Trying to understand empathy

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So let me break this down overall ive personally always had problems with feeling empathy. When I was a small child I used to never understand why people would cry etc just understand my own pain.

Now that has me making this post is to get a break down from you boys, to see if ygs experience the same. It’s as if now Im there but not at the same time. This condition has definitely got worse over time due to troubles I had endured etc.. but do you boys experience this or no. I also have extreme feeling for things like anger and disgust so extremely ugly people make me have this frustration and make me want to take advantage.

Dnr if you want ik it’s a lot bhais but just curious if Im one of the only few people who experience this:feelsyay::Bedge:
 
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my mom said i had no empathy but i did i just dont show it
im autistic tho
 
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my mom said i had no empathy but i did i just dont show it
im autistic tho
Understandable I just don’t feel anything at all like relationships seem almost pointless to me bc I js can’t comprehend it :feelsyay:
 
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So let me break this down overall ive personally always had problems with feeling empathy. When I was a small child I used to never understand why people would cry etc just understand my own pain.

Now that has me making this post is to get a break down from you boys, to see if ygs experience the same. It’s as if now Im there but not at the same time. This condition has definitely got worse over time due to troubles I had endured etc.. but do you boys experience this or no. I also have extreme feeling for things like anger and disgust so extremely ugly people make me have this frustration and make me want to take advantage.

Dnr if you want ik it’s a lot bhais but just curious if Im one of the only few people who experience this:feelsyay::Bedge:
Very high T
 
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Very high T
no retard this has nothing to do with test

soce=iety is pushing people to being individualist hedonistic sociopaths
 
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no retard this has nothing to do with test

soce=iety is pushing people to being individualist hedonistic sociopaths
Agreed this definitely has gotten extremly worse after interacting with certain people in the world
 
Agreed this definitely has gotten extremly worse after interacting with certain people in the world
patrick bateman moment, you should fight it tho it's a advantage to understand people
 
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I also have extreme feeling for things like anger and disgust so extremely ugly people make me have this frustration and make me want to take advantage.

GonorrhoeaGobbler refering to that part​

 
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patrick bateman moment, you should fight it tho it's a advantage to understand people
Ive been trying for sure my avi actually relates to what u said I could actually kind of relate to him in a way then most say they do
 
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Society is faggot
 
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hard to say

i feel like i fake the emotions in sad situations to feel more "normal"

but yea almost nothing
 
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Ive been trying for sure my avi actually relates to what u said I could actually kind of relate to him in a way then most say they do
well yeah we all relate to pat. bateman, how can we not he's a satire of us modern men

everything that bret easton ellis described in NYC during the 80s that shaped him into that man is only more popular now and is becoming even more popular everyday

have you read the book ? it's peak asf I could send you a free link
 
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well yeah we all relate to pat. bateman, how can we not he's a satire of us modern men

everything that bret easton ellis described in NYC during the 80s that shaped him into that man is only more popular now and is becoming even more popular everyday

have you read the book ? it's peak asf I could send you a free link
Send LINK
 
So let me break this down overall ive personally always had problems with feeling empathy. When I was a small child I used to never understand why people would cry etc just understand my own pain.

Now that has me making this post is to get a break down from you boys, to see if ygs experience the same. It’s as if now Im there but not at the same time. This condition has definitely got worse over time due to troubles I had endured etc.. but do you boys experience this or no. I also have extreme feeling for things like anger and disgust so extremely ugly people make me have this frustration and make me want to take advantage.

Dnr if you want ik it’s a lot bhais but just curious if Im one of the only few people who experience this:feelsyay::Bedge:
Are you autistic?
 
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To be honest I don’t really know :feelsyay:
Tell me. Do you fear normies? Do you dislike women? In general, how well did you fit among people.
 
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Tell me. Do you fear normies? Do you dislike women? In general, how well did you fit among people.
I don’t really fear normies I can stand them but I can’t look them in their eyes. I don’t have very nice feelings towards women but thats just from past experiences with them. Im very good at adjusting myself with people on my supplement but off of it I isolate my self from all attention due to the feel of constant judgment
 
I don’t really fear normies I can stand them but I can’t look them in their eyes. I don’t have very nice feelings towards women but thats just from past experiences with them. Im very good at adjusting myself with people on my supplement but off of it I isolate my self from all attention due to the feel of constant judgment
Book an appointment with a psychologist for an autism test.
 
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Had issues with empathy my entire life, went to a psych they told me over time that i have heightened empathy levels and understanding of emotions most don't and I didn't really understand till they said my empathy causes me to shutdown and ignore it since i feel it so heavily.

I have schizotypal and still have issues with it.
In a relationship, it definitely shows with people i trust, but if it's someone i'm not close with (basically everyone) I'm pretty cold hearted and I honestly hate it.
 
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