Treated like normi in clubs

[NotBlueFox]

I’m confused why in public I’m treated like htn where girls will give me obvious choosing signs but then the same girl won’t do that in the club. (Not the same exact girls but similar looks lvl)

Idk I feel like my high been 5’7 might have sm thing to do w it. But I don’t really struggle to badly getting a girl when I go out. It’s just they look wose the one in public. Any theory’s would be appreciated

 

[Deleted member 128803]

because women's standards skyrocket in clubs/bars/etc

 

[autistic_tendencies]

People who go to clubs are more GL on average so you just blend in

 

[truedriguez]

could be two things

1. You simply THINK the girls are giving choosing signals when in reality they are just glancing at you. unless you are talking to these girl or are hunnid percent sure for prolonged periods of time getting signals from a girl, it could be you are just thinking they like you. because at club girls are drunk and in a mood where they wont stfu... so if even in club they wont talk to you....

2. You lack the extroversion/appeal for girls to want to be with you in the club. girls at club are going to be degenerates like i said and if you talk to them and are somewhat attractive they its easy to dance/makeout with them. if you are standing in corner with pakistanti stare why would girls want to talk to you???

tldr: ur delusional or need to be more extroverted/fun

 

[Deleted member 102563]

5,7 is insane that’s like 5,3 nowadaya

 

[cytoplasm]

At 5'7 you're lucky to get treated like a normie

 

[AscensionMan98]

because women's standards skyrocket in clubs/bars/etc

That is partially the reason, the other reason is that in a dark environment you gotta really stand out to get any attention. So if your a manlet chadlite even with good face you might get ignored by taller bigger frame HTN , but in daytime they can see your face so easier to get a ioi.

Also more hypergamous women go to clubs in the first place, the ones with the party girl mindset.

 

[Lawton88]

I’m confused why in public I’m treated like htn where girls will give me obvious choosing signs but then the same girl won’t do that in the club. (Not the same exact girls but similar looks lvl)

Idk I feel like my high been 5’7 might have sm thing to do w it. But I don’t really struggle to badly getting a girl when I go out. It’s just they look wose the one in public. Any theory’s would be appreciated

If you are scoring at 5'7 even with a good face you are doing good. Where I am at after high school a single male in his 20s really struggles if 5'7 even if they did alright in high school due to face.

 

[kana]

At 5'7 you're lucky to get treated like a normie

probably a good looking “manlet” 5’7 men in the west get treated like second class citizens who emerge from the underground to eat cockroach paste once a week

 

[AscensionMan98]

If you are scoring at 5'7 even with a good face you are doing good. Where I am at after high school a single male in his 20s really struggles if 5'7 even if they did alright in high school due to face.

I feel like height pill is exxagerated tbh, people here think manlet cant get pussy, maybe if your like really short but 5ft 7-5ft 8 can do well here in the usa.

 

[Orbitinglowlife]

Girls in bars are used to a influx of 6,0+ HTNS raiding it for easy pussy lmfao

 

[Lawton88]

I feel like height pill is exxagerated tbh, people here think manlet cant get pussy, maybe if your like really short but 5ft 7-5ft 8 can do well here in the usa.

Where I am at it's a big negative after school age but the face can overcome it some in high school.

 

[NotBlueFox]

could be two things

1. You simply THINK the girls are giving choosing signals when in reality they are just glancing at you. unless you are talking to these girl or are hunnid percent sure for prolonged periods of time getting signals from a girl, it could be you are just thinking they like you. because at club girls are drunk and in a mood where they wont stfu... so if even in club they wont talk to you....

2. You lack the extroversion/appeal for girls to want to be with you in the club. girls at club are going to be degenerates like i said and if you talk to them and are somewhat attractive they its easy to dance/makeout with them. if you are standing in corner with pakistanti stare why would girls want to talk to you???

tldr: ur delusional or need to be more extroverted/fun

lol please dont tell me i "THINK" the girls are giving choosing signals i had a girl strait up come up to me and say you dont know how to talk to girls do you. And then she let me get wither her that night. After looking at me the same way its just patten recognition but I always think there to hot so i dont talk to them. but yeah your right im trying to fix the extroversion but they do seem to make it a lot easer in the day.

 

[NotBlueFox]

At 5'7 you're lucky to get treated like a normie

real im like 5 5'9/5'10 frauded so im fine never had a girl have a problem with my hight. bc I think my face makes up for it.

 

[NotBlueFox]

If you are scoring at 5'7 even with a good face you are doing good. Where I am at after high school a single male in his 20s really struggles if 5'7 even if they did alright in high school due to face.

Thanks I used to think it was over for me but since I came to collage girls have been cheating with me on there boy friends who are "taller" but not as gling or smart as me like genuinely living across the street.

Its really weird to me since im not tall and I dont consider my self super gl but the girls that I have been pulling are the hottest in my collage so idk. I think its just my mental problems and insecurities holding me back.

the collage thing is kinda different from where im from btw theres like 350 ppl living together that go to uni. So there are hoter girls at uni

 

[yue]

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