Update: I went clubbing, got laid, got dumped, and now I'm depressed

[vinn98]

I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

 

[Deleted member 75672]

why does she look pregnant in that photo

 

[romanstock]

why does she look pregnant in that photo

Many people have pointed it out. OP never addresses the comments.

 

[LateAscension]

These hot club girls are very high stimulus people. They need constant stimulation or else they will get bored and move on. Not worth the headache.

 

[vinn98]

These hot club girls are very high stimulus people. They need constant stimulation or else they will get bored and move on. Not worth the headache.

She's the most prime example of a club girl you can imagine. Wild personality, unpredictable mood, drinks, smokes, even has a tattoo that says "YOLO". The problem isn't her, it's me. How the fuk did I ever think I could hold on to a girl like that who has a million options and why did I develop these emotions. I didn't even start getting oneitis for her until I realized I was losing her.

 

[ProBono]

You thought you could post this and get away with it redcel?

I actually have this in my long term memory

It was a post about the ukraine war

Exact same photo

Same bitch

Talking about fucking some ukrainian war refugee

Several years ago btw, at least 2023

You are done for

 

[Corleone]

She's the most prime example of a club girl you can imagine. Wild personality, unpredictable mood, drinks, smokes

all while being visibly pregnant? ukrainian women are just as retarded as their men that fight and die for a 5'0 homosexual jew.

also, what kind of sperg sits like this?

 

[vinn98]

I realized something else. Imagine she texts me next week that she suddenly misses me again. Then imagine she comes over late on Friday night again and everything goes well. I'll be so happy for a few hours. But then the next morning she would leave in a taxi, and I'm right back where I started with strong oneitis feelings again and not knowing if I'm ever going to see her again. She might come over again the next Friday, she might not, but she would eventually just ghost me again and I would go through the pain all over again. It's a lose-lose situation no matter what.

 

[Jonas2k7]

You thought you could post this and get away with it redcel?

I actually have this in my long term memory

It was a post about the ukraine war

Exact same photo

Same bitch

Talking about fucking some ukrainian war refugee

Several years ago btw, at least 2023

You are done for

 

[AustrianMogger]

I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

She looks old as fuck

 

[RICHCELDOM]

You are looking for a wife in a club?

 

[vinn98]

You are looking for a wife in a club?

It's literally my only option. I'm not gl or rich enough to get a hot girl on Tinder, I don't have a social circle, and I'm not low inhib enough to approach random women in the daytime. Being low inhibition from alcohol in a club is the only place I've had any success with woman in my life apart from a few rare occasions.

 

[lurking truecel]

Just chill out, this couldn't have ended good. Be greatful that you got laid. I know your experience but stop with the emotional bullcrap

 

[Reformed]

JFL OVERRR. Bruh never cry in front of a girl idc how hard it gets. Go to the bathroom if anything. I had moments were I wanted to cry in front of my ex but I knew better and luckily it never happened.

 

[Deleted member 101955]

bro check dms rfn

 

[Deleted member 101955]

I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

dms bhai

 

[ascension]

Can't believe you developed feelings for a party girl

 

[distance decay]

Im caging nigga bawled his eyes out infront of her

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

all while being visibly pregnant? ukrainian women are just as retarded as their men that fight and die for a 5'0 homosexual jew.

also, what kind of sperg sits like this?
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Kinda sperged but its seen as good etiquette. Girls from backgrounds otherwise might sit that way to convey the same.

Check Kate Middleton / Princess Diana.

Hope youve been doin alright.

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Stop giving her attention nigga. There’s tons of other women out there, and this bitch is clearly not worth it. She didn’t respect you to begin with and clearly doesn’t after you cried in front of her. She has ghosted you twice, and deserves 0 of your attention. Delete her number if you haven’t already

 

[Entschuldigung]

Tldr?

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

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@Orc @TechnoBoss

 

[TechnoBoss]

Anyone could’ve seen this coming. The way you describe her ghosting you and always being angry with you was a huge red flag. You should’ve broken up with her months ago bro.

 

[spark]

I'm giving an update on my situation. I posted a few months ago how I got laid with this Ukrainian girl from the club.



At the time I felt like an alpha chad and I had made it. I was posting here feeling like I had won the challenge. I achieved my goal, going clubbing and landing a hot chick. She was highly attracted to me, more than any woman in my life. She also seemed slightly crazy though. She came over once a week on Friday night, we had sex, and she would leave in a taxi the next morning. This lasted a month.

Then she went to visit her family for a few weeks. When she came back she came over and something had changed. At first she was happy to see me, but then she was getting irritated, showing signs of low interest. When she was highly interested in me before, it was easy to act alpha and chill. After that meeting though I started thinking about her more and feeling some anxiety. I tried texting her a few times but her responses were short and showed no signs of wanting to see me again. This made my anxiety worse. The oneitis started taking hold of me. I started remembering all the moments with her and it took over my mind.

A few weeks ago she suddenly texted me that she missed me, after ghosting me for a month. She was going to come over again on a Friday night. I was so happy, thinking everything was going to go back to the way it was. So she comes over at 2am after going clubbing with her friends and it was horrible. She was just texting on her phone, acting annoyed by me. I didn't know how to deal with the situation. We had sex but then after an hour of her being over she suddenly said she's going home. I tried to hold it back but suddenly I started crying. Then she felt sad and tried consoling me, telling me she loved me, and spent the night. Now she ghosted me again, and the past few weeks I've been depressed thinking about her, hoping she texts me again. When I fully realized it was over I felt like I was going crazy with the constant thoughts about her. This was truly a nightmare.

Keep in mind I had been thinking about her constantly and missing her, and it all blew up in my face. She was the hottest girl I ever hooked up with in my life. I had made the full transformation from alpha chad to beta simp. Now I'm slowly getting over the oneitis, thinking a bit less about her every day, but holy shit this was one of the most traumatic experiences in my life. I never thought I would stoop this low.

Lesson learned: Even if you manage to get a hot girl, and she's highly into you, she was never yours, it was only your turn. If you start getting emotions for her it can ruin you. You could lose her at ANY moment as soon as she meets the next chad. I only slept with her six times, and the end result was a month of being depressed over a woman who was never mine in the first place.

Show her face for fuck sake already. She dumped you and you're here protecting her Ukronazi identity.

 

[vinn98]

Anyone could’ve seen this coming. The way you describe her ghosting you and always being angry with you was a huge red flag. You should’ve broken up with her months ago bro.

The crazy thing is I didn't even have oneitis for her until it became clear she was losing interest in her texting behavior. I was in denial. The logical part of my brain knows this woman is also the worst of the worst type to get oneitis for: party girl, bipolar narcissist traits, selfish, probably sleeping with different guys, told me before she wanted a threesome with another guy, bossing me around from the first time we met. Yet I still somehow caught feels for her and it's a curse.

 

[vinn98]

Anyone could’ve seen this coming. The way you describe her ghosting you and always being angry with you was a huge red flag. You should’ve broken up with her months ago bro.

If she was average looking I probably wouldn't care. But she's the hottest girl I ever hooked up with. She has the face of a slavic vampire and a camgirl body, tall curvy with huge boobs. In the first month she was so into me, like initiating texts, telling me she wants to come over and have sex. However even in that first month when she liked me she would only come over once a week on Friday night, then leave the next morning in a taxi. Then just suddenly she lost all interest like a switch went off. It boggles my mind how a woman's interest level can go from 100 to 0 that fast.

But even if she came over again and everything went well, she would just leave the next morning and I would once again never know if I would see her again and I would be mentally fukked again. She never wanted a relationship.

 

[Deleted member 103915]

Do you have any social hobbies? You'd be better off meeting women in, let's say, a pottery class or a climbing gym. You seem naive.

 

[vinn98]

Update: I just saw a girl on the bus who was so pretty I think cured my oneitis. The physiognomy of her face shows a pure soul, the opposite of the evil vampire face of the Ukrainian girl. She was looking at me when I got on. She got off at the same bus stop as me but I was too high inhibition to approach FUCK. I recognized her because we sat across from each other on the bus before. She probably lives near me. Next Saturday I'm going to wait at the bus stop at the same time for an hour to see if she gets off at the same time again, then I need to cold approach her. I will sit at the bus stop between 1-2pm every Saturday until I see her again. I think I already have oneitis for her which would cure my other oneitis if it works out. My life depends on it.

@TechnoBoss @ascension @TUSSELEIF @Reformed @LateAscension

 

[vinn98]

Seeing that girl on the bus did something to me. I realized I don't want an evil party girl who just comes over once a week for sex and then ghosts me. I want a girl who wants to sleep with me every night and do stuff like sit on a bench in a park holding hands.

I think tonight I'm ready to go clubbing again for the first time in months and try again.

 

[VHD]

What are your stats (PSL rating, SMV, height, frame, Dick dimensions)

 

[VHD]

I realized I don't want an evil party girl

I think tonight I'm ready to go clubbing again for the first time in months and try again.

?

 

[vinn98]

What are your stats (PSL rating, SMV, height, frame, Dick dimensions)

 

[vinn98]

The oneitis turned me into this weak pathetic creature, the opposite of how I was feeling before I met her.

 

[VHD]

Whats your height and dick stats

 

[vinn98]

Whats your height and dick stats

6'0 and maybe a bit above average

 

[Enfant terrible]

you cant trust women
never fully relax around them

 

[givemeheight]

hhahahahahahahahahahahahah over

 

[vinn98]

These are the latest messages with the Ukrainian girl, it's been radio silence since



The craziest thing, an hour after I sent that last message I actually SAW HER IN REAL LIFE. I live in a big city where you might see someone you know once a year, or once every 5 years, so this is so coincidental that it seems supernatural. She was walking toward me and right by me on a crowded bridge. She was wearing black boots with heels so above 6 foot, a long black leather jacket, face full of makeup with long brown hair, and she was walking full of arrogance. She looked like an evil vampire queen. She must have seen me and had this smirk on her face. I looked down when she passed by me. She legit traumatized me.

 

[vinn98]

She looks old as fuck

She is 30 with a 13 year old son. I am 34.

 

[AustrianMogger]

never began

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Im caging nigga bawled his eyes out infront of her

That is kinda crazy it’s not as if his long term gf broke up with him. It was just some club slut fuckbuddy

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

She is 30 with a 13 year old son. I am 34.

30s still hitting the clubs, over

 

[vinn98]

30s still hitting the clubs, over

Believe me there is no perfect female waiting to marry you as soon as you hit 30. I had one chance to marry a girl in my 20s and it ended. The game doesn't end.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Believe me there is no perfect female waiting to marry you as soon as you hit 30. I had one chance to marry a girl in my 20s and it ended. The game doesn't end.

Passport bro max, might still have time to start a family

 

[vinn98]

Passport bro max, might still have time to start a family

There are 2 options, either I start going clubbing and cold approaching again, or I rot alone in my apartment.

 

[Corleone]

Kinda sperged but its seen as good etiquette. Girls from backgrounds otherwise might sit that way to convey the same.

Check Kate Middleton / Princess Diana.

Hope youve been doin alright.

nice to see a fellow 2020cel. I'm doing great, hope you've been doing good too, bro.

Also kinda aspie, but I've been on too many Michelin Star company dinners, you only cross your feet behind each other if you aren't crossing your legs.
So it is either crossing them on knee level OR feet level, the pregnant party girl from the OP combines them, which looks retarded.

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I wouldn't expect some girl who sleeps on a mattress on the ground to know proper etiquette.

 

[ihearvoices]

DNR, but i read it 2 months ago, there is this lyrics i ll hit it from the back, so you wont get attached, ched...

Hope it helps

 

[ezio6]

Dnrd plus ure bluepill brah

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

nice to see a fellow 2020cel. I'm doing great, hope you've been doing good too, bro.

Also kinda aspie, but I've been on too many Michelin Star company dinners, you only cross your feet behind each other if you aren't crossing your legs.
So it is either crossing them on knee level OR feet level, the pregnant party girl from the OP combines them, which looks retarded.
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I wouldn't expect some girl who sleeps on a mattress on the ground to know proper etiquette.
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Glad to hear that bro. Been good as well.

Yeah this girl probably watched "Princess Diana classy" on TikTok and is trying to emulate that.

Women need to go to finishing school. We're so fucked culturally.

 

[greyycelll]

She is 30 with a 13 year old son. I am 34.

Not really smart to think that she is a wifey material ngl