unless you're a 9 or 10, autism will hold a dude back (in terms of getting foids)

[BadLuck7892]

If a male autist's looks are a 9 or 10, a lot of social rules fly out the window. Foids will throw themselves at you (and let any autistic mannerisms slide) because of how good your looks are.

If you're in my boat (slightly above-average, yet not a 9 or 10), on the other hand, despite having decent looks, our looks don't meet the required threshold to offset our autism.

That's how I ended up in the position I'm in: Only 1 free lay in the past decade

@hopecel (tagging you because despite being an autist yourself, you don't appear to understand how much autism holds a dude back)

 

[BadLuck7892]

Tagging @AryanSchizo as well, as you're in the same boat as me (above-average, yet not a 9 or 10)

 

[htbslayeer]

Facts.

“Muh chad is ND and autistic and still slays” yes buddy but Chad is one in 50.000. You are not chad, no one you know is chad, you’ve never seen a chad irl

 

[BadLuck7892]

Facts.

“Muh chad is ND and autistic and still slays” yes buddy but Chad is one in 50.000. You are not chad, no one you know is chad, you’ve never seen a chad irl

I also hate it when stories like "this autist asked out a foid he thought he surely had no chance with; they've now been married for decades" get passed around the internet like his experience is somehow the norm for autists.

Yeah, sometimes a sub-9 autist will luck out. Yet stories like mine are way more common for sub-9 autists

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

If a male autist's looks are a 9 or 10, a lot of social rules fly out the window. Foids will throw themselves at you (and let any autistic mannerisms slide) because of how good your looks are.

If you're in my boat (slightly above-average, yet not a 9 or 10), on the other hand, despite having decent looks, our looks don't meet the required threshold to offset our autism.

That's how I ended up in the position I'm in: Only 1 free lay in the past decade

@hopecel (tagging you because despite being an autist yourself, you don't appear to understand how much autism holds a dude back)

No, because autists make the best pick up artists, due to their lack of social awareness

 

[inyerta]

What can an autost do besides trying his best to mask it? Even autistic girls dont want autistic guys

 

[Marss]

If a male autist's looks are a 9 or 10, a lot of social rules fly out the window. Foids will throw themselves at you (and let any autistic mannerisms slide) because of how good your looks are.

If you're in my boat (slightly above-average, yet not a 9 or 10), on the other hand, despite having decent looks, our looks don't meet the required threshold to offset our autism.

That's how I ended up in the position I'm in: Only 1 free lay in the past decade

@hopecel (tagging you because despite being an autist yourself, you don't appear to understand how much autism holds a dude back)

not if ur in a bar and she thinks ur drunk

 

[BadLuck7892]

No, because autists make the best pick up artists, due to their lack of social awareness

I attempted pickup artistry when I was 23. It never got me anywhere other than some foid exchanging numbers with me who ultimately ended up comparing me to Jeffrey Dahmer when she came to my place (no action happened between us)

 

[BadLuck7892]

What can an autost do besides trying his best to mask it? Even autistic girls dont want autistic guys

There's really not a whole lot we can do (You're right: Even female autists don't want us)

My only suggestion is to flirt as much as possible, go to organized singles events, etc.

I've gotten 2 actual dates from organized singles events.

As for my last free lay, she was some foid who worked in my condo building I flirted with off and on over the course of 2 years (My point: Even though flirts won't get an autist anywhere in the vast majority of cases, you never know when you might luck out)

 

[rik]

Im autistic but still slay just mask your whole personality its that easy

 

[BadLuck7892]

Im autistic but still slay just mask your whole personality its that easy

Masking is only half the battle.

I mask pretty well. Yet I have a harder time than neurotypicals picking up on a foid's "fuck me" cues (and even if I pick up on a foid's "fuck me" cues, I don't know how to close)

 

[Deleted member 367350]

Honestly you just sound like an ageing, average looking guy. While you're on spectrum for sure with how you post, I think its fundamentally a looks problem.

 

[AryanSchizo]

I would say i’m a 8 almost 9 looks wise tbh, ever since i got my job at this restaurant, many foids give me iois and even call me handsome.
I’m just turbo autistic

 

[BadLuck7892]

Honestly you just sound like an ageing, average looking guy. While you're on spectrum for sure with how you post, I think its fundamentally a looks problem.

I look a lot like my avatar

Even if I'm no Chad, I have good enough looks I'd be able to get laid if I were NT (even when factoring in the fact I'm aging)

It's an autism problem

 

[rik]

Masking is only half the battle.

I mask pretty well. Yet I have a harder time than neurotypicals picking up on a foid's "fuck me" cues (and even if I pick up on a foid's "fuck me" cues, I don't know how to close)

I used to be a super aspie autist but after watching Jon zherka explaining female body language i now pick up on “fuck me” cue’s I recommend watching his video’s it helped me alot

 

[Whiteboard7]

If a male autist's looks are a 9 or 10, a lot of social rules fly out the window. Foids will throw themselves at you (and let any autistic mannerisms slide) because of how good your looks are.

If you're in my boat (slightly above-average, yet not a 9 or 10), on the other hand, despite having decent looks, our looks don't meet the required threshold to offset our autism.

That's how I ended up in the position I'm in: Only 1 free lay in the past decade

@hopecel (tagging you because despite being an autist yourself, you don't appear to understand how much autism holds a dude back)

I am probably autistic. It sucks yeah

 

[BadLuck7892]

I would say i’m a 8 almost 9 looks wise tbh, ever since i got my job at this restaurant, many foids give me iois and even call me handsome.
I’m just turbo autistic

If I recall, you're 25. Back when I was your age, I worked in a store. Female customers (and even a slutty female coworker) would give me IOIs, yet (like you) I lacked the social grace to capitalize on any opportunities.

Get this: One time at 25, an escort of mine came to the store and kissed me. I told coworkers she was my girlfriend (no way was I going to admit she was an escort)

 

[BadLuck7892]

I used to be a super aspie autist but after watching Jon zherka explaining female body language i now pick up on “fuck me” cue’s I recommend watching his video’s it helped me alot

again, reading the cues is only half the battle (if I don't know how to close, reading the cue is meaningless)

I say that as a dude whose autism is mild enough I read the cue a decent percentage of the time

 

[AryanSchizo]

I used to be a super aspie autist but after watching Jon zherka explaining female body language i now pick up on “fuck me” cue’s I recommend watching his video’s it helped me alot

jon zherka? where do i watch

 

[AryanSchizo]

If I recall, you're 25. Back when I was your age, I worked in a store. Female customers (and even a slutty female coworker) would give me IOIs, yet (like you) I lacked the social grace to capitalize on any opportunities.

Get this: One time at 25, an escort of mine came to the store and kissed me. I told coworkers she was my girlfriend (no way was I going to admit she was an escort)

we have the same autism and it’s hilarious

you think and remember just like me, I have a good long memory

 

[rik]

again, reading the cues is only half the battle (if I don't know how to close, reading the cue is meaningless)

I say that as a dude whose autism is mild enough I read the cue a decent percentage of the time

Break the touch barrier its the most important thing to do to get laid

Tip: the more gentle you are while touching her the more wet she gets

 

[rik]

jon zherka? where do i watch

Youtube

 

[BadLuck7892]

we have the same autism and it’s hilarious

you think and remember just like me, I have a good long memory

Yeah, part of why I remember stuff that happened close to a decade ago is my autistic memory. Part is the fact I haven't had much official success with foids (so I'm going to remember, out of frustration, any possibile opportunities I missed)

 

[BadLuck7892]

Break the touch barrier its the most important thing to do to get laid

Tip: the more gentle you are while touching her the more wet she gets

Breaking the touch barrier is risky because it might turn out the touch wasn't wanted

My last free lay, she broke the touch barrier by touching my dick while we kissed

 

[rik]

Breaking the touch barrier is risky because it might turn out the touch wasn't wanted

Its the best way to find out if she wants to have sex

 

[BadLuck7892]

Its the best way to find out if she wants to have sex

I get that. Yet unwantedly breaking the touch barrier can be viewed as sexual harassment in this woke era

 

[Kainep]

just nichemax as an autist htn

 

[Deleted member 268817]

acting dumb while also being hmtn+ will get you sooo many hoes

 

[muhuser7]

Luckly im chad and autistic so im alr

 

[rik]

I get that. Yet unwantedly breaking the touch barrier can be viewed as sexual harassment in this woke era

Real

 

[BadLuck7892]

Luckly im chad and autistic so im alr

An autistic Chad. Fascinating.

You proved my theory right (autistic Chads can still pull)

 

[hopecel]

If a male autist's looks are a 9 or 10, a lot of social rules fly out the window. Foids will throw themselves at you (and let any autistic mannerisms slide) because of how good your looks are.

If you're in my boat (slightly above-average, yet not a 9 or 10), on the other hand, despite having decent looks, our looks don't meet the required threshold to offset our autism.

That's how I ended up in the position I'm in: Only 1 free lay in the past decade

@hopecel (tagging you because despite being an autist yourself, you don't appear to understand how much autism holds a dude back)

it holds you back but you still can do pretty well if you're above average

@shiezen's sex life is a good example, he's slaying despite being an aspie

 

[Deleted member 303625]

incel basement theories. you will not imagine how many utter spergsout there are getting laid just because they have a normally sized midface

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Water. Brain chemistrypill is brutal

 

[shiezen]

it holds you back but you still can do pretty well if you're above average

@shiezen's sex life is a good example, he's slaying despite being an aspie

yeah I am almost 100% sure that I have asperger's syndrome and I never even told @hopecel about it, it just shows and my sex life is completely fine, slayed a bitch in 3 dates and she wanted even on second one, dumped her after 2-3 months and got back with my ex while also staying in contact with her the whole time, also me and my ex were both virgins when we fucked at 16, and now I have bodies and she still has only me and can't get over me, autism won't hold you back if you are slightly above avg lookswisely and if you have good pattern recognition, you will just eventually understand social patterns and adapt to the norm and the problems are fixed.

 

[BadLuck7892]

it holds you back but you still can do pretty well if you're above average

@shiezen's sex life is a good example, he's slaying despite being an aspie

Ok, yet the fact I'm a HTN incel proves that even being above-average is no guarantee

 

[BadLuck7892]

incel basement theories. you will not imagine how many utter spergsout there are getting laid just because they have a normally sized midface

I have a chiseled jawline yet still can't get laid

 

[GenerationalAutism]

you look 45

 

[BadLuck7892]

yeah I am almost 100% sure that I have asperger's syndrome and I never even told @hopecel about it, it just shows and my sex life is completely fine, slayed a bitch in 3 dates and she wanted even on second one, dumped her after 2-3 months and got back with my ex while also staying in contact with her the whole time, also me and my ex were both virgins when we fucked at 16, and now I have bodies and she still has only me and can't get over me, autism won't hold you back if you are slightly above avg lookswisely and if you have good pattern recognition, you will just eventually understand social patterns and adapt to the norm and the problems are fixed.

I'm good at some patterns, yet terrible in the context of dating/sex

 

[BadLuck7892]

you look 45

I've been told I look older than my age

In any case, I prefer 45-65 year old cooch anyway

 

[Deleted member 303625]

I have a chiseled jawline yet still can't get laid

jaw doenst matter as much as autistis here think

 

[BadLuck7892]

jaw doenst matter as much as autistis here think

A black female coworker commented on my chiseled jawline when I was 25-ish

Come to think of it, so did a White female coworker around that time

 

[Deleted member 303625]

A black female coworker commented on my chiseled jawline when I was 25-ish

Come to think of it, so did a White female coworker around that time

and what happened afterwards?

 

[BadLuck7892]

and what happened afterwards?

Nothing

Because I'm incapable of taking the lead even after getting an IOI

@AryanSchizo knows what I mean

 

[Deleted member 303625]

Because I'm incapable of taking the lead even after getting an IOI

sex is the only IOI

 

[BadLuck7892]

sex is the only IOI

Umm, incorrect

The female coworker who drew a picture of me holding a bouquet of flowers (and then gave the picture to me), that was a clear IOI

 

[Deleted member 303625]

The female coworker who drew a picture of me holding a bouquet of flowers (and then gave the picture to me), that was a clear IOI

and what psl was she?

 

[AustrianMogger]

If a male autist's looks are a 9 or 10, a lot of social rules fly out the window. Foids will throw themselves at you (and let any autistic mannerisms slide) because of how good your looks are.

If you're in my boat (slightly above-average, yet not a 9 or 10), on the other hand, despite having decent looks, our looks don't meet the required threshold to offset our autism.

That's how I ended up in the position I'm in: Only 1 free lay in the past decade

@hopecel (tagging you because despite being an autist yourself, you don't appear to understand how much autism holds a dude back)

9 or 10`? What is that in real rating?

 

[BadLuck7892]

and what psl was she?

She was a 5/10

 

[BadLuck7892]

9 or 10`? What is that in real rating?

Out of 10

9 or 10 means you're a Chad