True anxiety and antio social behavior can never be fixed

[TsarTsar444]

If you have deep traumatic anxiety that occurred because of severe bullying and traumas between 5 and 12yo, then its 99,99% over for u, you will never be normal ever again, this isn't a bitter crabs in the bucket type of post, just telling you the reality, 5-12yp age is the peak of need for proper mental development, if something happens during this time, it will shape your personality permanently.

For example i was a very extroverted person before being 13, i absolutely adored spending time with other kids and such, but because of constant severe bullying between 7 and 16 my personality completely changed and now im permanently anti social and severely socially anxious. This will never change tho, you need to accept it and find various ways to copw now.

It could be religion, spirituality, drugs, extreme sports, games, porn etc. Don't try to fix it tho, you will absolutely not succeed

 

[SadLivwr]

In my case, I cant even be social even if I wanted to cos everyone avoids me like the plague

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Might as well rope then...

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Although I was never bullied, I was invisible and just another face in the crowd...

 

[TsarTsar444]

Might as well rope then...

You can cope with various different ways tho

 

[MostGLSlayer]

You can cope with various different ways tho

Coping my whole life... I need new ones

 

[TsarTsar444]

Coping my whole life... I need new ones

Tried drugs?

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Tried drugs?

Yeah 2 to 3 blunts everyday, other drugs don't do it like weed for some reason...

 

[TsarTsar444]

Yeah 2 to 3 blunts everyday, other drugs don't do it like weed for some reason...

Try traveling, and doing dumb shit or something tbh

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Same. It's over for me unless I can get to 6/10 face to compensate for my social anxiety.

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Try traveling, and doing dumb shit or something tbh

For sure bro thats why I'm wage slaving rn for jewbux so I can start doing fun shit...

 

[Deleted member 4106]

If you have deep traumatic anxiety that occurred because of severe bullying and traumas between 5 and 12yo, then its 99,99% over for u, you will never be normal ever again, this isn't a bitter crabs in the bucket type of post, just telling you the reality, 5-12yp age is the peak of need for proper mental development, if something happens during this time, it will shape your personality permanently.

For example i was a very extroverted person before being 13, i absolutely adored spending time with other kids and such, but because of constant severe bullying between 7 and 16 my personality completely changed and now im permanently anti social and severely socially anxious. This will never change tho, you need to accept it and find various ways to copw now.

It could be religion, spirituality, drugs, extreme sports, games, porn etc. Don't try to fix it tho, you will absolutely not succeed

It's literally the same case for me.

 

[Deleted member 245]

Same. It's over for me unless I can get to 6/10 face to compensate for my social anxiety.

You need 8/10 face for that tbh

 

[Deleted member 7725]

You need 8/10 face for that tbh

I'm 6'7" and wide framed so should add 1.5-2 points.

 

[CFW432]

I legit would not have anxiety or any nervousness if i was more physically attractive. I naturally have an extroverted personality, and i have good dark humor. Whenever i was out my work outings i would always want to call attention to myself and do shit to make me look high status, but i always have to remind myself that im a sub 5 curry and that no one would ever take me seriously therefore, i would never do anything and just keep to myself. I have no problem keeping conversations with people, but i never look them in the eyes cause i dont want them to actually get a good look at my horrible face and then proceed to treat me accordingly.

 

[Deleted member 13994]

I have cured my social anxiety but it is 20x better. There is hope to anyone reading here.