Two things you have to do in order to have a successful dating life in 2025

[edodalic29]

You need to
1) Spend 100% of your time leveling up your attractiveness, social status , etc . Delete the dating apps , stop cold approaching, this strategy is dead and is only amplifying simp needy behavior.

2) Then once you have made yourself like a shiny object now all you do is talk to women who pursue you . I dont need to explain but these will be the easiest women you will ever have to deal with , no bs because she actually desires you .

cold approaching and trying to fish for women wheather your ascended or not is abused thirsty dog behavior, this will lower your precieved status in the eyes of foids


so to sum it all up , All you need to focus on is maxxing yourself out , then only pursue women who choose you .

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Laser focus bro we can do this !

 

[edodalic29]

Laser focus bro we can do this !

Fax
ive chased women for a whole year all it did was delay my ascension physically and mentally, sure i got a few slays but its meaningless because those women are not in my life rn

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Depends on what your ultimate goal is I guess
Chasing wymyn is a waste of time though

Fax
ive chased women for a whole year all it did was delay my ascension physically and mentally, sure i got a few slays but its meaningless because those women are not in my life rn

 

[edodalic29]

Depends on what your ultimate goal is I guess
Chasing wymyn is a waste of time though

Yep
I just wanna mog tbh , and find a good high quality women

 

[sarmatian]

I can look 2 times better than I look now and it still won't be enough

 

[albanianblackguy]

I just wanna mog tbh

fixed it

 

[narex054]

Delete the dating apps

Do u really think is a good idea,I’ve been thinking to delete tinder nd bumble I got some MTBs ngl
after should I just spam request from random girl’s account?

 

[pfl]

Not everyone will get foids pursuing them tho

 

[enchanted_elixir]

You need to
1) Spend 100% of your time leveling up your attractiveness, social status , etc . Delete the dating apps , stop cold approaching, this strategy is dead and is only amplifying simp needy behavior.

2) Then once you have made yourself like a shiny object now all you do is talk to women who pursue you . I dont need to explain but these will be the easiest women you will ever have to deal with , no bs because she actually desires you .

cold approaching and trying to fish for women wheather your ascended or not is abused thirsty dog behavior, this will lower your precieved status in the eyes of foids


so to sum it all up , All you need to focus on is maxxing yourself out , then only pursue women who choose you .

The Passive Dating Strategy Sucks: Waiting for women to approach you/make moves on you

I've been using this dating strategy for years, mostly because I cannot approach women for the life of me, and if I did, I would look so scared that she would reject me for looking like a scaredy-cat bitch, rendering approaching useless. I also don't think I have the SMV to do approaching...

looksmax.org

The downside to step 2 is that it's usually women with lower SMV/more masculine-assertive, or desperate who approach.
The pure passive strategy is probably not the best strategy if you want your looksmatch. It's a good strategy if you can take women with lower smv than you since you can't get hurt or do anything uncomfortable with this strategy.

 

[erkenboşalangarson]

water

 

[Whatever]

I've long since given up on the dating apps and have never cold approached... for #2, where are you meeting women to pursue you? In college and in part time jobs I worked in my early 20s, that part happened naturally, but ever since I started working full time it just doesn't happen. I work a loner job and don't have much free time, not out in public much.

I've now asked this same question to several people here and got no answer.

 

[narcomogs]

I've long since given up on the dating apps and have never cold approached... for #2, where are you meeting women to pursue you? In college and in part time jobs I worked in my early 20s, that part happened naturally, but ever since I started working full time it just doesn't happen. I work a loner job and don't have much free time, not out in public much.

I've now asked this same question to several people here and got no answer.

there is no answer

 

[edodalic29]

I've long since given up on the dating apps and have never cold approached... for #2, where are you meeting women to pursue you? In college and in part time jobs I worked in my early 20s, that part happened naturally, but ever since I started working full time it just doesn't happen. I work a loner job and don't have much free time, not out in public much.

I've now asked this same question to several people here and got no answer.

Real life
You arent meant to win online anyways , its also very hard for women to feel genuine attraction for u through a screen , you communicate with them over the phone and they will run games on you , you have to meet and esclate in real life

 

[narcomogs]

where are you putting yourself so that women can get close to you irl?

and tbh if she would have swiped left on you had she seen you on tinder...

how are you getting her in person

 

[narcomogs]

Real life
You arent meant to win online anyways , its also very hard for women to feel genuine attraction for u through a screen , you communicate with them over the phone and they will run games on you , you have to meet and esclate in real life

see above

 

[ShowerCelling]

You need to
1) Spend 100% of your time leveling up your attractiveness, social status , etc . Delete the dating apps , stop cold approaching, this strategy is dead and is only amplifying simp needy behavior.

2) Then once you have made yourself like a shiny object now all you do is talk to women who pursue you . I dont need to explain but these will be the easiest women you will ever have to deal with , no bs because she actually desires you .

cold approaching and trying to fish for women wheather your ascended or not is abused thirsty dog behavior, this will lower your precieved status in the eyes of foids


so to sum it all up , All you need to focus on is maxxing yourself out , then only pursue women who choose you .

just be htn+ and 6ft+ theory

 

[suub2incel]

You need to
1) Spend 100% of your time leveling up your attractiveness, social status , etc . Delete the dating apps , stop cold approaching, this strategy is dead and is only amplifying simp needy behavior.

2) Then once you have made yourself like a shiny object now all you do is talk to women who pursue you . I dont need to explain but these will be the easiest women you will ever have to deal with , no bs because she actually desires you .

cold approaching and trying to fish for women wheather your ascended or not is abused thirsty dog behavior, this will lower your precieved status in the eyes of foids


so to sum it all up , All you need to focus on is maxxing yourself out , then only pursue women who choose you .

to sum it up just ascend to cl out of no where and just let all the foids aproach you thx for the advice never tought of this be4 !

 

[Whatever]

Real life
You arent meant to win online anyways , its also very hard for women to feel genuine attraction for u through a screen , you communicate with them over the phone and they will run games on you , you have to meet and esclate in real life

Of course, but where in real life do you meet them? As in what places? Bars/clubs, activities, etc.?

 

[whynotme]

Your second point is so true I think wishiwaschico mentioned it before too because obviously even average women have so many options so if she messages you first then she's actually interested

 

[Eren]

You need to
1) Spend 100% of your time leveling up your attractiveness, social status , etc . Delete the dating apps , stop cold approaching, this strategy is dead and is only amplifying simp needy behavior.

2) Then once you have made yourself like a shiny object now all you do is talk to women who pursue you . I dont need to explain but these will be the easiest women you will ever have to deal with , no bs because she actually desires you .

cold approaching and trying to fish for women wheather your ascended or not is abused thirsty dog behavior, this will lower your precieved status in the eyes of foids


so to sum it all up , All you need to focus on is maxxing yourself out , then only pursue women who choose you .

 

[FoodPoisoning]

You need to
1) Spend 100% of your time leveling up your attractiveness, social status , etc . Delete the dating apps , stop cold approaching, this strategy is dead and is only amplifying simp needy behavior.

2) Then once you have made yourself like a shiny object now all you do is talk to women who pursue you . I dont need to explain but these will be the easiest women you will ever have to deal with , no bs because she actually desires you .

cold approaching and trying to fish for women wheather your ascended or not is abused thirsty dog behavior, this will lower your precieved status in the eyes of foids


so to sum it all up , All you need to focus on is maxxing yourself out , then only pursue women who choose you .

i think this is most people’s plans. because the plan makes it so u can avoid talking to women for as long as possible (self conscious/retarded) unless they want to talk to you.

 

[Altruist]

yeah.

water, but if your communication with women breaks down to you approaching them because you think they glanced at you for a moment, and then feeling like there is a huge challenge between your initiative and a positive outcome, it only makes sense to proceed if you are desperate and want any kind of relationship with any women no matter what.

in the opposite case, when you are attractive enough to have the upper hand on the "sexual market", women will pick up on that and give you all the green lights they can think of. the first conversation itself is gonna be easy, basic and spontaneous, without you feeling like you have to pull off any kind of performance to impress them. most of the time, just not having the body language signalling them to fuck off when you notice they are into you will be enough for them to overcome the social and mental boundaries and start the conversation first

(inb4 some retard with 0 life experience starts "schooling me" about how women will always approach you if you are gl enough for them; if anything, that's a sign that they are just horny, that they are sluts and do it with every third solid looking guy they see or that they aren't really taking you seriously - with guys they are truly attracted to, they'll want the typical, conventional scenario where a guy makes the first concrete move for multiple reasons, so they'll usually make it as blatant as possible that you have a pass non-verbally until you get the memo, actually risking explicit rejection, which is something hurts women way more than men)

 

[Foreverbrad]

I’m going to be volcel for almost 3 years waiting for my surgeries and recovery to finish. Currently about 15 months in. It’s actually crazy to think I use to be a slayer and now reduced to this.

Most of us will still need to go on apps and simp even after fully maxxing out with roids, surgeries and so on though. It’s unrealistic to expect to ascend into the top 1% that gets approached.

At least once you’re physically maxxed out it takes a lot less time and effort to maintain it than it does to gain it. No more surgery fund being 80% of my salary and no more exercise being 80% of my free time.