Trying to actively hit on girls is an outdated concept

[ifyouwannabemylover]

The average guy can approach 10 different girls on a saturday night, get absolutely nowhere and likely get a couple of "ew" faces on top. That's literally the norm in 2023 and there's no reason anyone should do this every week. I know most guys try to play it off and make it seem like they don't care, but no one can get rejected every weekend and not have it affect their self-esteem.

The way men get laid in this era is either:
1. Social circle oofy doofy LTR etc
2. Tall HTN+ just existing and not having to lift a finger because girls will come to them

Trying to hit on girls is an obsolete concept and most guys have at least subconsciously realized this which is why they rot inside and play vidya and watch pornhub.

 

[Dr. Bludy]

If they dont approach they dont want you
Its simple
Idiots cant understand or dont want to accept that..

 

[ascension]

Girls give you signals, then it's up to you to act on them. That's how it works nowadays

 

[soulless_npc]

Doesn't it drive you insane how everyone is so disconnected and barely even knows how to have an IRL conversation and all of this networking and meeting / dating is occurring behind a screen

I swear i'm gonna toss my smartphone and get a flip phone, it's prob over anyway so fuck it what do i need that shit for

 

[Deleted member 21735]

hitting on girls didnt work for me even in like 2010 lol.

 

[Deleted member 28904]

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