Ritalincell
Xephir
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First off I'm 6x4 currently, but spend most of my dating life at 5x4. I'm thankful for my length but my girth is seriously under average and I have a difficult time with condoms. My first time having sex I didn't manage to pop her cherry and she told the school, Mass humiliation followed. Then second girl I slept with was visibly disappointed when she felt my dick for the first time, we fucked and the condom slipped off, she told everyone. Mass humiliation followed. I spent the rest of my life knowing I was small and that I'd never please a woman. I got plenty of woman interested in me. I'm blessed with a handsome face and exceptional charisma, but I was always anxious about the impending disappointment when I disrobed. I stuck to long term relationships and waited for months before doing anything sexual, hoping that they'd be too invested to stray. I got married, had a kid, and divorced. Being on the dating market scared the shit out of me but I forced myself to out myself out there. But I did it anyway. It was so difficult at first, I went through anxiety and depression and a few cases of not being able to get it up because I was stressing myself out. I kept at it though, I slept with quite a few women and was always brutally honest up front about two things. The first, I am looking for nothing but a casual, sexual relationship. The second, that I'm not very well endowed so if that is important, she should find another partner.
There were only two women that stopped things from processing before we fucked citing my penis size, and two others citing the lack of commitment. The rest I fucked, hard. I forced myself to believe that these women genuinely needed to be fucked by me, otherwise my two disclaimers would have scared them off. I blew their fucking minds with better oral than they'll ever be able to get again, and I shook them to the core by fucking them harder, more intensely, and more passionately than they were prepared for. Now I hardly think about my dick size. Internalizing this was a long process, but I'd like to share a few things that helped me.
I lost weight, making my dick a little longer, or at least appearing to be longer
I never apologize for my size
I practiced my oral techniques and when I do it, I do it to give her pleasure, not an orgasm. Women are used to men rushing to the finish line. If you do it because you genuinely enjoy making her moan she will pick it on it and relax and enjoy herself.
I dominate the fuck out of these women. Choking, slapping, hair pulling, filthy name calling, you name it. I haven't ran into a single girl that didn't absolutely love this. Slowly ramp up to it and she'll fucking melt
I realized that even though I'll never stretch a girl out or give her the physical sensation of a big dick, IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER! We tend to think of sex like men instead of women. Women aren't nearly as interested in the physical world as men are, it's all about connection, emotion, excitement, seduction, adventure, and feeling lost in the moment. There was a study that showed women only find something like 20% of men as being more attractive than the average man. Red pill guys will point out that this means women are unrealistically demanding. That isn't the case. Women are sexually attracted to men, not their looks. It's the situation, the experiences, and the emotions that men give that get women going, not how they look.
Ignore any sign of disappointment. I genuinely get excited if a chick looks disappointed in my dick size because it's an opportunity to flip her world upside down. Having a woman breathlessly confess that she never imagined the best sex of her life would come from a one night stand that isn't big is such a rush. If a girl looks upset when you whip it out or when she touches it, smirk while knowing your about to rock her world, then go out there and fuck her pussy up. You are literally in the position to blow away all of her preconceived notions and change the very way that she thinks about sex. That's some powerful shit right there.
Put yourself out there, keep swinging for the fences, and you'll slowly realize that your dick size doesn't mean shit in the grand scheme of things to and that you were pouring every single insecurity and worry about not being good enough into your dick size. Don't project that shit onto your dick. If your dick was perfect, you'd find something else to hold you back and blame.
Tldr - Fuck every woman you can, know that your dick size does not fucking matter in the least, and be fucking happy
There were only two women that stopped things from processing before we fucked citing my penis size, and two others citing the lack of commitment. The rest I fucked, hard. I forced myself to believe that these women genuinely needed to be fucked by me, otherwise my two disclaimers would have scared them off. I blew their fucking minds with better oral than they'll ever be able to get again, and I shook them to the core by fucking them harder, more intensely, and more passionately than they were prepared for. Now I hardly think about my dick size. Internalizing this was a long process, but I'd like to share a few things that helped me.
I lost weight, making my dick a little longer, or at least appearing to be longer
I never apologize for my size
I practiced my oral techniques and when I do it, I do it to give her pleasure, not an orgasm. Women are used to men rushing to the finish line. If you do it because you genuinely enjoy making her moan she will pick it on it and relax and enjoy herself.
I dominate the fuck out of these women. Choking, slapping, hair pulling, filthy name calling, you name it. I haven't ran into a single girl that didn't absolutely love this. Slowly ramp up to it and she'll fucking melt
I realized that even though I'll never stretch a girl out or give her the physical sensation of a big dick, IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER! We tend to think of sex like men instead of women. Women aren't nearly as interested in the physical world as men are, it's all about connection, emotion, excitement, seduction, adventure, and feeling lost in the moment. There was a study that showed women only find something like 20% of men as being more attractive than the average man. Red pill guys will point out that this means women are unrealistically demanding. That isn't the case. Women are sexually attracted to men, not their looks. It's the situation, the experiences, and the emotions that men give that get women going, not how they look.
Ignore any sign of disappointment. I genuinely get excited if a chick looks disappointed in my dick size because it's an opportunity to flip her world upside down. Having a woman breathlessly confess that she never imagined the best sex of her life would come from a one night stand that isn't big is such a rush. If a girl looks upset when you whip it out or when she touches it, smirk while knowing your about to rock her world, then go out there and fuck her pussy up. You are literally in the position to blow away all of her preconceived notions and change the very way that she thinks about sex. That's some powerful shit right there.
Put yourself out there, keep swinging for the fences, and you'll slowly realize that your dick size doesn't mean shit in the grand scheme of things to and that you were pouring every single insecurity and worry about not being good enough into your dick size. Don't project that shit onto your dick. If your dick was perfect, you'd find something else to hold you back and blame.
Tldr - Fuck every woman you can, know that your dick size does not fucking matter in the least, and be fucking happy
