Tried going to the bars solo

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Went to a football game where I drank 2 beers and my city has a lot of people here since it was a big game. None of my friends who I usually go to bars with were here cause of Thanksgiving and my other friends don’t have fakes as they lost them or just never had one.

Action plan

This led me to uber to the bars at 12:30 am solo since I had alr drank I figured I’ll go there buy shots and make the most out of the night where I already drank.

As soon as I got there I knew I was cooked as every bar was way too packed and there was no way for me to buy drinks.

I got hella iois and one was like looking me up and down for some reason, but I wasn’t drunk so I couldn’t approach for the life of me. This teaches me the lesson that low inhib is law.

While waiting to get into a bar these 2 girls from my math class were talking to me as I was next to them. I’ve never spoken to them before but one asked me who I was with and I larped saying I was trying to find my friends inside the bar so I wouldn’t look like a weirdo and as we’re talking 2 fights break down.

The fights were honestly the highlight of my night as I couldn’t do anything. My 2 beers had worn off as I had to wait an hour for my food at a joint. I figured it was better to go home since a girl could give me the biggest ioi ever and I’d still be way too anti social to approach at this point.

Moral of the story

Going clubbing or to bars solo is only possible if u get intoxicated enough to the point where ur almost blacked out or black out. Going with friends is much easier I figured as you can sort of split from ur friends and go up to a girl by urself but as long as she sees u have friends u don’t look sorta off to her. I was walking with groups of people when I got my iois but when I was by myself I felt way too weird.
 
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I’m prob done with bars for the rest of the year I wanna lock in on gym and find job
 
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Alone feel off, always with friend
 
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based going bars and clubs alone is mint if you see a few people you know you can network easier
 
based going bars and clubs alone is mint if you see a few people you know you can network easier
I saw some people but still just feels off almost like I’m bound to cling onto them for the rest of the night and they’ll get a sense I’m alone
 
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I saw some people but still just feels off almost like I’m bound to cling onto them for the rest of the night and they’ll get a sense I’m alone
You think too much just detach and start greeting people shake their hands get their name make them talk about themselves then the more people you acknowledge you become someone that can shift to seperate groups
 

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