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Why can't girls just be happy with what they have? I'm somewhere within the mtn range, I'm a decently handsome guy, lots of girls like me, I'm popular, I'm nice and funny at times, I've got my liscence at 16 so I can drive, have an okay amount of money (about 600-700$ CAD, used to be around 2000$ CAD but I've been spending more in the past year)

But still even though I'm handsome and kind and caring, I compliment her, joke around with her, buy her stuff when we go out, etc. the girl I'm curently dating reposted some fluffy haired pretty boy Htn guys lipsyncing video. WHAT THE FUCK?

She said- without me asking- a bit ago that if I ever see her repost "jock" guys or just guys in general dancing and stuff that it'd only be because it's "satisfying" to watch, I honestly believed her because when I checked her profile there were only a couple videos like that that she reposted and the dances were pretty impressive and I could understand someone reposting that just because of the dance. (Yes I know I should've caught on to how this was gonna go earlier on but I was happy to find someone so great and I was perfectly fine with believing her because of how great she is in every other way.)

But then recently I checked her reposts when I was bored because why not. She ghad reposted this fucking pretty boy (I fit under the prettyboy archetype too but not as handsome/pretty as this guy) lypsincing some dumbass song. This was different because he was even chewing gum in the video so every other word of the song wouldn't fit his mouth because he'd be chewing his gum.

The lypsync was terrible, he was off on like half the words and wasn't doing anything interesting except for looking into the camera seductively. The guy was stunning (no homo). There was a drawing on the table of L from death note in the video byut I kbnow thats not why she reposted it because it was a fucking terrible drawing and she doesn't watch anime anyways.

This is genuinely so angering, why would she do this. I mean I wouldn't care if somehow I found out she liekd a video from this guy or maybe watched a lot of his lypsyncs, I mean I'd understand. I cant pretend like I haven't seen a hot girl on tiktok and been like "damn", the problem I have is that she reposted it. Like WHY? its so easy to just not repost something like that. Things aren't serious between us yet but like we've both agreed to be locked in and not talk to other people or anything. I wanted a serious relationship and I thought she did too but like this is just her blatantly either trying to farm jealousy from me (which is a rude thing to do) or she's just the kind of person to repost other guys while going out with someone. I'm not not okay with either of those explanations

Anyways this was just a useless rant but it's nice to get it out. I'm not sure what to do about this because it's kind of a small thing and we arent serious yet but it is still kind of concerning to me, anyways thanks for reading (unless you reply DNR to the thread :Madge:). Also I normally have very good spelling, it's onlybad here because of my annoying ass keyboard that doesn't register letters sometimes andis weird to type on.

What would you guys do in this situation? I feel cucked.

:HeartGirl:
 
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leave her cause shes cucking you
 
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Why can't girls just be happy with what they have? I'm somewhere within the mtn range, I'm a decently handsome guy, lots of girls like me, I'm popular, I'm nice and funny at times, I've got my liscence at 16 so I can drive, have an okay amount of money (about 600-700$ CAD, used to be around 2000$ CAD but I've been spending more in the past year)

But still even though I'm handsome and kind and caring, I compliment her, joke around with her, buy her stuff when we go out, etc. the girl I'm curently dating reposted some fluffy haired pretty boy Htn guys lipsyncing video. WHAT THE FUCK?

She said- without me asking- a bit ago that if I ever see her repost "jock" guys or just guys in general dancing and stuff that it'd only be because it's "satisfying" to watch, I honestly believed her because when I checked her profile there were only a couple videos like that that she reposted and the dances were pretty impressive and I could understand someone reposting that just because of the dance. (Yes I know I should've caught on to how this was gonna go earlier on but I was happy to find someone so great and I was perfectly fine with believing her because of how great she is in every other way.)

But then recently I checked her reposts when I was bored because why not. She ghad reposted this fucking pretty boy (I fit under the prettyboy archetype too but not as handsome/pretty as this guy) lypsincing some dumbass song. This was different because he was even chewing gum in the video so every other word of the song wouldn't fit his mouth because he'd be chewing his gum.

The lypsync was terrible, he was off on like half the words and wasn't doing anything interesting except for looking into the camera seductively. The guy was stunning (no homo). There was a drawing on the table of L from death note in the video byut I kbnow thats not why she reposted it because it was a fucking terrible drawing and she doesn't watch anime anyways.

This is genuinely so angering, why would she do this. I mean I wouldn't care if somehow I found out she liekd a video from this guy or maybe watched a lot of his lypsyncs, I mean I'd understand. I cant pretend like I haven't seen a hot girl on tiktok and been like "damn", the problem I have is that she reposted it. Like WHY? its so easy to just not repost something like that. Things aren't serious between us yet but like we've both agreed to be locked in and not talk to other people or anything. I wanted a serious relationship and I thought she did too but like this is just her blatantly either trying to farm jealousy from me (which is a rude thing to do) or she's just the kind of person to repost other guys while going out with someone. I'm not not okay with either of those explanations

Anyways this was just a useless rant but it's nice to get it out. I'm not sure what to do about this because it's kind of a small thing and we arent serious yet but it is still kind of concerning to me, anyways thanks for reading (unless you reply DNR to the thread :Madge:). Also I normally have very good spelling, it's onlybad here because of my annoying ass keyboard that doesn't register letters sometimes andis weird to type on.

What would you guys do in this situation? I feel cucked.

:HeartGirl:
leave that slut. similar thing happened to me, it only gets worse. even though time has passed i still regret staying with her and watching myself get cucked
 
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leave that slut. similar thing happened to me, it only gets worse. even though time has passed i still regret staying with her and watching myself get cucked
you're right man. I mostly just feel surprised and dissapointed that she's like this. She really seemed different and pretty awesome at first
 
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why are women so trustable? most probably bc they seem harmless and so genuine but most are liars. the ones who dont lie to you, you can consider having a future with them. dump her and the next woman you’re with dont put in a 100% trust into them. she will effect ur lift negatively if she is like this
 
Who cares bro, we all watch porn for hours a day.

Yet you get mad at some foid for liking a Chad tiktoker who she has 0% chance of meeting.
 
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why are women so trustable? most probably bc they seem harmless and so genuine but most are liars. the one who doesnt lie to you is someone you can consider having a future with. dump her and the next women you’re with dont put in a 100% trust.
yeah I've been in similar situations to this before, this is the first time in months i've let my guard down and trusted a girl. IDK why i did it 🤦‍♂️
 
you're right man. I mostly just feel surprised and dissapointed that she's like this. She really seemed different and pretty awesome at first
so many guys say that about their girls. they can't all be different though can they 😂. sorry bout your situation though shit sucks
 
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Who cares bro, we all watch porn for hours a day.

Yet you get mad at some foid for liking a Chad tiktoker who she has 0% chance of meeting.
I quit porn a year ago, and I wouldn';t care about her finding him hot or whatever, that's completely normal but she went out of her way to publicly repost it like what the fuck
 
so many guys say that about their girls. they can't all be different though can they 😂. sorry bout your situation though shit sucks
haha yeah good point. It was a nice few weeks though :lul: Appreciate you man
 
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I quit porn a year ago, and I wouldn';t care about her finding him hot or whatever, that's completely normal but she went out of her way to publicly repost it like what the fuck

Maybe she want's you to dress like him or get a haircut similar to him or something. Foids love posting cryptic messages like that.
 
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I compliment her, joke around with her, buy her stuff when we go out, etc.
Because of this.

Which man would do such a thing?

A man without any options.

Do you think a man with 1000 women would do that? Buy flowers, hop on facetime calls, compliment her.?

These are nothing but tests put by women, they say they want it, and whoever gives it to them, they eliminate.

MARK AS SOLUTION
 
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Maybe she want's you to dress like him or get a haircut similar to him or something. Foids love posting cryptic messages like that.
his fit was just a hoodie man, and his hair was good but I think it's time I face reality lol. I've seen reposts hinting at stuff like what you said about fasion and stuff but this is different
 
yeah I've been in similar situations to this before, this is the first time in months i've let my guard down and trusted a girl. IDK why i did it 🤦‍♂️
happens to the best of us, dont always be a 100% on watch though sometimes enjoy the exp rather than always being in a sense of mistrust, but in situations like these leave instantly. shes publicizing how she finds other men who she isnt with attractive even when shes with you by reposting them, trying to make you seem like a weak cuck.
 
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Because of this.

Which man would do such a thing?

A man without any options.

Do you think a man with 1000 women would do that? Buy flowers, hop on facetime calls, compliment her.?

These are nothing but tests put by women, they say they want it, and whoever gives it to them, they eliminate.
True, It's not like I've been spending a lot on her, only like 5-10$ for like a blizzard at dairyqueen and stuff like that but you do have a point. I just wanted to be naive and blindfully hppy for a bit I guess. I haven't treated a girl well in a while because of how angry they usually make me because of things similar to this but I do still have to take accountability for letting this happen. I really appreciate your input and youre definately correct.
 
Who cares bro, we all watch porn for hours a day.

Yet you get mad at some foid for liking a Chad tiktoker who she has 0% chance of meeting.
shes publicly displaying her attraction to other guys, concerning behaviour from someone you may plan a future with
 
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happens to the best of us, dont always be a 100% on watch though sometimes enjoy the exp rather than always being in a sense of mistrust, but in situations like these leave instantly. shes publicizing how she finds other men who she isnt with attractive even when shes with you by reposting them, trying to make you seem like a weak cuck.
you're right, It's crazy man, you can just never be enough for these foids :feelsrope:
 
Because of this.

Which man would do such a thing?

A man without any options.

Do you think a man with 1000 women would do that? Buy flowers, hop on facetime calls, compliment her.?

These are nothing but tests put by women, they say they want it, and whoever gives it to them, they eliminate.

MARK AS SOLUTION
good point, women crave attention and validation, if you give it to them you fill the craving and they move on to the next more attractive man. always keep them in a sense of crave for attention but never no attention at all bc if you give them no attention at all they will accept defeat and move on eventually.
 
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idk man, foid psychology is very complex.

This is why you need female friends to give you tips, they understand foid psychology.
 
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True, It's not like I've been spending a lot on her, only like 5-10$ for like a blizzard at dairyqueen and stuff like that but you do have a point. I just wanted to be naive and blindfully hppy for a bit I guess. I haven't treated a girl well in a while because of how angry they usually make me because of things similar to this but I do still have to take accountability for letting this happen. I really appreciate your input and youre definately correct.
A tip for the next time is to just not care. In texting as well. Never argue. Just dont care. If she sends you paragraphs, just say “okay I understand” and never say goodbye. I promise you she’s going to come right back.

She is ghosting you? Perfect, best opportunity to just not care and show you have other options instead of texting like “hey is everything okay between us?”

But like I said mark as solution
 
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you're right, It's crazy man, you can just never be enough for these foids :feelsrope:
i think you can definitely be enough, i find hypergamy a stupid topic with examples of delusional women screaming out their delusions in hope that someone will fulfill their desperate needs taken as proofs of hypergamy. women will settle for less but overall they will be more sexually attracted to the more dominant attractive man. there are definitely high quality women out there who will give ONLY you their attention you gotta search in the right places and at the right times. remember womens #1 display of love is obsession over the man they truly love and adore
 
idk man, foid psychology is very complex.

This is why you need female friends to give you tips, they understand foid psychology.
extremely true having female friendships has helped me more in dating than anyone else ever could. for me personally my female friends are girls i have friendzoned or made it clear from the start that we are js friends and they have been extremely helpful
 
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Why can't girls just be happy with what they have? I'm somewhere within the mtn range, I'm a decently handsome guy, lots of girls like me, I'm popular, I'm nice and funny at times, I've got my liscence at 16 so I can drive, have an okay amount of money (about 600-700$ CAD, used to be around 2000$ CAD but I've been spending more in the past year)

But still even though I'm handsome and kind and caring, I compliment her, joke around with her, buy her stuff when we go out, etc. the girl I'm curently dating reposted some fluffy haired pretty boy Htn guys lipsyncing video. WHAT THE FUCK?

She said- without me asking- a bit ago that if I ever see her repost "jock" guys or just guys in general dancing and stuff that it'd only be because it's "satisfying" to watch, I honestly believed her because when I checked her profile there were only a couple videos like that that she reposted and the dances were pretty impressive and I could understand someone reposting that just because of the dance. (Yes I know I should've caught on to how this was gonna go earlier on but I was happy to find someone so great and I was perfectly fine with believing her because of how great she is in every other way.)

But then recently I checked her reposts when I was bored because why not. She ghad reposted this fucking pretty boy (I fit under the prettyboy archetype too but not as handsome/pretty as this guy) lypsincing some dumbass song. This was different because he was even chewing gum in the video so every other word of the song wouldn't fit his mouth because he'd be chewing his gum.

The lypsync was terrible, he was off on like half the words and wasn't doing anything interesting except for looking into the camera seductively. The guy was stunning (no homo). There was a drawing on the table of L from death note in the video byut I kbnow thats not why she reposted it because it was a fucking terrible drawing and she doesn't watch anime anyways.

This is genuinely so angering, why would she do this. I mean I wouldn't care if somehow I found out she liekd a video from this guy or maybe watched a lot of his lypsyncs, I mean I'd understand. I cant pretend like I haven't seen a hot girl on tiktok and been like "damn", the problem I have is that she reposted it. Like WHY? its so easy to just not repost something like that. Things aren't serious between us yet but like we've both agreed to be locked in and not talk to other people or anything. I wanted a serious relationship and I thought she did too but like this is just her blatantly either trying to farm jealousy from me (which is a rude thing to do) or she's just the kind of person to repost other guys while going out with someone. I'm not not okay with either of those explanations

Anyways this was just a useless rant but it's nice to get it out. I'm not sure what to do about this because it's kind of a small thing and we arent serious yet but it is still kind of concerning to me, anyways thanks for reading (unless you reply DNR to the thread :Madge:). Also I normally have very good spelling, it's onlybad here because of my annoying ass keyboard that doesn't register letters sometimes andis weird to type on.

What would you guys do in this situation? I feel cucked.

:HeartGirl:
@Tesarossa @surgerymaxxed1 @xyn @Sakl

this is the guy btw:
 
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@Tesarossa @surgerymaxxed1 @xyn @Sakl

this is the guy btw:

leave her immediately, if she barely knows any of your friends or other people part of your social life js ghost her and block
 
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OP. I HOPE YOU DID NOT CONFRONT HER ABOUT HER REPOSTING THIS. MOST OBVIOUS TRAP.
I havent't confronted her lol, I would feel like way too much of a cuck, I've just been laying low the past couple days being really dry over text and distancing myself so eventually I can just peace out without it being a big deal
 
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Why can't girls just be happy with what they have? I'm somewhere within the mtn range, I'm a decently handsome guy, lots of girls like me, I'm popular, I'm nice and funny at times, I've got my liscence at 16 so I can drive, have an okay amount of money (about 600-700$ CAD, used to be around 2000$ CAD but I've been spending more in the past year)

But still even though I'm handsome and kind and caring, I compliment her, joke around with her, buy her stuff when we go out, etc. the girl I'm curently dating reposted some fluffy haired pretty boy Htn guys lipsyncing video. WHAT THE FUCK?

She said- without me asking- a bit ago that if I ever see her repost "jock" guys or just guys in general dancing and stuff that it'd only be because it's "satisfying" to watch, I honestly believed her because when I checked her profile there were only a couple videos like that that she reposted and the dances were pretty impressive and I could understand someone reposting that just because of the dance. (Yes I know I should've caught on to how this was gonna go earlier on but I was happy to find someone so great and I was perfectly fine with believing her because of how great she is in every other way.)

But then recently I checked her reposts when I was bored because why not. She ghad reposted this fucking pretty boy (I fit under the prettyboy archetype too but not as handsome/pretty as this guy) lypsincing some dumbass song. This was different because he was even chewing gum in the video so every other word of the song wouldn't fit his mouth because he'd be chewing his gum.

The lypsync was terrible, he was off on like half the words and wasn't doing anything interesting except for looking into the camera seductively. The guy was stunning (no homo). There was a drawing on the table of L from death note in the video byut I kbnow thats not why she reposted it because it was a fucking terrible drawing and she doesn't watch anime anyways.

This is genuinely so angering, why would she do this. I mean I wouldn't care if somehow I found out she liekd a video from this guy or maybe watched a lot of his lypsyncs, I mean I'd understand. I cant pretend like I haven't seen a hot girl on tiktok and been like "damn", the problem I have is that she reposted it. Like WHY? its so easy to just not repost something like that. Things aren't serious between us yet but like we've both agreed to be locked in and not talk to other people or anything. I wanted a serious relationship and I thought she did too but like this is just her blatantly either trying to farm jealousy from me (which is a rude thing to do) or she's just the kind of person to repost other guys while going out with someone. I'm not not okay with either of those explanations

Anyways this was just a useless rant but it's nice to get it out. I'm not sure what to do about this because it's kind of a small thing and we arent serious yet but it is still kind of concerning to me, anyways thanks for reading (unless you reply DNR to the thread :Madge:). Also I normally have very good spelling, it's onlybad here because of my annoying ass keyboard that doesn't register letters sometimes andis weird to type on.

What would you guys do in this situation? I feel cucked.

:HeartGirl:
Chest on her
 
I havent't confronted her lol, I would feel like way too much of a cuck, I've just been laying low the past couple days being really dry over text and distancing myself so eventually I can just peace out without it being a big deal
So is your goal to win her back after or are you done with her?
 
So is your goal to win her back after or are you done with her?
I'm done with her, gonna go back to fucking anything that walks and ghosting them after lol

(Or that doesn't walk, I saw a pretty hot disabled chick on snapchat a few months ago ;))
 
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I'm done with her, gonna go back to fucking anything that walks and ghosting them after lol

(Or that doesn't walk, I saw a pretty hot disabled chick on snapchat a few months ago ;))
Fuck no one bro just seek what benefits you like money so you can get a wife nothing good will come from that
 
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@Tesarossa @surgerymaxxed1 @xyn @Sakl

this is the guy btw:

that guys a framelet id be more afraid of the "jocks" she posts, and I would also be worried that she considers you to be in a different category than the "jocks" her using that word at all referring to any guy who is not you is kindof cucked
 
that guys a framelet id be more afraid of the "jocks" she posts, and I would also be worried that she considers you to be in a different category than the "jocks" her using that word at all referring to any guy who is not you is kindof cucked
True, I'm also in decent shape for my weight too so it's pretty much a punch in the face from the universe for not being on roids (im pretty light, about 140lbs but I also bench 180 and squat 270 for 3 and people often say I look way bigger than 140lbs- in a good way)
 
extremely true having female friendships has helped me more in dating than anyone else ever could. for me personally my female friends are girls i have friendzoned or made it clear from the start that we are js friends and they have been extremely helpful

Yes exactly. Sadly OP is a loser who has no friends, nevermind female friends, so he has to ask incel losers online who hate women.
 
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Why can't girls just be happy with what they have? I'm somewhere within the mtn range, I'm a decently handsome guy, lots of girls like me, I'm popular, I'm nice and funny at times, I've got my liscence at 16 so I can drive, have an okay amount of money (about 600-700$ CAD, used to be around 2000$ CAD but I've been spending more in the past year)

But still even though I'm handsome and kind and caring, I compliment her, joke around with her, buy her stuff when we go out, etc. the girl I'm curently dating reposted some fluffy haired pretty boy Htn guys lipsyncing video. WHAT THE FUCK?

She said- without me asking- a bit ago that if I ever see her repost "jock" guys or just guys in general dancing and stuff that it'd only be because it's "satisfying" to watch, I honestly believed her because when I checked her profile there were only a couple videos like that that she reposted and the dances were pretty impressive and I could understand someone reposting that just because of the dance. (Yes I know I should've caught on to how this was gonna go earlier on but I was happy to find someone so great and I was perfectly fine with believing her because of how great she is in every other way.)

But then recently I checked her reposts when I was bored because why not. She ghad reposted this fucking pretty boy (I fit under the prettyboy archetype too but not as handsome/pretty as this guy) lypsincing some dumbass song. This was different because he was even chewing gum in the video so every other word of the song wouldn't fit his mouth because he'd be chewing his gum.

The lypsync was terrible, he was off on like half the words and wasn't doing anything interesting except for looking into the camera seductively. The guy was stunning (no homo). There was a drawing on the table of L from death note in the video byut I kbnow thats not why she reposted it because it was a fucking terrible drawing and she doesn't watch anime anyways.

This is genuinely so angering, why would she do this. I mean I wouldn't care if somehow I found out she liekd a video from this guy or maybe watched a lot of his lypsyncs, I mean I'd understand. I cant pretend like I haven't seen a hot girl on tiktok and been like "damn", the problem I have is that she reposted it. Like WHY? its so easy to just not repost something like that. Things aren't serious between us yet but like we've both agreed to be locked in and not talk to other people or anything. I wanted a serious relationship and I thought she did too but like this is just her blatantly either trying to farm jealousy from me (which is a rude thing to do) or she's just the kind of person to repost other guys while going out with someone. I'm not not okay with either of those explanations

Anyways this was just a useless rant but it's nice to get it out. I'm not sure what to do about this because it's kind of a small thing and we arent serious yet but it is still kind of concerning to me, anyways thanks for reading (unless you reply DNR to the thread :Madge:). Also I normally have very good spelling, it's onlybad here because of my annoying ass keyboard that doesn't register letters sometimes andis weird to type on.

What would you guys do in this situation? I feel cucked.

:HeartGirl:
Leave her cus she is cucking you and more likely going to cheat on you
 
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Yes exactly. Sadly OP is a loser who has no friends, nevermind female friends, so he has to ask incel losers online who hate women.
I've talked to my friends about this lol, whats with the hostility? Did i do something?
 

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