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Thread 'Need advice with situationship'
https://looksmax.org/threads/need-advice-with-situationship.1937969/
so on the same day I called her she responded back to my message. I DNR her till Tuesday and she responded quick. I then wanted to DNR her till Wednesday but then she sent 2 voice notes at like 11 pm on Tuesday. She sent voice notes whilst she was on delivered so she double texted.
At this moment I thought it was over completely. I thought she was sending me voice notes saying “I can’t do this with you anymore I’m seeing someone blah blah blah”. I was prepared for the worst and I didn’t care to be honest. An hour later at like 12 pm I open the voice notes and it’s not what I expected at all
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She was basically telling me how she’s never working Saint Patrick’s day again because she works as a bar maid or smth. And how it was so busy and she tripped and fell and a lot of bs.
We keep the convo flowing from Tuesday till Wednesday night. She calls me around 10pm Wednesday but my phone was on DND so I don’t receive notification so I called her again. She said “hey so what time we meeting tomorrow” and other bs. I told her yh I still have this apartment just meet me at the town centre and we can have some food and go back to my apartment and we can watch a movie or continue Dexter because she’s been watching it. She agreed and I instantly book a cheap apartment at the place.
Thursday comes we still talk about random stuff and uni on iMessages and I tell her I will call you tonight about confirming the place and everything.
Skip to Thursday evening I call her and set the time we meet up at 8:00 and we walk to the restaurant whilst smoking a cigarette. We’re holding hands here and we go inside and eat. We go back after we eat and go to her car and she drives us to the apartment. I felt embarrassed I even told her that a woman is driving me JFL.
We go into the apartment together and I put on a movie on my laptop. 2 mins later we start kissing a lot and making out. I take off her shirt and bra and start kissing her tits and we just kiss a lot. I take off my shirt after like 4 mins and start kissing again.
I then reach to her pussy and rub it and she’s moaning so I reach to take off her pants but she said “em em” basically no. But she didn’t sound bitter about it. 3 mins later I try again but she grabbed my hand and put it on her chest and keep kissing. I then literally stop kissing and I tell her “you don’t want to fuck?” She said “no” I then say ok like a cuck and we keep kissing and I kiss her tits.
What bothered me is that this is the 5th time I’ve seen her and she didn’t want to fuck. Also when I tried to give her a hicky (mark on her neck) she’d move my lips away to her mouth instead. It’s like she doesn’t want someone to see it. I didn’t confront her about this.
We then take a little break and watch the movie again. We start play fighting and she puts her bra back on.
Then we cuddle and go half sleep for like 30 mins. I move out from her and she comes on to me with her head on my chest. I then pull her ontop of me and we start dry humping. It’s such a cuck move now I think of it like why tf are we dry humping. The only reason I kept going is because of her moans and we kept kissing a lot.
It’s like 12:10 am rn so she has to go back home. I drop her off to her car and my eye is abit watery so she wipes the tear from my eye. I felt happy in this moment tbh. We smoke a cigarette and we kiss and I tell her to text me when she gets home which she does and we talk for abit.
I go back to my apartment but I don’t want to spend the night there alone so I literally go back home which took like 2 hours. I didn’t mind it tbh because it was a nice bus ride going through central London at night.
should I cut this bitch off. One of my friends is telling me I should and I agree with him because it’s the 5th date and nothing crazy happened. Also I know this girl isn’t a virgin because she mentioned her ex boyfriend before and she smokes and takes some weed. I’m 100% sure she isn’t a virgin but it’s weird she didn’t want to fuck.
https://looksmax.org/threads/need-advice-with-situationship.1937969/
so on the same day I called her she responded back to my message. I DNR her till Tuesday and she responded quick. I then wanted to DNR her till Wednesday but then she sent 2 voice notes at like 11 pm on Tuesday. She sent voice notes whilst she was on delivered so she double texted.
At this moment I thought it was over completely. I thought she was sending me voice notes saying “I can’t do this with you anymore I’m seeing someone blah blah blah”. I was prepared for the worst and I didn’t care to be honest. An hour later at like 12 pm I open the voice notes and it’s not what I expected at all
She was basically telling me how she’s never working Saint Patrick’s day again because she works as a bar maid or smth. And how it was so busy and she tripped and fell and a lot of bs.
We keep the convo flowing from Tuesday till Wednesday night. She calls me around 10pm Wednesday but my phone was on DND so I don’t receive notification so I called her again. She said “hey so what time we meeting tomorrow” and other bs. I told her yh I still have this apartment just meet me at the town centre and we can have some food and go back to my apartment and we can watch a movie or continue Dexter because she’s been watching it. She agreed and I instantly book a cheap apartment at the place.
Thursday comes we still talk about random stuff and uni on iMessages and I tell her I will call you tonight about confirming the place and everything.
Skip to Thursday evening I call her and set the time we meet up at 8:00 and we walk to the restaurant whilst smoking a cigarette. We’re holding hands here and we go inside and eat. We go back after we eat and go to her car and she drives us to the apartment. I felt embarrassed I even told her that a woman is driving me JFL.
We go into the apartment together and I put on a movie on my laptop. 2 mins later we start kissing a lot and making out. I take off her shirt and bra and start kissing her tits and we just kiss a lot. I take off my shirt after like 4 mins and start kissing again.
I then reach to her pussy and rub it and she’s moaning so I reach to take off her pants but she said “em em” basically no. But she didn’t sound bitter about it. 3 mins later I try again but she grabbed my hand and put it on her chest and keep kissing. I then literally stop kissing and I tell her “you don’t want to fuck?” She said “no” I then say ok like a cuck and we keep kissing and I kiss her tits.
What bothered me is that this is the 5th time I’ve seen her and she didn’t want to fuck. Also when I tried to give her a hicky (mark on her neck) she’d move my lips away to her mouth instead. It’s like she doesn’t want someone to see it. I didn’t confront her about this.
We then take a little break and watch the movie again. We start play fighting and she puts her bra back on.
Then we cuddle and go half sleep for like 30 mins. I move out from her and she comes on to me with her head on my chest. I then pull her ontop of me and we start dry humping. It’s such a cuck move now I think of it like why tf are we dry humping. The only reason I kept going is because of her moans and we kept kissing a lot.
It’s like 12:10 am rn so she has to go back home. I drop her off to her car and my eye is abit watery so she wipes the tear from my eye. I felt happy in this moment tbh. We smoke a cigarette and we kiss and I tell her to text me when she gets home which she does and we talk for abit.
I go back to my apartment but I don’t want to spend the night there alone so I literally go back home which took like 2 hours. I didn’t mind it tbh because it was a nice bus ride going through central London at night.
should I cut this bitch off. One of my friends is telling me I should and I agree with him because it’s the 5th date and nothing crazy happened. Also I know this girl isn’t a virgin because she mentioned her ex boyfriend before and she smokes and takes some weed. I’m 100% sure she isn’t a virgin but it’s weird she didn’t want to fuck.
