Tried to kiss girl -> she claims i dont care about her

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Basically I was with this girl for like 2 months, hugging eachother, talking about intimate shit and she was holding my arm when we walked around. Then one time I was drunk and tried kissing her goodbye but she immediately ran away and stopped talking to me :forcedsmile:

Then when we texted eachother after weeks of no contact to bury the hatchet she told me that me trying to kiss her showed I "didn't care about her" and how betrayed she feels because "she told her parents about me". I asked her why she feels like I don't care about her and she said she felt like I only wanted to fuck her and she "loved me very much but only as a friend". I've been friends with girls before, so I know what being friends with a girl is like and can distinguish it from romance. This girl would call me in the middle of the night and if I didn't pick up would try 5 more times.

Am I the socially retarded one or is she?
 
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Females are retarded creatures
 
She viewed you as beta bf material. You stepping into the lover field made you appear only interested in sex, therefore non-beta.

Chad can convey both beta and alpha traits at the same time, sub-chad can't.
 
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If you were Chad, she would have kissed you, but because you are a subhuman, she looked for an excuse.

It’s over
 
Waiting 2 months to kiss and hold hands is insane, you have no game.
 
You're cuck, over.
 
Basically I was with this girl for like 2 months, hugging eachother, talking about intimate shit and she was holding my arm when we walked around. Then one time I was drunk and tried kissing her goodbye but she immediately ran away and stopped talking to me :forcedsmile:

Then when we texted eachother after weeks of no contact to bury the hatchet she told me that me trying to kiss her showed I "didn't care about her" and how betrayed she feels because "she told her parents about me". I asked her why she feels like I don't care about her and she said she felt like I only wanted to fuck her and she "loved me very much but only as a friend". I've been friends with girls before, so I know what being friends with a girl is like and can distinguish it from romance. This girl would call me in the middle of the night and if I didn't pick up would try 5 more times.

Am I the socially retarded one or is she?
Depends on the age.
 
even @brea called u a cuck

its legit gg for u
 
Waiting 2 months to kiss and hold hands is insane, you have no game.
I had no game because I wasn't attempting to get anything going with her. We weren't holding hands, she would tuck her arm around me without asking. I kissed her because I thought that's what she wanted. I've had experiences with girls before where they were desperate for my attention but I never reciprocated because I'm an asocial homebody who avoids people, even if they like me. I would regret not doing anything about it in hindsight so when I realized this girl was clearly into me I wanted to reciprocate in fear of regretting having not done anything about it. She was the one who would constantly seek me out at school and run at me with open arms to hug me and wait with her bicycle next to mine so I would accompany her on her way home. I was the passive one, until I tried kissing her while I was drunk.
 
I had no game because I wasn't attempting to get anything going with her. We weren't holding hands, she would tuck her arm around me without asking. I kissed her because I thought that's what she wanted. I've had experiences with girls before where they were desperate for my attention but I never reciprocated because I'm an asocial homebody who avoids people, even if they like me. I would regret not doing anything about it in hindsight so when I realized this girl was clearly into me I wanted to reciprocate in fear of regretting having not done anything about it. She was the one who would constantly seek me out at school and run at me with open arms to hug me and wait with her bicycle next to mine so I would accompany her on her way home. I was the passive one, until I tried kissing her while I was drunk.
I’m sorry to hear that u lost this opportunity, but i think you escalated too quickly in that situation and came off desperate and needy, her thinking you just want to fuck, you shouldve try to flirt with her first, build sexual tension, make her feel safe and then you should have gone for the kiss. Text her, maybe the situation is salvageable, if you care about this girl and think that she is LTR material.
 
If you were Chad, she would have kissed you, but because you are a subhuman, she looked for an excuse.

It’s over
It's not over I'm just never going to reciprocate with a girl who shows interest in me first again. Before this there was another girl who would literally lay herself on top of me without asking, when I didn't reciprocate she would tell everyone that "I tried to kiss her but she rejected me". I only attract mentally ill hoes
 
Women one of nature's mysterious.
 
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Listen to David deangelo and bust her balls man !
 

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