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1: Cut off all contact (she blocked me everywhere so that was easy)
2: Delete all pics of her
3: Put it in your mind, that your true partner would have stayed and communicated throughout her pain about her needs and expectations.
4. If she cheated on you, it doesn’t mean she found better otherwise she would’ve broken up with you prior, however she wanted to keep you as a backup option while fucking someone else, that says alot about her character (meaning it IS NOT your FAULT, she will try blaming you saying you treated her bad etc, but NO, its not your fault, its her character, ONCE a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater, and just because you caught her once doesn’t mean it was the first time (DON’T GO BACK) you dodged a bullet, imagine if that was the girl you had your kids with or married to.
5. She was NOT that special, Guys i was the same until i really started thinking, was she THAT attractive? Nah.. not really, was she funny? Nope, So what did i like from her? Well her personality loving caring obsessive!! Haha dude, every girl who truly loves you has those traits, mine for example was like that with me because she LOVED and WANTED to be with me but to other people even her family she wasn’t, thats not special, every girl that wants you will treat you like that naturally. I think most of us that suffer through heartbreaks miss the attention instead of the person, us men aren’t as complicated emotionally.
6. Don’t make the same mistake, never attach yourself to a girl, i made her my everything, i denied a whole scholarship to the USA just to stay with her, i suffered to be with her throughout when my dad has cancer, (which she didnt give a shit about)
7. Understand, that you made her loved and cared for and alot of different emotional feelings long term, she will tell you she don’t miss you, make up lies about you to her friends to make u seem like the villain, thats her way to cope, she definitely will miss you.
8. Rebounds do NOT work 99% of cases, you might see her move onto a new relationship instantly, that is NOT your fault, again its says alot about her character, she is so mentally ill she cannot fix her mental health and heal and cannot be lonely for a second. She will regret everything after her rebound fails
9. IF SHE DOES COME BACK, DO NOT TAKE HER FUCKING BACK, THERE IS PLENTY OF GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WOULD HAVE NEVER TREATED YOU LIKE SHIT.
10. WORK ON YOUR FUCKING SELF INSTEAD OF CHASING BITCHES IN THIS CANNON EVENT, WORK ON YOUR LOOKS, GET A GOOD PHYSIQUE GET LEAN, LOOK INTO DOING COOL SHIT LIKE TRADING OR STARTING A BUSINESS OR A SIDE HUSTLE WHILE YOU HAVE A JOB, DISTRACT YOURSELF AND MAKE YOURSELF THE BEST OPTION SO SHE WILL REGRET YOU AND NOT THINK OF U AS A MISTAKE, (THEY WILL ALWAYS STALK YOU EVEN THOUGH THEY “MOVED ON” WITH A NEW BOYFRIEND, SO WORK ON YOUR FUCKING SELF. It’s okay to cry and get sad the first week, but after that man the fuck up and understand that you did NOT fuck up and u dodged a bullet and can use this to work on yourself and attract good women that way while ur doing so.
Alot of us guys want to get married and have a good woman, however you cannot attract those good women by chasing them, you need to make them chase you while youre on the way chasing the best version of yourself, thats how you attract those women, instead of meeting them online or in the club or walking up to girls asking for their snaps (sure this is good short term for sex or whatever, but don’t take it serious cause most of the time they won’t be good women, and understand that they will portray themselves as pure and loyal but sneaky cheat behind your fucking back, women are the sneakiest people, you cannot trust them)
And take your time healing, don’t jump into rebounds. Be the mature one here
2: Delete all pics of her
3: Put it in your mind, that your true partner would have stayed and communicated throughout her pain about her needs and expectations.
4. If she cheated on you, it doesn’t mean she found better otherwise she would’ve broken up with you prior, however she wanted to keep you as a backup option while fucking someone else, that says alot about her character (meaning it IS NOT your FAULT, she will try blaming you saying you treated her bad etc, but NO, its not your fault, its her character, ONCE a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater, and just because you caught her once doesn’t mean it was the first time (DON’T GO BACK) you dodged a bullet, imagine if that was the girl you had your kids with or married to.
5. She was NOT that special, Guys i was the same until i really started thinking, was she THAT attractive? Nah.. not really, was she funny? Nope, So what did i like from her? Well her personality loving caring obsessive!! Haha dude, every girl who truly loves you has those traits, mine for example was like that with me because she LOVED and WANTED to be with me but to other people even her family she wasn’t, thats not special, every girl that wants you will treat you like that naturally. I think most of us that suffer through heartbreaks miss the attention instead of the person, us men aren’t as complicated emotionally.
6. Don’t make the same mistake, never attach yourself to a girl, i made her my everything, i denied a whole scholarship to the USA just to stay with her, i suffered to be with her throughout when my dad has cancer, (which she didnt give a shit about)
7. Understand, that you made her loved and cared for and alot of different emotional feelings long term, she will tell you she don’t miss you, make up lies about you to her friends to make u seem like the villain, thats her way to cope, she definitely will miss you.
8. Rebounds do NOT work 99% of cases, you might see her move onto a new relationship instantly, that is NOT your fault, again its says alot about her character, she is so mentally ill she cannot fix her mental health and heal and cannot be lonely for a second. She will regret everything after her rebound fails
9. IF SHE DOES COME BACK, DO NOT TAKE HER FUCKING BACK, THERE IS PLENTY OF GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WOULD HAVE NEVER TREATED YOU LIKE SHIT.
10. WORK ON YOUR FUCKING SELF INSTEAD OF CHASING BITCHES IN THIS CANNON EVENT, WORK ON YOUR LOOKS, GET A GOOD PHYSIQUE GET LEAN, LOOK INTO DOING COOL SHIT LIKE TRADING OR STARTING A BUSINESS OR A SIDE HUSTLE WHILE YOU HAVE A JOB, DISTRACT YOURSELF AND MAKE YOURSELF THE BEST OPTION SO SHE WILL REGRET YOU AND NOT THINK OF U AS A MISTAKE, (THEY WILL ALWAYS STALK YOU EVEN THOUGH THEY “MOVED ON” WITH A NEW BOYFRIEND, SO WORK ON YOUR FUCKING SELF. It’s okay to cry and get sad the first week, but after that man the fuck up and understand that you did NOT fuck up and u dodged a bullet and can use this to work on yourself and attract good women that way while ur doing so.
Alot of us guys want to get married and have a good woman, however you cannot attract those good women by chasing them, you need to make them chase you while youre on the way chasing the best version of yourself, thats how you attract those women, instead of meeting them online or in the club or walking up to girls asking for their snaps (sure this is good short term for sex or whatever, but don’t take it serious cause most of the time they won’t be good women, and understand that they will portray themselves as pure and loyal but sneaky cheat behind your fucking back, women are the sneakiest people, you cannot trust them)
And take your time healing, don’t jump into rebounds. Be the mature one here
