really know what to say, or what to talk about.

It feels like im much more different from them and they cant truly understand. A reason for that might be that I got no social life but what can I do to improve?

coming from someone who is high inhib and literally diagnosed with adhd since i'm 13 and autism

300/150 pregab before events to get that anxiety down and then get used and learn to do it without, its much easier once you get it down with pregab

mark as solution

 

[nwed]

look good and stop caring

shit advice kys fag

 

[tension]

coming from someone who is high inhib and literally diagnosed with adhd since i'm 13 and autism

300/150 pregab before events to get that anxiety down and then get used and learn to do it without, its much easier once you get it down with pregab

mark as solution

yeah but what about regular days

what should we be doing without the pregab

 

[11lusion]

shit advice kys fag

caring is lit what causes social akwardness and everything that is done to prevent it ultimately ties down to not caring. Its what helped me overcome it

 

[nwed]

yeah but what about regular days

what should we be doing without the pregab

idk cause i dont go out and when i do i'm on pregab+modafinil lmfao

 

[tension]

idk cause i dont go out and when i do i'm on pregab+modafinil lmfao

you don't go to school or work daily?

 

[nwed]

you don't go to school or work daily?

i go to school but i dont talk to anyone i barely speak when the teacher asks

 

[height maxxer]

coming from someone who is high inhib and literally diagnosed with adhd since i'm 13 and autism

300/150 pregab before events to get that anxiety down and then get used and learn to do it without, its much easier once you get it down with pregab

mark as solution

I never ever go out. My parents have raised me very introverted (never allowed me to go outside with friends unless they knew ever single detail).

Im 18 and I still dont have the balls to actually do something. My dad is also a fucking asshole who always screams at me, so I stopped asking for shit.

While everybody else is having fun, hanging out with friends Im just sitting at home like always.
Every day is the same.

 

[nwed]

I never ever go out. My parents have raised me very introverted (never allowed me to go outside with friends unless they knew ever single detail).

Im 18 and I still dont have the balls to actually do something. My dad is also a fucking asshole who always screams at me, so I stopped asking for shit.

While everybody else is having fun, hanging out with friends Im just sitting at home like always.
Every day is the same.

relatable, just slip the meds to a friends house thats what i do

 

[height maxxer]

relatable, just slip the meds to a friends house thats what i do

I cant buy pregab, parents will notice

 

[nwed]

I cant buy pregab, parents will notice

How

 

[Deleted member 380382]

stop being autistically authentic. Think about Epstein, do you think he liked talking to Elon Musk? Do you think he felt comfortably himself around him? No. He had to adjust the way he talked and laughed at certain things to best match with him to reap the most benefits from the situation. Do that but for everyone.

 

[height maxxer]

stop being autistically authentic. Think about Epstein, do you think he liked talking to Elon Musk? Do you think he felt comfortably himself around him? No. He had to adjust the way he talked and laughed at certain things to best match with him to reap the most benefits from the situation. Do that but for everyone.

I do that already. Its exhausting tho.

I always gotta fake laugh, pretend like I find it funny even tho it pisses me off.

 

[johnellsworth2]

I always feel so weird and akward talking to people, its like I never really know what to say, or what to talk about.

It feels like im much more different from them and they cant truly understand. A reason for that might be that I got no social life but what can I do to improve?

Do u take any ssris or have adhd? Personally I have struggled with this problem for years but whenever I take my adderall it helps me think and analyze less about what I’m saying and low levels of dopamine often cause me to feel this way worse. It’s still there when I take it but its less severe so I think its worth to get either checked out for depressive and anxiety symptoms by a psychiatrist, and if u do have one, going on not only an ssri if u already arent on one but also something that will inhibit dopamine reuptake like wellbutrin or adderall may help a lot. Ask for an increase from your psychiatrist and if you are already on those two types of drugs they could prescribe you with something like buspar to supplement those two meds and help anxiety/social awkwardness

 

[height maxxer]

Do u take any ssris or have adhd? Personally I have struggled with this problem for years but whenever I take my adderall it helps me think and analyze less about what I’m saying and low levels of dopamine often cause me to feel this way worse. It’s still there when I take it but its less severe so I think its worth to get either checked out for depressive and anxiety symptoms by a psychiatrist, and if u do have one, going on not only an ssri if u already arent on one but also something that will inhibit dopamine reuptake like wellbutrin or adderall may help a lot. Ask for an increase from your psychiatrist and if you are already on those two types of drugs they could prescribe you with something like buspar to supplement those two meds and help anxiety/social awkwardness

I dont know how I should do that.
I cant just go to a doctor and ask them to check me for ADHD. If my parents found out they would kill me and say im dumb and stupid.

Just so you know, I got extremly strict parents.
Only thing they care about is my grades, nothing else

 

[stigmaboy]

@height maxxer mtn. lack of social exposure and abuse are obvious failos here. cant rate looks directly but that environment ain't it. need to move out first, then maybe consider social skills training. pregab is just a crutch.

 

[height maxxer]

@height maxxer mtn. lack of social exposure and abuse are obvious failos here. cant rate looks directly but that environment ain't it. need to move out first, then maybe consider social skills training. pregab is just a crutch.

I wont be able to move out for atleast 5-6 more years. I will first need to get done with university and that shit.

 

[height maxxer]

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@height maxxer mtn. lack of social exposure and abuse are obvious failos here. cant rate looks directly but that environment ain't it. need to move out first, then maybe consider social skills training. pregab is just a crutch.

I really dont know what to do. Moving out isn't an option tho, I just dont fucking know how to move on.

 

[bloatfinalboss]

take pregab or alcohol, you can also hop on test to increase confidence

 

[johnellsworth2]

Do u take any ssris or have adhd? Personally I have struggled with this problem for years but whenever I take my adderall it helps me think and analyze less about what I’m saying and low levels of dopamine often cause me to feel this way worse. It’s still there when I take it but its less severe so I think its worth to get either checked out for depressive and anxiety symptoms by a psychiatrist, and if u do have one, going on not only an ssri if u already arent on one but also something that will inhibit dopamine reuptake like wellbutrin or adderall may help a lot. Ask for an increase from your psychiatrist and if you are already on those two types of drugs they could prescribe you with something like buspar to supplement those two meds and help anxiety/social awkwardness

I dont know how I should do that.
I cant just go to a doctor and ask them to check me for ADHD. If my parents found out they would kill me and say im dumb and stupid.

Just so you know, I got extremly strict parents.
Only thing they care about is my grades, nothing else

Not necessarily adhd but the best and quickest route to helping the awkwardness is to get medicated so if I were you I would try to introduce the idea that you may have an anxiety disorder of some sort and I don’t know you or your parents and ik it might not be as easy as that sounds but if u find a way to get medicated by a doctor it will ascend your social skills/anxiety management greatly

 

[nonameidea]

I always feel so weird and akward talking to people, its like I never really know what to say, or what to talk about.

It feels like im much more different from them and they cant truly understand. A reason for that might be that I got no social life but what can I do to improve?

just dont overthink it because nobody cares tbh. talk about current situation ur in with the other people and ask questions so u dont have to speak a lot. ALSO DONT GO INTO ANY AUTISTIC TANGENT ABOUT ANYTHING

 

[Deleted member 380382]

I do that already. Its exhausting tho.

I always gotta fake laugh, pretend like I find it funny even tho it pisses me off.

this is being a man. be capable and dependable, being tired of being around people and having to accommodate for them is not manly

 

[height maxxer]

this is being a man. be capable and dependable, being tired of being around people and having to accommodate for them is not manly

I get what your saying but it seems like you have truly no idea how it is/feels like.

Its easy to quickly say "muh your not a man" but its more important to understand my situation and help me out rather then say something useless like this

 

[Deleted member 380382]

I get what your saying but it seems like you have truly no idea how it is/feels like.

Its easy to quickly say "muh your not a man" but its more important to understand my situation and help me out rather then say something useless like this

I am not ignorant to your stress, I’m saying that the solution is to apply the disdain you feel towards placating to your inability to properly do so (a feminine trait by technicality)

 

[Deleted member 380382]

I am not ignorant to your stress, I’m saying that the solution is to apply the disdain you feel for placating others, towards your inability to properly do so (a feminine trait by technicality)

Sorry, had to word it better <3

 

[RichardSpencel]

look good and stop caring

Genuinely this,why social skills when it’s all about the face? When I look good I can do anything when I don’t no one even notices me

I think if you have shit social skills and are gl you should tell people you are autistic and have no social skill/shy and it’ll be huge halo

 

[youcanchangeyourusr]

I always feel so weird and akward talking to people, its like I never really know what to say, or what to talk about.

It feels like im much more different from them and they cant truly understand. A reason for that might be that I got no social life but what can I do to improve?

gain confidence and do hobbies, attract the people that wants u and not people who become ur friends just because they r there