Ugly guy asks women on Reddit if they would ever date an ugly guy

[AlexAP]

Some answers:

"If I'm not attracted to him, no. But a man doesn't have to be conventionally attractive for me to be attracted to him."

"Nope, why would I date someone I'm not attracted to? It's not fair to me or to him."

"I date people I'm attracted to. Whether they're ugly or not, I don't know, but they're sexy to me."

"I wouldn't date a man I wasn't attracted to."

"I wouldn't date someone I don't find attractive, no. But I've thought some guys were SO HOT and had friends think they were ugly as all hell. It's subjective."

"I've dated two guys that, on first impression, I wouldn't have given a second look. They became my friends first, and then all of a sudden I started noticing how good-looking they were. That's how wonky our brains are. Both were positively lovely guys; hung up about their looks a bit, but then again so's everyone."

"I did for a long time. Well I hate to call him "ugly" cause that means different things to different people. I mean he was a really great guy i just wasnt attracted to him.
I think I dated him in part to prove to myself I wasnt shallow. But after a while no amount of personality could make me want him. He was left insecure and angry, i was frustrated and resentful. It was a bad scene for the both of us."

"Nope. I've only dated people who are physically attractive to me. It works one of two ways:

• I meet a person who I instantly find physically attractive.
• I meet a person who perhaps is not instantly super hot to me, but the more I get to know him, and the more I like him, the better he starts looking to me.

So, if I like a person (in a romantic context), it's guaranteed that I find them physically good looking."

 

[gamma]

So? This is known

 

[AlexAP]

I wanted to post this in the Offtopic section, can mods please move this thread? @Gargantuan @Lorsss @Alexanderr

 

[Deleted member 8165]

just LDAR

 

[AlexAP]

So? This is known

What do you mean? Many users here say women date men they're not attracted to because they feel pressure or need an emotional tampon.

This goes against it. It says most women only date guys they're attracted to, meaning Normies can actually be attractive to women and it's not "Chad only".

 

[Deleted member 4430]

 

[Cidre enjoyer]

imagine unironically listening to what women say
watch what they do

 

[gamma]

What do you mean? Many users here say women date men they're not attracted to because they feel pressure or need an emotional tampon.

They date men they're not attracted to only if they have money and status

 

[randomvanish]

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mean ?

 

[Acnno]

 

[DesperadoRatado]

imagine unironically listening to what women say
watch what they do

okay, im watching

all i see around here is average to below average looking men with bmws slaying

 

[AlexAP]

They date men they're not attracted to only if they have money and status

Most Normies don't have status and money.

And the women clearly say they either dated guys that weren't "conventionally attractive" (meaning they were Normies at best) or who they found attractive after time (the exposure effect).

 

[Lawton88]

lol Some serious virtue signalling in some of their responses. A female either finds you attractive or she doesn't and if she doesn't she is with you for a reason besides attraction which benefits her somehow in her mind.

 

[AlexAP]

lol Some serious virtue signalling in some of their responses. A female either finds you attractive or she doesn't and if she doesn't she is with you for a reason besides attraction which benefits her somehow in her mind.

Yes, that's the point. Women aren't only attracted to Chads or guys who have status and money, you can be non-Chad and have no big status or money and still be attractive to a woman. If that wouldn't be the case, Normies without status and money would all be single.

 

[gamma]

Most Normies don't have status and money

Most normies who get laid easily have status (big social circle, know a lot of people) and money (a job, a car, expensive clothes)
In this forum there are a lot of normie looking guys (in the rating section, in pms, I'm average looking too) but they lack social circle and job and money

 

[Chadeep]

Looks threshold isn't that High Irl. Tall Normie to HTN guys with good social skills have good success.

 

[Lawton88]

Yes, that's the point. Women aren't only attracted to Chads or guys who have status and money, you can be non-Chad and have no big status or money and still be attractive to a woman. If that wouldn't be the case, Normies without status and money would all be single.

Imo they can never really love you more than they could a good friend or relative but a lot of average females do get married just because they don't want to be left out of the game. I think Stacy's are the best gauge for what women really think due to their status and you see how many of them are bitter in recent years because they waited too long to nail down a Chad who is after 25 year old Stacy instead for marriage.

 

[AlexAP]

Most normies who get laid easily have status (big social circle, know a lot of people) and money (a job, a car, expensive clothes)
In this forum there are a lot of normie looking guys (in the rating section, in pms, I'm average looking too) but they lack social circle and job and money

Ok, Normies have social circle and decent money. But they're not all very popular in their social circle, and the social circle is not always big. Also, having a job and a car is nothing outstanding.

This means average men - average in Looks, Status, Money - can still be attractive to women.

 

[Selinity]

I think I dated him in part to prove to myself I wasnt shallow. But after a while no amount of personality could make me want him.

BRUUUTAL.

 

[gamma]

Ok, Normies have social circle and decent money. But they're not all very popular in their social circle, and the social circle is not always big. Also, having a job and a car is nothing outstanding.

This means average men - average in Looks, Status, Money - can still be attractive to women.

I don't even have a job or a car

 

[AlexAP]

BRUUUTAL.

I think it's better than she leading him on. That would be very brutal. But she shouldn't have dated him in the first place.

 

[gamma]

This means average men - average in Looks, Status, Money - can still be attractive to women.

Of course, but....which women? Becky or low tier beckies...or often landwhales
Girls on Reddit are ugly

 

[Lawton88]

BRUUUTAL.

Have to give her a little credit for honesty I guess.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

okay, im watching

all i see around here is average to below average looking men with bmws slaying

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I don't even have a job or a car

have job and moped. Brutal lifemog of @gamma

 

[DesperadoRatado]

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doesnt work in america

bmw has 0 meaning in cuckusa

 

[sandcelmuttcel]

woah they're admiting it

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

doesnt work in america

bmw has 0 meaning in cuckusa

So BMW is only halo in shitfilled streets of New Dheli? Over if ur BMW isnt getting soaked in Arnops chocolate rain everytime u go to the grocery store

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

doesnt work in america

bmw has 0 meaning in cuckusa

He was a slayer tbf. Had a body count of 6 on his first and final day of slaying

 

[DesperadoRatado]

So BMW is only halo in shitfilled streets of New Dheli? Over if ur BMW isnt getting soaked in Arnops chocolate rain everytime u go to the grocery store

i live in estonia, how is this even close to new fucking delhi

 

[AlexAP]

i live in estonia, how is this even close to new fucking delhi

Based country ngl. Best internet connection in Europe, low and easy taxes, liberal gun rights, atheist population, high English fluency, and of course hot women.

I only wish Russia wouldn't be that near, that's the only bad thing.

 

[DesperadoRatado]

Based country ngl. Best internet connection in Europe, low and easy taxes, liberal gun rights, atheist population, high English fluency, and of course hot women.

I only wish Russia wouldn't be that near, that's the only bad thing.

Russians are kinda cancerous but i cant really complain about it because my parents are both foreigners too

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Nope. I've only dated people who are physically attractive to me. It works one of two ways:

• I meet a person who I instantly find physically attractive.
• I meet a person who perhaps is not instantly super hot to me, but the more I get to know him, and the more I like him, the better he starts looking to me.

lifefuel for mere-exposuremaxxers

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I just want to get laid and die after

 

[AlexAP]

I just want to get laid and die after

You can get laid on a regular basis if you get a girlfriend.

 

[Deleted member 2968]

You can get laid on a regular basis if you get a girlfriend.

3 psl

 

[eduardkoopman]

"Nope. I've only dated people who are physically attractive to me. It works one of two ways:

• I meet a person who I instantly find physically attractive.
• I meet a person who perhaps is not instantly super hot to me, but the more I get to know him, and the more I like him, the better he starts looking to me.

this one, is describing it all.

A woman either sees a dude as;
1. really hot guy, yes asap. she will deffo want to bang him. asap. to not bang him, she needs to restraint maxx herself.
2. do-able guy. she find him hot enough, that she could/can do him. But not super exited or feeling sense of urgency about it. She needs added reasons, for going furthers

Like how it is for us men also, but a bit less picky way than. When we see these 2 type of women below. we go.

1.really hot woman, yes asap wanna bang, now, asap, no matters what. massive yes.

2. doable. But won't do everything to get with her. needs to be good match in other ways as well.

 

[AlexAP]

3 psl

You can still get a gf who is a Low-tier Becky (not a landwhale).

 

[Deleted member 2968]

You can still get a gf who is a Low-tier Becky (not a landwhale).

i got called ugly many times,not going to make same mistake

 

[AlexAP]

this one, is describing it all.

A woman either sees a dude as;
1. really hot guy, yes asap. she will deffo want to bang him. asap. to not bang him, she needs to restraint maxx herself.
2. do-able guy. she find him hot enough, that she could/can do him. But not super exited or feeling sense of urgency about it. She needs added reasons, for going furthers

Like how it is for us men also, but a bit less picky way than. When we see these 2 type of women below. we go.

1.really hot woman, yes asap wanna bang, now, asap, no matters what. massive yes.

2. doable. But won't do everything to get with her. needs to be good match in other ways as well.

Yes, the exposure effect is the great equaliser of the blackpill and what saves Normies.

I would also say that just like men, women can find average guys instantly attractive. I remember having crushes on very attractive women after the first time I saw them, but also on average-looking women (that some guys called ugly). It's probably the same with women. Different types do exist.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I would also say that just like men, women can find average guys instantly attractive. I remember having crushes on very attractive women after the first time I saw them, but also on average-looking women (that some guys called ugly). It's probably the same with women. Different types do exist.

Kinda proven by science also.
1. "Everyone" of opposite sex finds (Giga) Stacies/ (Giga) Chads. attractive
2. "Everyone" of opposite sex finds (Giga) ugly women/ (Giga) ugly men. unattractive
3. Middle ranges, from low tier normie hot maybe like Chadlite of HTN levels. There is plenty more divergence and disagreeance on peoples attractiveness rating. found in study. what is objectively a 50% guy. Some women may see as as 30% and some may see as 70% guy. Due to personal prefrences, for like wavy hair, or blonds, or cute, or domm, or etc.. looks.

Like for example.
I find Annika really good looking. But I know because of personal preference. While I know plenty guys will find her not so good looking, because of her very strong bone mass jawline.

 

[Gonthar]

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[AlexAP]

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Not all of them are ugly, and the ones that are (Jay-Z for example) have status halo.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

i live in estonia, how is this even close to new fucking delhi

Never heard of her

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Based country ngl. Best internet connection in Europe, low and easy taxes, liberal gun rights, atheist population, high English fluency, and of course hot women.

I only wish Russia wouldn't be that near, that's the only bad thing.

Atheist population = over

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Kinda proven by science also.
1. "Everyone" of opposite sex finds (Giga) Stacies/ (Giga) Chads. attractive
2. "Everyone" of opposite sex finds (Giga) ugly women/ (Giga) ugly men. unattractive
3. Middle ranges, from low tier normie hot maybe like Chadlite of HTN levels. There is plenty more divergence and disagreeance on peoples attractiveness rating. found in study. what is objectively a 50% guy. Some women may see as as 30% and some may see as 70% guy. Due to personal prefrences, for like wavy hair, or blonds, or cute, or domm, or etc.. looks.

Like for example.
I find Annika really good looking. But I know because of personal preference. While I know plenty guys will find her not so good looking, because of her very strong bone mass jawline.

Shes hot af

 

[Deleted member 8461]

Top comment:

When will they learn? The only time beauty is subjective is when they prefer one chad over another.

 

[Deleted member 8461]

There are ugly guys that many women find hot: like Adam Driver, Benedict Cumberbatch, The Weeknd, Drake, etc...

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That's fucking insane bro. All those guys except for like 2 are well above average.

"Ugly hot" = not perfect

They just call them ugly because male movie stars are usually psl gods.

Adam Driver has a single flaw which is his midface
The weeknd doesn't have enough definition
Benedict cumberbatch just has a narrow lower third and a receding hairline now that he's older
Drake has nct
etc

All those dudes have one or two flaws that make them distinguishable and prevent them from having MM status. They are definitely not 'ugly' in the sense that they're a lower attractiveness percentile than the average male.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Kinda proven by science also.
1. "Everyone" of opposite sex finds (Giga) Stacies/ (Giga) Chads. attractive
2. "Everyone" of opposite sex finds (Giga) ugly women/ (Giga) ugly men. unattractive
3. Middle ranges, from low tier normie hot maybe like Chadlite of HTN levels. There is plenty more divergence and disagreeance on peoples attractiveness rating. found in study. what is objectively a 50% guy. Some women may see as as 30% and some may see as 70% guy. Due to personal prefrences, for like wavy hair, or blonds, or cute, or domm, or etc.. looks.

Like for example.
I find Annika really good looking. But I know because of personal preference. While I know plenty guys will find her not so good looking, because of her very strong bone mass jawline.

Good vid

 

[LooksmaxxHopeful]

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Lot's of the women that like Adam Driver are not very attractive themselves, so they like him because he seems attractive relative to them w/o being inimidating.

Secondly and more importantly, whenever girls compliment driver a bunch of other girls instantly start talking shit and disagree with them and call him ugly, btw he's for sure not ugly. Solid 5.0 (feel free to disagree, I'm not an expert), give or take, he has a perfect nw0 hairline and a perfect eye area, he has a long midface, lacks a defined jawline, and yeah those are some serious flaws, the jawline being more-so.