Users who are 25+ years old - what things bother you the most in modern times?

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Can be completely unrelated to looksmaxing. Just life in general, how do you manage? What would you like to change? What are your goals? How has your perception of life changed throughout your life? Which solutions have you come up with to solve specific problems in your life? Where do you picture yourself in X years?
 
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My goals are to be happy and to live in peace thats what i want. I want to become a more knowledgeable person and get a better job. My vision for life and the way i see it changes every 6 months .
 
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My goals are to be happy and to live in peace thats what i want. I want to become a more knowledgeable person and get a better job. My vision for life and the way i see it changes every 6 months .
Care to elaborate?
 
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Definitely very damaging to physical health, but I understand people who turn to alcohol to deal with the insanity that’s modern life. Unfortunately, for some people it’s the only thing that seems to help. In an ideal world, we wouldn’t need harmful drugs or alcohol to cope with life or each other.
 
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Care to elaborate?
Back in the day i used to think that material stuff was the thing that would make me happy nowadays only thing i need is peace and less stress. I want to care less about what people think about me and really want to give back to the people who gave their love to me as a kid .
 
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Back in the day i used to think that material stuff was the thing that would make me happy nowadays only thing i need is peace and less stress. I want to care less about what people think about me and really want to give back to the people who gave their love to me as a kid .
I can relate 100%. All I want is some peace and quiet. I’m physically exhausted, most people stress me out. It seems impossible to relax, unless I’m in a remote area in nature with nobody else around. There’s always people around, making trouble in some way. I’m starting to feel old ngl.
 
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things are just getting better for me

18-22 is actually shit
 
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@Vincent Freeman is in his 40s. He might have something interesting to say
 
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Definitely very damaging to physical health, but I understand people who turn to alcohol to deal with the insanity that’s modern life. Unfortunately, for some people it’s the only thing that seems to help. In an ideal world, we wouldn’t need harmful drugs or alcohol to cope with life or each other.
It's an illusion though it doesn't help it's just covers things up and puts your mood in an even lower state whilst sober which then makes you drink more.
The alcohol trap.
 
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I can relate 100%. All I want is some peace and quiet. I’m physically exhausted, most people stress me out. It seems impossible to relax, unless I’m in a remote area in nature with nobody else around. There’s always people around, making trouble in some way. I’m starting to feel old ngl.
i dont operate on the level most people do and i get emotionally exhausted really quicky i never understood people who always lived in some sort of drama i was always about that lowkey life
 
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the idea that i live in a country that fetishizes guns, bombs, and revolutionary action and yet no one wants to mount an assault on a jewish billionaire's compound and raze it to the ground. every facet of society has declared itself your enemy, you won't even dare to do a little bit of kidnapping or a heist?

the idea that my entire generation(i'm 54) will pass into oblivion without ever taking on the enemy even once.

i eat, breathe, sleep, and dream of war, yet my cohorts all want to keep cucking for their pensions and live the rest of their life in a browned hellscape while their grandchildren gets raped by death by somalians

i go around town with this intrusive thought always in the back of my mind whenever i see a fellow white guy my age that i want to grab him by the collar and scream in his face about fighting jewish institutional capture, white replacement, etc before it's too late.
 
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the idea that i live in a country that fetishizes guns, bombs, and revolutionary action and yet no one wants to mount an assault on a jewish billionaire's compound and raze it to the ground. every facet of society has declared itself your enemy, you won't even dare to do a little bit of kidnapping or a heist?

the idea that my entire generation(i'm 54) will pass into oblivion without ever taking on the enemy even once.

i eat, breathe, sleep, and dream of war, yet my cohorts all want to keep cucking for their pensions and live the rest of their life in a browned hellscape while their grandchildren gets raped by death by somalians

i go around town with this intrusive thought always in the back of my mind whenever i see a fellow white guy my age that i want to grab him by the collar and scream in his face about fighting jewish institutional capture, white replacement, etc before it's too late.
if you can't find likeminded people to do it with, why not try it alone?
 
Can be completely unrelated to looksmaxing. Just life in general, how do you manage? What would you like to change? What are your goals? How has your perception of life changed throughout your life? Which solutions have you come up with to solve specific problems in your life? Where do you picture yourself in X years?

I am on the verge of roping.
I want to be a teenager again.
My goal is to get surgery to look like a teenager and then larp as a teenager.
I used to think normies were wrong to want material things and be vain, now it consumes me.
I picture myself dead in two years max.
 
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It's an illusion though it doesn't help it's just covers things up and puts your mood in an even lower state whilst sober which then makes you drink more.
The alcohol trap.
That’s very true. It’s cheap, readily available, socially accepted and incredibly effective at masking things temporarily, which is why so many people abuse it. It doesn’t solve any problems, it just impairs every system in your brain and body, so things become “bearable” for a moment. People who act out or become violent when drunk are already lacking self-control and drinking just removes the remaining inhibitions that keep them from unleashing their frustration in life. Alcoholism imo is a symptom of one or multiple underlying problems that couldn’t be or haven’t been resolved. Where I live, food, gas, tobacco and rent have literally tripled over the past 10 years, but alcohol prices have remained almost the same. It’s a joke.
 
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Mine is to find a way to be self employed and scale it. Money and status is the way forward.
 
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Can be completely unrelated to looksmaxing. Just life in general, how do you manage? What would you like to change? What are your goals? How has your perception of life changed throughout your life? Which solutions have you come up with to solve specific problems in your life? Where do you picture yourself in X years?
turning 26, why?
 
things are just getting better for me

18-22 is actually shit
19/20 were my peak years, everything after 23 has been a race to the bottom in my case
 
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what things bother you the most in modern times?​


- Social isolation due to technology that keeps us constantly entertained and stuck in a daily process of waiting for something to change by itself in our miserable lives, instead of having the ability for us to try to change something ourselves
- Ignorance is bliss most of the time, but globalization and global connectivity can destroy it
- Too few resources left that are distributed to too few people

life in general, how do you manage?

I think the most important thing is to have people around you, networking and people to contact you and do things with. They will be the ones to provide you with resources and opportunities of any kind in life (especially if you're just a sub average - average dude without much going on in your life)
Instead, isolation, loneliness, is death and depression. At this age I realize that resources are good to have, but the moments with other people are the ones that stick around and feel the best

What would you like to change?

Nothing. From where I started from, in theory, I have far surpassed the average of my peers, and I'm happy with that. It seems to me that for each person, eventually, everything works out. You can only have a certain level of personal control over external factors, and how reality hits you with various things that put you in various contexts and circumstances. It seems to me that it's best to stress as little as possible and let life take its normal course
What are your goals?

To eventually have a house of my own, a family, a wife, children, to experience this side of reality, because I think that's the ultimate goal, as a man especially. I have many people around me in their 30s or 40s who are experiencing or have experienced this, and I see how they talk about these things
How has your perception of life changed throughout your life?

It fluctuated a lot, but I knew and had most of it in my head from the beginning, I just needed more external confirmation over time. I always had all the options and choices in my head, consciously, and over time reality only refined some while destroying others
Which solutions have you come up with to solve specific problems in your life?

I used people every time, and eventually it worked. Lately, when I'm alone, I use ChatGPT, and it works pretty well
Where do you picture yourself in X years?

Working at the same multinational company where I can work remotely, but with a higher salary and more responsibilities. Having much more networking. Having much more knowledge about practical real-life things. An apartment or house, with money received loan from the bank, that me and my wife to pay off. Having a car and kids. Being a better and more capable man, that my wife and children will be proud of and see me as an example
 
Society cockblocking gentle romantic men is what bothers me the most.
If you don't experience things in the right timeframe, you will pay for it your whole life. I wish i could tell my younger self to enjoy his youth, to accept the girls that wanted him and not just be introverted and conservative as my parents told me.
 
I am on the verge of roping.
I want to be a teenager again.
My goal is to get surgery to look like a teenager and then larp as a teenager.
I used to think normies were wrong to want material things and be vain, now it consumes me.
I picture myself dead in two years max.
When you get older is getting harder to cope nothing that previously was making you happy does it nowadays if i drastically didnt improve my life in the next year or two im not saying what im about to do. Being old on itself its hard for me but being unsuccessful on top of that would make things unbearable . I never pictured myself living long life.
 
When you get older is getting harder to cope nothing that previously was making you happy does it nowadays if i drastically didnt improve my life in the next year or two im not saying what im about to do. Being old on itself its hard for me but being unsuccessful on top of that would make things unbearable . I never pictured myself living long life.

Yeah when you are younger you can cope with thinking you’ll be successful in the future but tbh at this point there is no future. It really is unbearable and I am seriously considering to cancel all my surgeries plans and just give up and NEET.
 
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the idea that i live in a country that fetishizes guns, bombs, and revolutionary action and yet no one wants to mount an assault on a jewish billionaire's compound and raze it to the ground. every facet of society has declared itself your enemy, you won't even dare to do a little bit of kidnapping or a heist?

the idea that my entire generation(i'm 54) will pass into oblivion without ever taking on the enemy even once.

i eat, breathe, sleep, and dream of war, yet my cohorts all want to keep cucking for their pensions and live the rest of their life in a browned hellscape while their grandchildren gets raped by death by somalians

i go around town with this intrusive thought always in the back of my mind whenever i see a fellow white guy my age that i want to grab him by the collar and scream in his face about fighting jewish institutional capture, white replacement, etc before it's too late.
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Yeah when you are younger you can cope with thinking you’ll be successful in the future but tbh at this point there is no future. It really is unbearable and I am seriously considering to cancel all my surgeries plans and just give up and NEET.
Do you think you can afford your hardmaxxing plan in cash, in time, in willpower? People talk about surgery all the time, but it's like day dreaming. Especially for those of us who are really subhuman. With extreme failos, like IPD or busted head shapes / low hyoid and enough knowledge about what is surgically possible, surgery becomes a fantasy where one day the subhuman man pushes through the doors of the hospital out to the world ready for the taking with his new Chadly face.

I accepted that, unless your facial ratios and head shape are good and your problem is with the jaw, surgery is not so useful. Basically, only jaw surgery is reliable. There are whole forums on the Web dedicated to jaw surgery because it can be that life changing. If your problem is with or above the eyes, you might as well just go to bed.
 
I hate being poor ugly and black
I hate that I’m old as shit
I hate that I have to work
I hate that I have to leave my house
I had that I’m dopamine deprived and addicted to fucking around online

I want to finish college
I want to get a white tall skinny girlfriend
I want to read more
I want to spend time irl
i want to be lean and not a fucking fat nigger
 
Do you think you can afford your hardmaxxing plan in cash, in time, in willpower? People talk about surgery all the time, but it's like day dreaming. Especially for those of us who are really subhuman. With extreme failos, like IPD or busted head shapes / low hyoid and enough knowledge about what is surgically possible, surgery becomes a fantasy where one day the subhuman man pushes through the doors of the hospital out to the world ready for the taking with his new Chadly face.

I accepted that, unless your facial ratios and head shape are good and your problem is with the jaw, surgery is not so useful. Basically, only jaw surgery is reliable. There are whole forums on the Web dedicated to jaw surgery because it can be that life changing. If your problem is with or above the eyes, you might as well just go to bed.

I already have the cash, it’s more that I could use that cash to NEET instead. It’s unclear which option would bring me more happiness, the cost of surgery could enable several years of NEET which is guaranteed to at least bring contentment whereas the surgery is not guaranteed to bring anything.

I certainly have the time and willpower. It takes me a thousand times more willpower to drag myself into the wagecage and get lifemogged every day by normies (that this forum shits on, they still lifemog me) than any surgery could require.

My jaws are both recessed and my teeth are Class 2 Div 2 with borderline SFS so there are obvious gains there. My eyes are great but my orbits are chopped, I am hoping saddled infras and periorbital fat transfers will be enough.

I’ll never be HTN+ most likely as my facial bone mass is just so low and I lack forward growth that only surgeries like LF2 can provide, which I’m not willing to do. Losing 3-4 years of NEET is bad enough but the cost of LF2 would represent decades.
 
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