Update on situation-ship

[italianltn]

Yes

There's 2 ways to look at this. I understand your frustration that it's been the 5th date and you haven't done anything yet however this could be a good sign. It's clear she wants to take things slow and get to know you before sex, she very well could value sex and reserve it for only relationships. Its clear she has interest in you, and her interests are beyond sexual/being a whore otherwise you would of had sex already. It comes down to do you if you care enough about her for a LTR.

 

[sub5 mcdon worker]

BRO it was nice lowkey the moans but I realised now I got cucked

it couldnt be this nice bro you bigger cuck then if you just watched her get cucked by you still slay more than me so im mirin i would prob do the same in your situation

 

[Saint]

make sure she actually loses next time so she will be sad and you have to opportunity to make her laugh about it

Yes I lost the first time because I barely slept I won by a mile next time

 

[hikkunt]

She is no longer alive

 

[Saint]

There's 2 ways to look at this. I understand your frustration that it's been the 5th date and you haven't done anything yet however this could be a good sign. It's clear she wants to take things slow and get to know you before sex, she very well could value sex and reserve it for only relationships. Its clear she has interest in you, and her interests are beyond sexual/being a whore otherwise you would have had sex already. It comes down to do you if you care enough about her for a LTR.

Yes I really want to have an LTR with her because she’s on my mind constantly. She’s not the best looking girl like she’s not Stacy but she’s good looking for me and we share amazing chemistry. I went out with another girl on Saturday who kinda looks abit better but my mind was still on this girl.

 

[iqletandrew73]

Yes I really want to have an LTR with her because she’s on my mind constantly. She’s not the best looking girl like she’s not Stacy but she’s good looking for me and we share amazing chemistry. I went out with another girl on Saturday who kinda looks abit better but my mind was still on this girl.

don't rate girls bhai, only thing that matters if she's pretty enough for you and have the chemistry, eventually they all age the same

 

[Saint]

don't rate girls bhai, only thing that matters if she's pretty enough for you and have the chemistry, eventually they all age the same

Fax

 

[Saint]

don't rate girls bhai, only thing that matters if she's pretty enough for you and have the chemistry, eventually they all age the same

As men we care more about chemistry than looks. If she’s MTB and has amazing chemistry it’s better than a Stacy one time slay that has 0 chemistry than you I might be a cuck for saying ts

 

[iqletandrew73]

As men we care more about chemistry than looks. If she’s MTB and has amazing chemistry it’s better than a Stacy one time slay that has 0 chemistry than you I might be a cuck for saying ts

yeah that's the reason shortcels exist, a 6'3 nigga won't care about her 5'3 wife's height, but the opposite...

 

[Saint]

yeah that's the reason shortcels exist, a 6'3 nigga won't care about her 5'3 wife's height, but the opposite...

The girl is like 5 foot 8-9 she’s quite tall tbh

 

[iqletandrew73]

The girl is like 5 foot 8-9 she’s quite tall tbh

tall girls with good ass and small/medium tits are elite tbh

 

[Saint]

tall girls with good ass and small/medium tits are elite tbh

Literally bro when she took of her bra it was medium sized tits and I was super hard

 

[italianltn]

Yes I really want to have an LTR with her because she’s on my mind constantly. She’s not the best looking girl like she’s not Stacy but she’s good looking for me and we share amazing chemistry. I went out with another girl on Saturday who kinda looks abit better but my mind was still on this girl.

Then just play it out, meet her a couple more times, see how things progress and if things start heading in the right direction ask her out. Good luck

 

[Saint]

Then just play it out, meet her a couple more times, see how things progress and if things start heading in the right direction ask her out. Good luck

Appreciate you bhai. Should I wait to see if she texts first. I’m worried if she doesn’t. Idk why she has been occupying my mind a lot even though I have good access to other women

 

[italianltn]

Appreciate you bhai. Should I wait to see if she texts first. I’m worried if she doesn’t. Idk why she has been occupying my mind a lot even though I have good access to other women

If you're on delivered/it's expected for her to message first then I'd say wait a little while and wait for her to message you first. How long have you been waiting so far?

 

[Saint]

If you're on delivered/it's expected for her to message first then I'd say wait a little while and wait for her to message you first. How long have you been waiting so far?

Like 18 hours but my last message was basically calling her a nerd so there isn’t much to respond

 

[bipolaric]

long story short - dnr

 

[italianltn]

Like 18 hours but my last message was basically calling her a nerd so there isn’t much to respond

Still give it a while I'd say, and yeah try not to send messages that don't allow for further conversation as girls are already horrific enough at entertaining replies.

 

[Saint]

Still give it a while I'd say, and yeah try not to send messages that don't allow for further conversation as girls are already horrific enough at entertaining replies.

Will try appreciate the advice. She posted a story but I’ll view it later and probs like it so she doesn’t think I hate her. I usually don’t open her stories too

 

[italianltn]

Will try appreciate the advice. She posted a story but I’ll view it later and probs like it so she doesn’t think I hate her. I usually don’t open her stories too

Anytime london slayer

 

[Sub5kang]

Thread 'Need advice with situationship'
https://looksmax.org/threads/need-advice-with-situationship.1937969/

so on the same day I called her she responded back to my message. I DNR her till Tuesday and she responded quick. I then wanted to DNR her till Wednesday but then she sent 2 voice notes at like 11 pm on Tuesday. She sent voice notes whilst she was on delivered so she double texted.

At this moment I thought it was over completely. I thought she was sending me voice notes saying “I can’t do this with you anymore I’m seeing someone blah blah blah”. I was prepared for the worst and I didn’t care to be honest. An hour later at like 12 pm I open the voice notes and it’s not what I expected at all .

She was basically telling me how she’s never working Saint Patrick’s day again because she works as a bar maid or smth. And how it was so busy and she tripped and fell and a lot of bs.

We keep the convo flowing from Tuesday till Wednesday night. She calls me around 10pm Wednesday but my phone was on DND so I don’t receive notification so I called her again. She said “hey so what time we meeting tomorrow” and other bs. I told her yh I still have this apartment just meet me at the town centre and we can have some food and go back to my apartment and we can watch a movie or continue Dexter because she’s been watching it. She agreed and I instantly book a cheap apartment at the place.

Thursday comes we still talk about random stuff and uni on iMessages and I tell her I will call you tonight about confirming the place and everything.

Skip to Thursday evening I call her and set the time we meet up at 8:00 and we walk to the restaurant whilst smoking a cigarette. We’re holding hands here and we go inside and eat. We go back after we eat and go to her car and she drives us to the apartment. I felt embarrassed I even told her that a woman is driving me JFL.

We go into the apartment together and I put on a movie on my laptop. 2 mins later we start kissing a lot and making out. I take off her shirt and bra and start kissing her tits and we just kiss a lot. I take off my shirt after like 4 mins and start kissing again.

I then reach to her pussy and rub it and she’s moaning so I reach to take off her pants but she said “em em” basically no. But she didn’t sound bitter about it. 3 mins later I try again but she grabbed my hand and put it on her chest and keep kissing. I then literally stop kissing and I tell her “you don’t want to fuck?” She said “no” I then say ok like a cuck and we keep kissing and I kiss her tits.

What bothered me is that this is the 5th time I’ve seen her and she didn’t want to fuck. Also when I tried to give her a hicky (mark on her neck) she’d move my lips away to her mouth instead. It’s like she doesn’t want someone to see it. I didn’t confront her about this.

We then take a little break and watch the movie again. We start play fighting and she puts her bra back on.

Then we cuddle and go half sleep for like 30 mins. I move out from her and she comes on to me with her head on my chest. I then pull her ontop of me and we start dry humping. It’s such a cuck move now I think of it like why tf are we dry humping. The only reason I kept going is because of her moans and we kept kissing a lot.

It’s like 12:10 am rn so she has to go back home. I drop her off to her car and my eye is abit watery so she wipes the tear from my eye. I felt happy in this moment tbh. We smoke a cigarette and we kiss and I tell her to text me when she gets home which she does and we talk for abit.

I go back to my apartment but I don’t want to spend the night there alone so I literally go back home which took like 2 hours. I didn’t mind it tbh because it was a nice bus ride going through central London at night.

should I cut this bitch off. One of my friends is telling me I should and I agree with him because it’s the 5th date and nothing crazy happened. Also I know this girl isn’t a virgin because she mentioned her ex boyfriend before and she smokes and takes some weed. I’m 100% sure she isn’t a virgin but it’s weird she didn’t want to fuck.

You're being used for attention

 

[Sub5kang]

I go back to my apartment but I don’t want to spend the night there alone so I literally go back home which took like 2 hours. I didn’t mind it tbh because it was a nice bus ride going through central London at night.

You're a Londoner too? I wonder how much of the forum lives in close proximity to me

 

[Sayori]

Thread 'Need advice with situationship'
https://looksmax.org/threads/need-advice-with-situationship.1937969/

so on the same day I called her she responded back to my message. I DNR her till Tuesday and she responded quick. I then wanted to DNR her till Wednesday but then she sent 2 voice notes at like 11 pm on Tuesday. She sent voice notes whilst she was on delivered so she double texted.

At this moment I thought it was over completely. I thought she was sending me voice notes saying “I can’t do this with you anymore I’m seeing someone blah blah blah”. I was prepared for the worst and I didn’t care to be honest. An hour later at like 12 pm I open the voice notes and it’s not what I expected at all .

She was basically telling me how she’s never working Saint Patrick’s day again because she works as a bar maid or smth. And how it was so busy and she tripped and fell and a lot of bs.

We keep the convo flowing from Tuesday till Wednesday night. She calls me around 10pm Wednesday but my phone was on DND so I don’t receive notification so I called her again. She said “hey so what time we meeting tomorrow” and other bs. I told her yh I still have this apartment just meet me at the town centre and we can have some food and go back to my apartment and we can watch a movie or continue Dexter because she’s been watching it. She agreed and I instantly book a cheap apartment at the place.

Thursday comes we still talk about random stuff and uni on iMessages and I tell her I will call you tonight about confirming the place and everything.

Skip to Thursday evening I call her and set the time we meet up at 8:00 and we walk to the restaurant whilst smoking a cigarette. We’re holding hands here and we go inside and eat. We go back after we eat and go to her car and she drives us to the apartment. I felt embarrassed I even told her that a woman is driving me JFL.

We go into the apartment together and I put on a movie on my laptop. 2 mins later we start kissing a lot and making out. I take off her shirt and bra and start kissing her tits and we just kiss a lot. I take off my shirt after like 4 mins and start kissing again.

I then reach to her pussy and rub it and she’s moaning so I reach to take off her pants but she said “em em” basically no. But she didn’t sound bitter about it. 3 mins later I try again but she grabbed my hand and put it on her chest and keep kissing. I then literally stop kissing and I tell her “you don’t want to fuck?” She said “no” I then say ok like a cuck and we keep kissing and I kiss her tits.

What bothered me is that this is the 5th time I’ve seen her and she didn’t want to fuck. Also when I tried to give her a hicky (mark on her neck) she’d move my lips away to her mouth instead. It’s like she doesn’t want someone to see it. I didn’t confront her about this.

We then take a little break and watch the movie again. We start play fighting and she puts her bra back on.

Then we cuddle and go half sleep for like 30 mins. I move out from her and she comes on to me with her head on my chest. I then pull her ontop of me and we start dry humping. It’s such a cuck move now I think of it like why tf are we dry humping. The only reason I kept going is because of her moans and we kept kissing a lot.

It’s like 12:10 am rn so she has to go back home. I drop her off to her car and my eye is abit watery so she wipes the tear from my eye. I felt happy in this moment tbh. We smoke a cigarette and we kiss and I tell her to text me when she gets home which she does and we talk for abit.

I go back to my apartment but I don’t want to spend the night there alone so I literally go back home which took like 2 hours. I didn’t mind it tbh because it was a nice bus ride going through central London at night.

should I cut this bitch off. One of my friends is telling me I should and I agree with him because it’s the 5th date and nothing crazy happened. Also I know this girl isn’t a virgin because she mentioned her ex boyfriend before and she smokes and takes some weed. I’m 100% sure she isn’t a virgin but it’s weird she didn’t want to fuck.

I dnrd

however, if she did some to disrespect u obviously cut her of

not cutting her of would be a cuck choice

+ act victim after you cut her of

 

[Saint]

You're being used for attention

Why do you think

 

[Saint]

You're a Londoner too? I wonder how much of the forum lives in close proximity to me

Yh lmao one day maybe a whole org meet up in London

 

[Saint]

I dnrd

however, if she did some to disrespect u obviously cut her of

not cutting her of would be a cuck choice

+ act victim after you cut her of

BRO READ PLSSS

 

[Sayori]

BRO READ PLSSS

ight ill reply after playing some csgo

 

[Saint]

ight ill reply after playing some csgo

Hope you top frag and win

 

[Sub5kang]

Why do you think

My guess is as good as yours
I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not I'm ND

 

[Saint]

My guess is as good as yours
I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not I'm ND

No I’m not being sarcastic I’m being serious . Sometimes I can’t take hints either

 

[Sub5kang]

Yh lmao one day maybe a whole org meet up in London

I remember back in 2024 pneumo before he deleted and a couple other guys wanted an org London meetup https://looksmax.org/threads/something-crazy-is-about-to-happen-in-psl.1064667/

 

[Sub5kang]

Yh lmao one day maybe a whole org meet up in London

Maybe in the summer I'm still in sixth form after all

 

[Saint]

I remember back in 2024 pneumo before he deleted and a couple other guys wanted an org London meetup https://looksmax.org/threads/something-crazy-is-about-to-happen-in-psl.1064667/

Yhh I saw ts one time

Maybe in the summer I'm still in sixth form after all

maybe hopefully we slay each other

 

[Saint]

Boutta doze off. But you a good user so I'll read it tmr and give u an answer bhai.

Until then...

Spoiler

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YO nigga you awake

 

[Swarthy Knight]

YO nigga you awake

I'll answer when at the library soon. Promise

 

[Saint]

I'll answer when at the library soon. Promise

Love you

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Thread 'Need advice with situationship'
https://looksmax.org/threads/need-advice-with-situationship.1937969/

so on the same day I called her she responded back to my message. I DNR her till Tuesday and she responded quick. I then wanted to DNR her till Wednesday but then she sent 2 voice notes at like 11 pm on Tuesday. She sent voice notes whilst she was on delivered so she double texted.

At this moment I thought it was over completely. I thought she was sending me voice notes saying “I can’t do this with you anymore I’m seeing someone blah blah blah”. I was prepared for the worst and I didn’t care to be honest. An hour later at like 12 pm I open the voice notes and it’s not what I expected at all .

She was basically telling me how she’s never working Saint Patrick’s day again because she works as a bar maid or smth. And how it was so busy and she tripped and fell and a lot of bs.

We keep the convo flowing from Tuesday till Wednesday night. She calls me around 10pm Wednesday but my phone was on DND so I don’t receive notification so I called her again. She said “hey so what time we meeting tomorrow” and other bs. I told her yh I still have this apartment just meet me at the town centre and we can have some food and go back to my apartment and we can watch a movie or continue Dexter because she’s been watching it. She agreed and I instantly book a cheap apartment at the place.

Thursday comes we still talk about random stuff and uni on iMessages and I tell her I will call you tonight about confirming the place and everything.

Skip to Thursday evening I call her and set the time we meet up at 8:00 and we walk to the restaurant whilst smoking a cigarette. We’re holding hands here and we go inside and eat. We go back after we eat and go to her car and she drives us to the apartment. I felt embarrassed I even told her that a woman is driving me JFL.

We go into the apartment together and I put on a movie on my laptop. 2 mins later we start kissing a lot and making out. I take off her shirt and bra and start kissing her tits and we just kiss a lot. I take off my shirt after like 4 mins and start kissing again.

I then reach to her pussy and rub it and she’s moaning so I reach to take off her pants but she said “em em” basically no. But she didn’t sound bitter about it. 3 mins later I try again but she grabbed my hand and put it on her chest and keep kissing. I then literally stop kissing and I tell her “you don’t want to fuck?” She said “no” I then say ok like a cuck and we keep kissing and I kiss her tits.

What bothered me is that this is the 5th time I’ve seen her and she didn’t want to fuck. Also when I tried to give her a hicky (mark on her neck) she’d move my lips away to her mouth instead. It’s like she doesn’t want someone to see it. I didn’t confront her about this.

We then take a little break and watch the movie again. We start play fighting and she puts her bra back on.

Then we cuddle and go half sleep for like 30 mins. I move out from her and she comes on to me with her head on my chest. I then pull her ontop of me and we start dry humping. It’s such a cuck move now I think of it like why tf are we dry humping. The only reason I kept going is because of her moans and we kept kissing a lot.

It’s like 12:10 am rn so she has to go back home. I drop her off to her car and my eye is abit watery so she wipes the tear from my eye. I felt happy in this moment tbh. We smoke a cigarette and we kiss and I tell her to text me when she gets home which she does and we talk for abit.

I go back to my apartment but I don’t want to spend the night there alone so I literally go back home which took like 2 hours. I didn’t mind it tbh because it was a nice bus ride going through central London at night.

should I cut this bitch off. One of my friends is telling me I should and I agree with him because it’s the 5th date and nothing crazy happened. Also I know this girl isn’t a virgin because she mentioned her ex boyfriend before and she smokes and takes some weed. I’m 100% sure she isn’t a virgin but it’s weird she didn’t want to fuck.

Nigga what. From the tone of the thread at first glance I assumed this was something terrible

But nah bro you just overthinking it a bit imo. The only "orange flag" about this encounter was the fact that she didn't want you to leave a hickey on her. But that doesn't necessarily mean that she's trying to hide you or whatever. She may just not want that to be shown in general (i.e so ppl don't assume that she's a whore).

Her not wanting to fuck all the way is not really a big thing either. Did she offer to give you a BJ at least? And 5 dates is not that deep. If you're really concerned then you should ask her about why she doesn't wanna fuck yet. She probably has a more simple explanation for it. But yeah, I wouldn't listen to your friend and cut her off yet. Esp if you like her, give her a chance

 

[Saint]

Nigga what. From the tone of the thread at first glance I assumed this was something terrible

But nah bro you just overthinking it a bit imo. The only "orange flag" about this encounter was the fact that she didn't want you to leave a hickey on her. But that doesn't necessarily mean that she's trying to hide you or whatever. She may just not want that to be shown in general (i.e so ppl don't assume that she's a whore).

Her not wanting to fuck all the way is not really a big thing either. Did she offer to give you a BJ at least? And 5 dates is not that deep. If you're really concerned then you should ask her about why she doesn't wanna fuck yet. She probably has a more simple explanation for it. But yeah, I wouldn't listen to your friend and cut her off yet. Esp if you like her, give her a chance

Someone told me that she may not wanted to get a hickey was because she works in a bar and she may not want others to see she’s got that.

She didnt offer a BJ unfortunately and I didn’t want to ask for one because I didn’t want to get rejected twice.

If I ask her next time I see her “what’s wrong why didn’t you wanna fuck last time” she might say “because I didn’t want to” wtf do I even say or do I not bring it up at all. I didn’t want to bring it up during the whole thing because then she might think I’m insecure or get no play

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Someone told me that she may not wanted to get a hickey was because she works in a bar and she may not want others to see she’s got that.

She didnt offer a BJ unfortunately and I didn’t want to ask for one because I didn’t want to get rejected twice.

If I ask her next time I see her “what’s wrong why didn’t you wanna fuck last time” she might say “because I didn’t want to” wtf do I even say or do I not bring it up at all. I didn’t want to bring it up during the whole thing because then she might think I’m insecure or get no play

Ask her for a BJ next time. She'll prolly feel more comfortable doing that first before jumping to fucking

But nah she wouldn't think that about you're insecure for asking. It's more likely that she'll actually respect you more for communicating by being straight forward and pressing her a bit about it rather than acting like a passive bitch

 

[Saint]

Ask her for a BJ next time. She'll prolly feel more comfortable doing that first before jumping to fucking

But nah she wouldn't think that about you're insecure for asking. It's more likely that she'll actually respect you more for communicating by being straight forward and pressing her a bit about it rather than acting like a passive bitch

Appreciate it. She messaged me last night that she smoked 2 of my cigarettes and will replace them. I usually keep my cigarettes with her because I don’t smoke that much tbh

 

[Saint]

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