Tips on talking to you oneitis?

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Talking to oneitis today for a second time and can feel me fucking this up somehow


Not having a functioning brain is brutal
 
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NT max bro. You got a job?
 
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No. I’m learning to drive rn so I can at least Uber max Til I finish college

That's good. You'll be forced to talk with people, and you'll get some practice.

Now comes the hard part. You can't second guess yourself. Walking into a conversation with a girl while being afraid is a bad idea. Girls know fearful guys, because they're approached by them all the time. I'm not saying you need to role-play as a PUA, but have confidence that she'll know what you mean, even if you don't say it the way you'd like too.
 
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That's good. You'll be forced to talk with people, and you'll get some practice.

Now comes the hard part. You can't second guess yourself. Walking into a conversation with a girl while being afraid is a bad idea. Girls know fearful guys, because they're approached by them all the time. I'm not saying you need to role-play as a PUA, but have confidence that she'll know what you mean, even if you don't say it the way you'd like too.

Yeah I agree. She’s one of these shy girls who doesn’t even use social media much and doesn’t work around dressed like a slut
 
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There's no secret to talking to women... if you are tall and good looking, they will respond positively to anything you say (you'll be called confident, manly, bold, etc.), and if you are short and ugly they will respond negatively to what you say (you'll be called creepy, stalker, annoying, etc.). The best way to talk to a oneitis is to be good looking before you do it.
 
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There's no secret to talking to women... if you are tall and good looking, they will respond positively to anything you say (you'll be called confident, manly, bold, etc.), and if you are short and ugly they will respond negatively to what you say (you'll be called creepy, stalker, annoying, etc.). The best way to talk to a oneitis is to be good looking before you do it.
Usually you spew a lot of autism, but i can agree with this.
 
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Talking to oneitis today for a second time and can feel me fucking this up somehow


Not having a functioning brain is brutal
Talking doesn’t lead to anything imo. It’s all about action . Excuse my cuckery but Take her out and at the end of the day go for the kiss / sex Always
 
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Talking to oneitis today for a second time and can feel me fucking this up somehow


Not having a functioning brain is brutal
I used to talk about my porn addiction with my oneitis and she didn't mind.
 
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Just say "Hi, how are yu doing?" to her, then mprovise depending on how responsive she is
 
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Usually you spew a lot of autism, but i can agree with this.
You will soon realize that all the redpill bullshit spewed on this forums is incorrect and that the vast majority of people here with bad genes are destined to remain subhuman unless they do the two things mentioned below in the next paragraph. I have never been more sure about anything in my life, other than my Faith. You cannot improve yourself with tricks, gimmicks, lying/pretending to be something else, etc.

When I was 18-20, I used to think I could genuinely improve myself with a little hard work, practice, and "confidence", but I soon realize that 95% of self improvement is bullshit. Weight loss and plastic surgery/medicine are the only two real ways of self improvement in my mind... I call these "whitepill-approved" methods of improvement.
 
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Tricks like, getting rid of Acne? Acting NT and not autistic? I'm sure those things don't boost SMV at all.

"CHAD CAN ACT AUTISTIC"

Most people here aren't Chad, AKA higher standards.
 
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There's no secret to talking to women... if you are tall and good looking, they will respond positively to anything you say (you'll be called confident, manly, bold, etc.), and if you are short and ugly they will respond negatively to what you say (you'll be called creepy, stalker, annoying, etc.). The best way to talk to a oneitis is to be good looking before you do it.

The single time I’ve talked to her she would laugh smile when I wasn’t making a joke lol. I could be completely delusional and she’s just one of these girls that’s friendly with everyone. Won’t make sense as she doesn’t talk to anyone there besides me now
 
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The single time I’ve talked to her she would laugh smile when I wasn’t making a joke lol. I could be completely delusional and she’s just one of these girls that’s friendly with everyone. Won’t make sense as she doesn’t talk to anyone there besides me now
There is no way of telling that a woman likes you from that scenario. Women are master manipulators and it is almost impossible to tell if she's being sincere with her smiling or just pretending to appear sociable and pure. Do not listen to what TRP and MGTOWers say... there are no signals such as touching her hair or body language and what not that indicate interest, at least not it this context. A proper IOI would be if she were to approach you, which doesn't seem to be the case at the time.

She may or may not "talk to anyone else there now", but she most definitely has many men worshiping her through digital mediums, such as over text, kikebook, twitter, etc. Remember, these men are your competition (as well as the sum of these men's orbiting validation). You have to be that much better. I don;t mean to be Mr. down-in-the-dumps, but most time if the man has to approach, it never began for him. If she liked you, she'd approach. Don't let me dissuade you from trying if you are fine with the consequences, but just be aware that you are likely to fail if you are not above-average at a minimum.

Tricks like, getting rid of Acne? Acting NT and not autistic? I'm sure those things don't boost SMV at all.

"CHAD CAN ACT AUTISTIC"

Most people here aren't Chad, AKA higher standards.

Nigger do you read english I said medicine is an accept and worthwhile form of self-improvement. NT is largely a meme, but being NT is not the same as confidence and personality (NT is in speech patterns, eye contact, etc.). A good looking man can do whatever he wants and you are a bona-fide retard if you disagree.
 
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There is no way of telling that a woman likes you from that scenario. Women are master manipulators and it is almost impossible to tell if she's being sincere with her smiling or just pretending to appear sociable and pure.
With them a lot of the times you really won't know if they're being nice and polite, or if they actually like you. If she starts getting more touchy then she probably likes you
 
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Yeah I agree. She’s one of these shy girls who doesn’t even use social media much and doesn’t work around dressed like a slut
Sounds like we have the same oneitis
I used to talk about my porn addiction with my oneitis and she didn't mind.

I still sometimes say when I masturbate and that she should send pics lmao
 
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My autistism came combined with too much Xanax probably was it but, I just had no desire to even talk to her jfl. She came into class said hi to me. But after that I wasn’t even completely their. Put my head down and just basically decided I didn’t want to do any talking unless it was her doing it. Obviously I’m not Chico tier so as I had my head down nothing else happen. As she was leaving she told me I hope you feel better next time and I just agreed while being all over the place
There is no way of telling that a woman likes you from that scenario. Women are master manipulators and it is almost impossible to tell if she's being sincere with her smiling or just pretending to appear sociable and pure. Do not listen to what TRP and MGTOWers say... there are no signals such as touching her hair or body language and what not that indicate interest, at least not it this context. A proper IOI would be if she were to approach you, which doesn't seem to be the case at the time.

She may or may not "talk to anyone else there now", but she most definitely has many men worshiping her through digital mediums, such as over text, kikebook, twitter, etc. Remember, these men are your competition (as well as the sum of these men's orbiting validation). You have to be that much better. I don;t mean to be Mr. down-in-the-dumps, but most time if the man has to approach, it never began for him. If she liked you, she'd approach. Don't let me dissuade you from trying if you are fine with the consequences, but just be aware that you are likely to fail if you are not above-average at a minimum.



Nigger do you read english I said medicine is an accept and worthwhile form of self-improvement. NT is largely a meme, but being NT is not the same as confidence and personality (NT is in speech patterns, eye contact, etc.). A good looking man can do whatever he wants and you are a bona-fide retard if you disagree.


Yeah 100% this. I’m just forget about trying to slay it’s too much effort if your sub8. Probably done talking to her anyway. Like you said she probably doesn’t give a single fuck about me so time to just ldar
 
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