To what extent does personality even matter

[bogdanparowsak]

I know most people here say that it doesn’t mean shit but it probably works even a little bit especially if you have nothing else. I don’t know in what way it would ever create attraction in though. And friendmaxxing is a waste of time unless you’re looking for specific connections

 

[boxing-cel]

It won’t make her attracted to you if she’s not

But if she’s into you then it helps a bit

In life generally it’s important because it contributes towards you growing in LMS (Looks, Money, Status)

 

[emo-ogre666]

When you are trying to pursue a girl that is not shallow, has similar view points as you, and follows Christ

 

[seerover]

Personality matters only if shes into you, just like @boxing-cel said

 

[boxing-cel]

When you are trying to pursue a girl that is not shallow, has similar view points as you, and follows Christ

lol you gotta be joking

 

[desperatesub5]

Like 10%, if ur chopped with the best personality only a couple girls would go for you, if ur attractive with no/horrible personality all of them will pile up for you

 

[emo-ogre666]

lol you gotta be joking

how would I be joking?

 

[Yero]

only if your face is good enough to make her want to talk to you

 

[desperatesub5]

Like 20%, if ur chopped with the best personality only a couple girls would go for you, if ur attractive with no/horrible personality all of them will pile up for you

Look at clav he treats girls horribly yet they still go for him just based off looks

 

[boxing-cel]

how would I be joking?

Brother, I’m Muslim and we’re the most practising religion and despite this, most Muslim women are low quality in every way.

Given that Christians are even less practising and don’t even care about extramarital sex or anything, the idea that you’ll find a good Christian woman is pure fantasy

That being said, I do admire to an extent your desire for this and I hope you don’t indulge in hookup culture

 

[boxing-cel]

Look at clav he treats girls horribly yet they still go for him just based off looks

Not a good example because his Looks and Status greatly overshadow the need for personality, but I get what you mean. Just not relevant for 99.9% of men

 

[seerover]

Look at clav he treats girls horribly yet they still go for him just based off looks

"Bad people who look good are still going to be treated well"

 

[emo-ogre666]

Brother, I’m Muslim and we’re the most practising religion and despite this, most Muslim women are low quality in every way.

Given that Christians are even less practising and don’t even care about extramarital sex or anything, the idea that you’ll find a good Christian woman is pure fantasy

That being said, I do admire to an extent your desire for this and I hope you don’t indulge in hookup culture

Your right bro. In todays day of age if you are not mtn minimum then its over.

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

I know most people here say that it doesn’t mean shit but it probably works even a little bit especially if you have nothing else. I don’t know in what way it would ever create attraction in though. And friendmaxxing is a waste of time unless you’re looking for specific connections

if your personality is high inhib and you are very "shy" then maybe you would have less chances because you talk to less girls and interact less with them

 

[boxing-cel]

You’re right bro. In todays day of age if you are not mtn minimum then its over.

You can be Chad but you ain’t getting a Christian tradwife bro

 

[emo-ogre666]

You can be Chad but you ain’t getting a Christian tradwife bro

Thats not what I mean. That life has been out of the window since 1980. My point is that if your ugly no girl will ever go for you

 

[seerover]

Your right bro. In todays day of age if you are not mtn minimum then its over.

Tbh back in 2023 it was HTN minimum now its MTN minimum?

 

[emo-ogre666]

Tbh back in 2023 it was HTN minimum now its MTN minimum?

fuck your right bro. now its probably chad lite minimum. lets just fucking hang ourselves

 

[seerover]

fuck your right bro. now its probably chad lite minimum. lets just fucking hang ourselves

Well I think its still HTN minimum, but most people who are rated HTN here are either below or CL+,

 

[seerover]

fuck your right bro. now its probably chad lite minimum. lets just fucking hang ourselves

Plus dont take .org rating as irl, if you are rated HTN on org then ur probably like Chad/CL irl

 

[emo-ogre666]

Plus dont take .org rating as irl, if you are rated HTN on org then ur probably like Chad/CL irl

mmm okay. ive been rated lmtn-mtn. what would that be irl

 

[seerover]

mmm okay. ive been rated lmtn-mtn. what would that be irl

HTN irl

 

[emo-ogre666]

HTN irl

bet bro

 

[seerover]

bet bro

Do you get treated well IRL compared to org?

 

[emo-ogre666]

Do you get treated well IRL compared to org?

Yeah absolutely

 

[extorted]

I know most people here say that it doesn’t mean shit but it probably works even a little bit especially if you have nothing else. I don’t know in what way it would ever create attraction in though. And friendmaxxing is a waste of time unless you’re looking for specific connections

it dosent matter how attractive you are if you have a terrible personality you wont maintain a relationship. you need looks to get a girl and personality to keep one

 

[lahari]

I know most people here say that it doesn’t mean shit but it probably works even a little bit especially if you have nothing else. I don’t know in what way it would ever create attraction in though. And friendmaxxing is a waste of time unless you’re looking for specific connections

Looks lure a woman in, personality makes her linger

After looks, it’s the clearest window into who you really are

With no personality, the most even a chad could get is bops who just want a trophy to show off. He’d be cucking himself

If you’re ND and have no social skills it’s over

Or if all you do is doomscroll, have zero passion, identity, or sense of self, braindead

None of this matters if you’re chasing bops and hookups who have no personality themselves, but have the self respect to not do that

 

[lahari]

And friendmaxxing is a waste of time unless you’re looking for specific connections

If you’re a solitary person then yeah 100%