ranierean
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My friends’ boyfriends refuse to give them oral sex…
Are we in a munchless epidemic? I’m 23 and all my friends and I either recently started experimenting with sex or have gotten into new relationships with men.I am very much a casual dating girlie right now so my sexual experiences have been casual friends with benefits or casual partners. Even then, the guys I’ve been with have been very kind, giving and generous partners, and often initiate giving me oral sex without me having to ask. It helps that the guys I see are experienced and love giving head, so I usually walk away from hookups with at least one orgasm from oral sex (because what else would I endanger my life for?)
As a personal rule, I always cum first before I let the guy continue
Last year, I had one date (my first and last hinge date) who refused to give me head after I gave him head, and I blocked him and refused to ever let that happen again. And it hasn’t I’ve definitely been very lucky with my hookups since.
I was talking about my experiences to my group of girl friends, and all of them told me they wished they had my courage to ask for oral, since they haven’t experienced oral sex — just penetrative. One of my friends, who has been in multiple long-term relationships with men since we were both 18, said she’s never, ever gotten eaten out before. Another said she’s been dating a guy for almost a year, has been letting him have raw sex with her and she has not cum once. I screamed.
One person said she always viewed sex as a chore with her past relationships. Many of my girlies told me it still felt good without needing oral, but I’m like are you sure??? Don’t knock it till you tried it??? And then many of them backtracked, got sheepish and admitted they wished they could experience mind-blowing oral sex but weren’t sure what to say to their partners?
I told them I thought their partners were being extremely selfish for going straight into penetration all the time. Many of them got mad at me and said their mans was still good in bed, and that I wouldn’t understand their feelings towards their partners since I use men for sex and not emotions LOL.
I’m confused. Sex is supposed to be fun and beautiful for all parties involved. Not a chore, or empty like how many of my friends were describing their experiences. How do I help them understand that?? I don’t want them feeling like fleshlights!!