“Validation from people” is an oxymoron in itself.

[Dr. Mog]

Believe it or not, 90% of the things that you claim to benefit for yourself, you expect validation from people too.

Validation is the end goal. Period.

Hard-looksmaxxing much? It’s so that when you walk down the street you want foids and normgroids to notice you, you crave attention.
You crave it so much that you want their boyfriends to admit that you mog them (and there is nothing particularly wrong in this) and for this neuroendocrine dopamine release you are willing to go lengths by starvmaxxing for fat loss, binge eating until you vomit for weight gain, heavy gymcelling, expensive skin care routines, planning surgeries etc

You might have loved that summer vacation trip abroad, but you know you clicked pictures in the best jaw angles of yours so that you can post it online and gain validation.

Status maxxing/moneymaxxing is always something you should be doing for yourself and your family, but nahhh you still have an inner feeling that you want to disprove those people who doubted you, revv your new Lambo infront of their houses, wear better clothes than a normgroids in public and overall date a wealthier/ Stacy woman.

Normies for some reason, if you tell them you are doing this for validation from people, they rage at you. They are insecure and want to prove and cope that they are doing it for themselves and not to impress you.
As if doing stuff for gaining validation is a bad thing, which is why I quote “Validation from people is an oxymoron in itself”. Everybody wants it while saying they don’t want it.

 

[Megfish21]

imo its best to pursue things you are doing for yourself only. goals that stem from others are often unsatisfying even if you realize them.
another mistake ppl make (often in conjunction with your arguement) is focusing too much on the end goal, rather than on the challenge itself.

there are not a whole lot of high iq ppl on here, miring the post

 

[jordanbarett122]

Believe it or not, 90% of the things that you claim to benefit for yourself, you expect validation from people too.

Validation is the end goal. Period.

Hard-looksmaxxing much? It’s so that when you walk down the street you want foids and normgroids to notice you, you crave attention.
You crave it so much that you want their boyfriends to admit that you mog them (and there is nothing particularly wrong in this) and for this neuroendocrine dopamine release you are willing to go lengths by starvmaxxing for fat loss, binge eating until you vomit for weight gain, heavy gymcelling, expensive skin care routines, planning surgeries etc

You might have loved that summer vacation trip abroad, but you know you clicked pictures in the best jaw angles of yours so that you can post it online and gain validation.

Status maxxing/moneymaxxing is always something you should be doing for yourself and your family, but nahhh you still have an inner feeling that you want to disprove those people who doubted you, revv your new Lambo infront of their houses, wear better clothes than a normgroids in public and overall date a wealthier/ Stacy woman.

Normies for some reason, if you tell them you are doing this for validation from people, they rage at you. They are insecure and want to prove and cope that they are doing it for themselves and not to impress you.
As if doing stuff for gaining validation is a bad thing, which is why I quote “Validation from people is an oxymoron in itself”. Everybody wants it while saying they don’t want it.

Beautiful