Update: I went clubbing, got laid, got dumped, and now I'm depressed

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I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.
 
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why does she look pregnant in that photo
 
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These hot club girls are very high stimulus people. They need constant stimulation or else they will get bored and move on. Not worth the headache.
 
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These hot club girls are very high stimulus people. They need constant stimulation or else they will get bored and move on. Not worth the headache.
She's the most prime example of a club girl you can imagine. Wild personality, unpredictable mood, drinks, smokes, even has a tattoo that says "YOLO". The problem isn't her, it's me. How the fuk did I ever think I could hold on to a girl like that who has a million options and why did I develop these emotions. I didn't even start getting oneitis for her until I realized I was losing her.
 
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You thought you could post this and get away with it redcel?

I actually have this in my long term memory

It was a post about the ukraine war

Exact same photo

Same bitch

Talking about fucking some ukrainian war refugee

Several years ago btw, at least 2023

You are done for
 
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She's the most prime example of a club girl you can imagine. Wild personality, unpredictable mood, drinks, smokes
all while being visibly pregnant? ukrainian women are just as retarded as their men that fight and die for a 5'0 homosexual jew.

also, what kind of sperg sits like this?
Screenshot 2024 11 01 at 094433
 
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I realized something else. Imagine she texts me next week that she suddenly misses me again. Then imagine she comes over late on Friday night again and everything goes well. I'll be so happy for a few hours. But then the next morning she would leave in a taxi, and I'm right back where I started with strong oneitis feelings again and not knowing if I'm ever going to see her again. She might come over again the next Friday, she might not, but she would eventually just ghost me again and I would go through the pain all over again. It's a lose-lose situation no matter what.
 
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You thought you could post this and get away with it redcel?

I actually have this in my long term memory

It was a post about the ukraine war

Exact same photo

Same bitch

Talking about fucking some ukrainian war refugee

Several years ago btw, at least 2023

You are done for
Screenshot 2024 10 27 201747
 
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I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

She looks old as fuck
 
You are looking for a wife in a club?
 
You are looking for a wife in a club?
It's literally my only option. I'm not gl or rich enough to get a hot girl on Tinder, I don't have a social circle, and I'm not low inhib enough to approach random women in the daytime. Being low inhibition from alcohol in a club is the only place I've had any success with woman in my life apart from a few rare occasions.
 
Just chill out, this couldn't have ended good. Be greatful that you got laid. I know your experience but stop with the emotional bullcrap
 
JFL OVERRR. Bruh never cry in front of a girl idc how hard it gets. Go to the bathroom if anything. I had moments were I wanted to cry in front of my ex but I knew better and luckily it never happened.
 
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I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

dms bhai
 
Can't believe you developed feelings for a party girl
 
Im caging nigga bawled his eyes out infront of her
 

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