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Klasik616

Klasik616

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And I'm not talking about career goals
I didn't had enough social life

I started uni at the beggining of COVID with online classes. Then when I got back to uni no one knew who I was. People were ignoring me and I couldn't make friends.

I've talked to some girls but none of them saw me as more than a friend, which is laughable because they didn't even treated me like a friend. Instead I had to cope seeing other women being friendly with men and even couples but I never got that.

Now I'm 22 and uni is over, basically all the 18yr olds I could had are gone. Just because I discovered the blackpill too late, I didn't think I was ugly but based on my life experience with women I was never attractive to them (the blackpill).

And I also have to include my asperger in this because even today I still lack confidence and I don't really know how to talk with people (specially women). For women instead is fucking easy, they get relationships so fast.

Being average looking but boring or socially awkward is gonna get you 0 girls. I don't see myself overcoming this shit soon.
 
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And I'm not talking about career goals
I didn't had enough social life

I started uni at the beggining of COVID with online classes. Then when I got back to uni no one knew who I was. People were ignoring me and I couldn't make friends.

I've alked to some girls but none of them saw me as more than a friend, which is laughable because they didn't even treated me like a friend. Instead I had to cope seeing other women being friendly with men and even couples but I never got that.

Now I'm 22 and uni is over, basically all the 18yr olds I could had are gone. Just because I discovered the blackpill too late, I didn't think I was ugly but based on my life experience with women I was never attractive to them.

And I also have to include my asperger in this because even today I still lack confidence and I don't really know how to talk with people (specially women). For women instead is fucking easy, they get relationships so fast.
its more your asperger than your looks probably, considering you arent able to make regular friends

im of the belief that nothing ruins your social chances more than having autism, its brutal and i feel for you, but i got no tips to improve
 
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its more your asperger than your looks probably, considering you arent able to make regular friends

im of the belief that nothing ruins your social chances more than having autism, its brutal and i feel for you, but i got no tips to improve
Definitely

I have recently being doing "NT" things that would "fix" my confidence like going to the gym, getting lean, dressing and smelling better (all cope). My confidence didn't improve a bit, people might see me as normal but inside I'm really anxious.

The worst thing is that I don't have enough looks to make up for my lack of sociability, even an aspie HTN could have make it.

I've seen some dudes on my same situation but they're slighty uglier than me. Instead women who are shy and introverted still get boyfriends.
 
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Definitely

I have recently being doing "NT" things that would "fix" my confidence like going to the gym, getting lean, dressing and smelling better (all cope). My confidence didn't improve a bit. The worst thing is that I don't have enough looks to make up for my lack of sociability, even an aspie HTN could have make it.

I've seen some dudes on my same situation but they're slighty uglier than me. Instead women who are shy and introverted still get boyfriends.
dont get me wrong its not over

but you have to get comfortable with the reality that youre just disadvantaged

id advice you to look around in circles with a higher chance of ND, like gamer girls or tabletob girls for example

chances are you will get along with these people way better anyway than normie women
 
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dont get me wrong its not over

but you have to get comfortable with the reality that youre just disadvantaged

id advice you to look around in circles with a higher chance of ND, like gamer girls or tabletob girls for example

chances are you will get along with these people way better anyway than normie women
It's over for my age,
Women think that at this age I wouldn't be this socially retarded but nothing changed.

When I was a teen I improved my social skills a bit but I always come back to my essence which is being non NT. Even if I ascend hard, Chad life is not for me (Clavicular) because you need to be extroverted and low inhib also.
 
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At university I increased my confidence a lot (which helped me a lot after at work in terms of being able to interacting with many strangers in a spontaneous way) and broadened my social group, playing a sport that took place ''right in the middle'' of the student campus, and being very good at it (I was even the best on campus for 2-3 years, and even participated in the university cup in that sport for 2 years in a row, the first year taking 2nd place, and the 2nd year taking 1st place)

So at least that's what worked for me, and that's what I recommend to others (I had roommates who were maybe better looking than me, and they'd sit around all day and play League of Legends, while I was outside and beat some guys 6'2+ HTN+ at that sport, while a bunch of random foids walked by and sometimes stopped and watched me do that..)
 
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It's over for my age,
Women think that at this age I wouldn't be this socially retarded but nothing changed.
When I was a teen I improved my social skills a bit but I always come back to my essence which is being non NT.
22 isnt at all too late broski

theres still time to learn and be successful

hell some ppl really only start dating at 30 and theyre still fine

if u give up u already lost, also youre being complacent with what your haters think of you, this should motivate yok
 
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At university I increased my confidence a lot (which helped me a lot after at work in terms of being able to interacting with many strangers in a spontaneous way) and broadened my social group, playing a sport that took place ''right in the middle'' of the student campus, and being very good at it (I was even the best on campus for 2-3 years, and even participated in the university cup in that sport for 2 years in a row, the first year taking 2nd place, and the 2nd year taking 1st place)

So at least that's what worked for me, and that's what I recommend to others (I had roommates who were maybe better looking than me, and they'd sit around all day and play League of Legends, while I was outside and beat some guys 6'2+ HTN+ at that sport, while a bunch of random foids walked by and sometimes stopped and watched me do that..)
Because you're just a superior human, the kind of men women want. You did the right things to atleast get noticed (I was playing games too cus "MGTOW").
22 isnt at all too late broski

theres still time to learn and be successful

hell some ppl really only start dating at 30 and theyre still fine

if u give up u already lost, also youre being complacent with what your haters think of you, this should motivate yok
Bro really said being a KHHV at 30 is fine in a blackpilled incel forum
 
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And I'm not talking about career goals
I didn't had enough social life

I started uni at the beggining of COVID with online classes. Then when I got back to uni no one knew who I was. People were ignoring me and I couldn't make friends.

I've talked to some girls but none of them saw me as more than a friend, which is laughable because they didn't even treated me like a friend. Instead I had to cope seeing other women being friendly with men and even couples but I never got that.

Now I'm 22 and uni is over, basically all the 18yr olds I could had are gone. Just because I discovered the blackpill too late, I didn't think I was ugly but based on my life experience with women I was never attractive to them (the blackpill).

And I also have to include my asperger in this because even today I still lack confidence and I don't really know how to talk with people (specially women). For women instead is fucking easy, they get relationships so fast.

Being average looking but boring or socially awkward is gonna get you 0 girls. I don't see myself overcoming this shit soon.
Ascend to htn then talk
 
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Iโ€™m done with everything.
 
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And I'm not talking about career goals
I didn't had enough social life

I started uni at the beggining of COVID with online classes. Then when I got back to uni no one knew who I was. People were ignoring me and I couldn't make friends.

I've talked to some girls but none of them saw me as more than a friend, which is laughable because they didn't even treated me like a friend. Instead I had to cope seeing other women being friendly with men and even couples but I never got that.

Now I'm 22 and uni is over, basically all the 18yr olds I could had are gone. Just because I discovered the blackpill too late, I didn't think I was ugly but based on my life experience with women I was never attractive to them (the blackpill).

And I also have to include my asperger in this because even today I still lack confidence and I don't really know how to talk with people (specially women). For women instead is fucking easy, they get relationships so fast.

Being average looking but boring or socially awkward is gonna get you 0 girls. I don't see myself overcoming this shit soon.
youll never have a social life just give up bro
i had to learn that too
 
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Ascend to htn then talk
I'm trying (still leaning down).
Yesterday I shaved my facial hair like you said and I look a little better. Using minoxidil on forehead and eyebrows too.
 
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Would it change anything if you found out about the blackpill earlier ??
 
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how many jobs you had
 
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I have no great relational difficulties, but I'm in a worse social situation than the stereotypical pimply nerd who goes to video game fairs.
 
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Would it change anything if you found out about the blackpill earlier ??
Yes I didn't know height was such a halo, I needed the blackpill when I was a teen to heightmaxx and go to the gym earlier. Learn an sport and ntmaxx too. I would have saved money for surgeries instead of spending it in other stupid things.
 
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Yes I didn't know height was such a halo, I needed the blackpill when I was a teen to heightmaxx and go to the gym earlier. Learn a sport and ntmaxx too. I would have saved money for surgeries instead of spending it in other stupid things.
I regret the same thing man. Way too late to do anything now
 
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Hard to socialmaxx unless you enroll yourself in a Master's program. Which I think isn't your goal
 
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Hard to socialmaxx unless you enroll yourself in a Master's program. Which I think isn't your goal
Yes I wanna do a Master's program but I'm still searching for a good university to do it.
 
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how do u even make friends in uni
 
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If your universities have open access you can just enter lectures, larp as a regular student and repeat your uni years till you have too much aging signs to larp young. I plan to stay in uni till 30.
 
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If your universities have open access you can just enter lectures, larp as a regular student and repeat your uni years till you have too much aging signs to larp young. I plan to stay in uni till 30.
That's exactly what I'm gonna do to keep seeing girls in the next year (it might not be over for me).
how do u even make friends in uni
I know some people but they never ask something personal so I don't consider them friends. I barely hang out with them, I try to talk with them but my aspie levels ruin it. I also fumbled my opportunity with a girl for saying some dumb shit once.
 
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Being average looking but boring or socially awkward is gonna get you 0 girls.
You are below average looking. You see yourself and think youโ€™re average, then you start making theories on how average menโ€™s lifeโ€™s work, meanwhile youโ€™re not one of them. Itโ€™s a scientific fact that humans tend to overestimate their own physical attractiveness, all humans do and if you say youโ€™re average, then youโ€™re most likely ugly af
 
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You are below average looking. You see yourself and think youโ€™re average, then you start making theories on how average menโ€™s lifeโ€™s work, meanwhile youโ€™re not one of them. Itโ€™s a scientific fact that humans tend to overestimate their own physical attractiveness, all humans do and if you say youโ€™re average, then youโ€™re most likely ugly af
I'm not fat anymore and I got approached by LTBs twice. I just don't like LTBs. I still will be looksmaxxing until I get a MTB or a LTB with body halo.
 
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Definitely

I have recently being doing "NT" things that would "fix" my confidence like going to the gym, getting lean, dressing and smelling better (all cope). My confidence didn't improve a bit, people might see me as normal but inside I'm really anxious.

The worst thing is that I don't have enough looks to make up for my lack of sociability, even an aspie HTN could have make it.

I've seen some dudes on my same situation but they're slighty uglier than me. Instead women who are shy and introverted still get boyfriends.
I got rates htn by people I asked in DMs and I got not bitches so far, I'm 18 tho.
 
And I'm not talking about career goals
I didn't had enough social life

I started uni at the beggining of COVID with online classes. Then when I got back to uni no one knew who I was. People were ignoring me and I couldn't make friends.

I've talked to some girls but none of them saw me as more than a friend, which is laughable because they didn't even treated me like a friend. Instead I had to cope seeing other women being friendly with men and even couples but I never got that.

Now I'm 22 and uni is over, basically all the 18yr olds I could had are gone. Just because I discovered the blackpill too late, I didn't think I was ugly but based on my life experience with women I was never attractive to them (the blackpill).

And I also have to include my asperger in this because even today I still lack confidence and I don't really know how to talk with people (specially women). For women instead is fucking easy, they get relationships so fast.

Being average looking but boring or socially awkward is gonna get you 0 girls. I don't see myself overcoming this shit soon.
If you didnโ€™t accomplish most of your goals by the time you were joining uni it was already over to begin with lol.
 
University is the final bastion of hope for loners to build a social circle. If you fail at finding friends at uni, you were never meant to have a normal social life & just have to accept/embrace being a loner.
 

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