Venting about my ex of 3 years

[kurd]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

 

[spongebobsex]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

I hope you heal bhai

 

[tansel]

she would’ve stayed if you looked like 2008 vasiliy

 

[kurd]

I hope you heal bhai

Thank you bro, its been a month since it happened im healing everyday, i don’t really miss her anymore, i more miss that i had a person who truly cared abt me and treated me that welll while knowing i was autistic and shit i could be myself around her and still be loved but she showed her true colors at the end its weird man

 

[zakachiti]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

Tremendously heartbreaking post bhai, I hope you have better luck in the future, and that whore gets what's coming for her

 

[kurd]

she would’ve stayed if you looked like 2008 vasiliy

Thats why im looksmaxxing to the MAX now,

My ex literally wanted to make me fat and keep me fat, she wanted to make me ugly on purpose im not even trolling

 

[kurd]

Tremendously heartbreaking post bhai, I hope you have better luck in the future, and that whore gets what's coming for her

Thank you bro, karma is a real thing so i hope so man. Im gonna let the universe interfere with that, ill just become the best version of myself, thats my revenge

 

[IronMike]

 

[ibIameweight]

she would’ve stayed if you looked like 2008 vasiliy

His 2 hours of prime

 

[cryptt]

Doesn't sound like u were her first love
Women lie

 

[kurd]

View attachment 4802746

I thought about it in the beginning but not anymore, hard times like these are necessary for us

 

[kurd]

Doesn't sound like u were her first love
Women lie

Could be true man tbh. Like legit

 

[tansel]

His 2 hours of prime

from 2007-2011 he looked insane, one in 8 billion

 

[zakachiti]

View attachment 4802746

 

[MediterraneanMoid]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

Most of the time, people will just use others as bridges or tools until they’ve secured something else. I’m not going to go on about genetics and all that, because you’re probably already fully aware of it, but unfortunately nowadays people rarely value a genuine bond since they’re always comparing it to perfection and that’s a big problem, honestly.

There’s nothing wrong with being yourself; the issue is that people who only look out for themselves aren’t able to see those things and instead limit themselves to what they want things to be, rather than adapting to what they actually have. Obviously, genetic compatibility and all that play a big role, but people’s minds today are so messed up that they won’t even see you as human when it comes to achieving their goals. She wanted attention from both sides and wanted to keep two options in case one failed. I hope that woman ends up getting a taste of her own medicine and can feel even 1% of what the average man feels from these experiences, because they cause deeply lasting damage.

Don’t change the way you love, don’t change who you are being connected to the world and to what surrounds us is something truly special. But if you swallow the pill of realism before idealism, you’ll be able to protect those parts of yourself much better.

 

[grayhaahm]

Holy that’s ropefuel

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

Having an egotistic attitude can lead women to other men. From my expert analogy, without any consideration or research, it seems like you believe everything is about you. You. You. Me me me me me me me me me. And when a woman senses this arrogance and lack of partnership, you can manhandle her all you want, her love and body will go to another man. Every. Fucking. Time.

 

[MediterraneanMoid]

Good luck buddy boyo

 

[kurd]

Having an egotistic attitude can lead women to other men. From my expert analogy, without any consideration or research, it seems like you believe everything is about you. You. You. Me me me me me me me me me. And when a woman senses this arrogance and lack of partnership, you can manhandle her all you want, her love and body will go to another man. Every. Fucking. Time.

someone really needs to make a thread on how to treat women nowadays cus i have no fk clue anymore

 

[kurd]

Holy that’s ropefuel

lol wanna know some more ropefuel?

After she had sex with the new guy, the morning after she texted me “i love you im at breakfas with my mom” while in the break

 

[kurd]

Most of the time, people will just use others as bridges or tools until they’ve secured something else. I’m not going to go on about genetics and all that, because you’re probably already fully aware of it, but unfortunately nowadays people rarely value a genuine bond since they’re always comparing it to perfection and that’s a big problem, honestly.

There’s nothing wrong with being yourself; the issue is that people who only look out for themselves aren’t able to see those things and instead limit themselves to what they want things to be, rather than adapting to what they actually have. Obviously, genetic compatibility and all that play a big role, but people’s minds today are so messed up that they won’t even see you as human when it comes to achieving their goals. She wanted attention from both sides and wanted to keep two options in case one failed. I hope that woman ends up getting a taste of her own medicine and can feel even 1% of what the average man feels from these experiences, because they cause deeply lasting damage.

Don’t change the way you love, don’t change who you are being connected to the world and to what surrounds us is something truly special. But if you swallow the pill of realism before idealism, you’ll be able to protect those parts of yourself much better.

Yeah its brutal i shouldve expected this from the start, i was just too blinded

 

[cryptt]

Could be true man tbh. Like legit

Not the best place to vent but gl bud

 

[cryptt]

Thank you bro, its been a month since it happened im healing everyday, i don’t really miss her anymore, i more miss that i had a person who truly cared abt me and treated me that welll while knowing i was autistic and shit i could be myself around her and still be loved but she showed her true colors at the end its weird man

Do u not get randomly anxious whenever u think of her?

 

[kurd]

Not the best place to vent but gl bud

Reddit is too bluepilled for this bullshit, fuck that.

Do u not get randomly anxious whenever u think of her?

Yeah i do bro honestly, like the most anxious thing is that i never expected all this from her yk? She portrayed herself so well to me. It ws a insane plot twist. I don’t think ill ever trust a girl again

 

[cryptt]

Reddit is too bluepilled for this bullshit, fuck that.



Yeah i do bro honestly, like the most anxious thing is that i never expected all this from her yk? She portrayed herself so well to me. It ws a insane plot twist. I don’t think ill ever trust a girl again

Lowk relatable although your scenario is way more fucked I js get anxious easily for some reason gl w it bro

 

[paralyz3d]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

heartbreaking post, what's your current rating rn? There is just no way a foid is that evil to make you ugly and shitty again but then again it can happen.

 

[kurd]

heartbreaking post, what's your current rating rn? There is just no way a foid is that evil to make you ugly and shitty again but then again it can happen.

I was rated chadlite by BGM and several others when i was lean, i got too comfortable in the relationship esp by what she told me how she wants me to get fat and feed me etc.. after i became overweight like 10-15kg overweight, im not good looking anymore no, im leanmaxxing rn

 

[kurd]

heartbreaking post, what's your current rating rn? There is just no way a foid is that evil to make you ugly and shitty again but then again it can happen.

also when i got w my ex she showed a pic of my face to her friends and all of her friends wanted my snap lol like dead ass i think this is why she wantedto make me ugly

 

[8089022]

Was in a similar situation, after about 2 years of dating she just apologized for leading me on and told me she isn't ready for a relationship... looking back at it she treated me like shit a lot of the time. Despite that I was still a simp to her.

Best piece of advice that I have, and it seems you are heading in the right direction. Its to just move on, forget about her.

And never ever ever date someone seriously who clearly has issues and isn't mentally stable.

 

[kurd]

Was in a similar situation, after about 2 years of dating she just apologized for leading me on and told me she isn't ready for a relationship... looking back at it she treated me like shit a lot of the time. Despite that I was still a simp to her.

Best piece of advice that I have, and it seems you are heading in the right direction. Its to just move on, forget about her.

And never ever ever date someone seriously who clearly has issues and isn't mentally stable.

Yea she was mentally unstable tbh,

She told me in the beginning she has chronic depression and had to take pills for it but after getting with me she said she doesnt need to anymore, shouldve been a redflag from the start, shes probabyl using men for her own happiness

 

[grayhaahm]

lol wanna know some more ropefuel?

After she had sex with the new guy, the morning after she texted me “i love you im at breakfas with my mom” while in the break

Damn bro, I feel bad, all I gotta say is don’t let that truly get to your head, take care of yourself

 

[kurd]

Damn bro, I feel bad, all I gotta say is don’t let that truly get to your head, take care of yourself

Bro idk what to do man,

Like i don’t even miss her at this point, im just full of anger and hate, and i think im so fucking stupid for letting
All of this happen, i genuienly feel like low iq.

Idk what to do

 

[grayhaahm]

Bro idk what to do man,

Like i don’t even miss her at this point, im just full of anger and hate, and i think im so fucking stupid for letting
All of this happen, i genuienly feel like low iq.

Idk what to do

This may sound retar,
But just going outside and like doing nothing if it’s sunny and just kinda chill
In nature, that’s what I do when I feel stupid

 

[kranerman23123]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

WE are not marrying these foids

 

[kranerman23123]

Bro idk what to do man,

Like i don’t even miss her at this point, im just full of anger and hate, and i think im so fucking stupid for letting
All of this happen, i genuienly feel like low iq.

Idk what to do

looksmax and pump and dump

 

[kurd]

P

WE are not marrying these foids

I want to find a loyal loving caring nice girl so bad and just marry and have a family but its like impossible these days idk mane

 

[iblamefranklin]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

its gonna get better bhai

 

[GoodLittleFoidBoy]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

dnr, there’s plenty fish of the sea but when you think you struck gold there is a diamond waiting below

 

[xrend]

was in a similar situation as you, april of last year ended a 4 year relationship because i had a strange gut feeling like there is someone else in the background and I ended up being right. to keep it short, it was my first relationship and i was blinded by love and thought everything was ok.

as time went on, she started to change alot from the girl that i loved at first. i ignored the red flags like a dumbass and thought, "oh its no big deal" but nope i was a retard. she has been talking to him for god knows how long while we were together. it got really bad to where i kinda lost myself, i went off track in my life goals and simped like a fuckin idiot. waste of 4 years of my life.

my advice to you would be to just lifemaxx tbh. improve every aspect of your life (looks, money, social) and keep yourself busy. dont dwell. go outside, go for a walk, enjoy nature (sounds gay, but trust).

time heals all. love u bhai, stay up

 

[kurd]

was in a similar situation as you, april of last year ended a 4 year relationship because i had a strange gut feeling like there is someone else in the background and I ended up being right. to keep it short, it was my first relationship and i was blinded by love and thought everything was ok.

as time went on, she started to change alot from the girl that i loved at first. i ignored the red flags like a dumbass and thought, "oh its no big deal" but nope i was a retard. she has been talking to him for god knows how long while we were together. it got really bad to where i kinda lost myself, i went off track in my life goals and simped like a fuckin idiot. waste of 4 years of my life.

my advice to you would be to just lifemaxx tbh. improve every aspect of your life (looks, money, social) and keep yourself busy. dont dwell. go outside, go for a walk, enjoy nature (sounds gay, but trust).

time heals all. love u bhai, stay up

Bro im gonna cry why does this happen to us

 

[xrend]

Bro im gonna cry why does this happen to us

im saying bro, im genuinely a good person and i feel like i just give too much just to be treated like shit in the end.

now im starting to become more aware and when shit seems weird i trust my gut and dnr foids that seem off.

its gonna be a rough patch for a bit but it will get better shit happens for a reason.

 

[kurd]

im saying bro, im genuinely a good person and i feel like i just give too much just to be treated like shit in the end.

now im starting to become more aware and when shit seems weird i trust my gut and dnr foids that seem off.

its gonna be a rough patch for a bit but it will get better shit happens for a reason.

I cant even talk to girls anymore bro because i would literally talk about anything witb my ex and it would be fine but now i gotta get to know ppl and shit oh my god bro i hate being autistic i cant talk to people like i genuinely get bored so fast of girls i just dnr them

 

[griff1234]

Why does everyone have to betray me, seriously why… my friends, my family, my girlfriend of 3 years who I loved so much and never expected this from.

Why does nobody just want to be with me? Why does everyone hate me? Am I not good-looking enough? Not kind enough? Not smart enough? Not fun enough???

I loved everyone who did me wrong so much, and I did so much for them. I sacrificed everything for them.

My ex-girlfriend of 3 years… I never expected her to do me this dirty. She knew I was an overthinker, insecure, and always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she still took advantage of that. In the end, she cheated on me for 2 months with another guy, talking to him while I didn’t know, and telling him I was just her cousin with “mental problems”??

And the craziest part is I didn’t even find out from her. I found out everything by adding the guy she was talking to, and he told me everything, not her.

Was I mentally unstable because I sent you long paragraphs just to show how much I loved you?

You knew that cheating on me would destroy me. You knew how much I overthought about that, and in the end you proved it. Don’t you understand how badly you treated me? Then in early February, after already cheating for 2 months, you messaged me saying you wanted a break. I said okay, take your time.

I improved myself so much for you. I even wrote a whole letter in Portuguese, your mother tongue, and wrote one for your mom to show how much I loved you.

I explained why I had been annoying lately I literally have a father with lung cancer. I told you that, and you thought it was a lie. What is actually wrong with you? You changed so much, I swear. I never expected this.

And while all that was happening during the break, you were still talking to ANOTHER guy and trying to get into a relationship with him. And when you knew you could be with him and be locked in with him (after only 3–4 weeks of talking), that’s when you finally broke up with me. And you never even told me about these guys!!

And that guy you were talking to the one I was worried about you said he had a girlfriend and you swore on your mother about it??? What the hell… You were just using me as a backup option in case things went wrong.

And what hurts even more is that we were each other’s first love. You were the one who initiated the relationship, not me. I never asked for all of this you got me attached.

Holy shit… why does everyone treat me so badly? Am I some kind of monster? Can nobody love me??? I go through so many bad things, and I always keep myself together and keep going through all those hard times that’s what’s going to make me a man. But the things you never expect hurt the most, and that’s exactly what happened.

I will never, ever understand how someone can change so much and treat me this badly after 3 years. How am I ever going to trust a girl again, bro? How? How am I supposed to do that when the girl who said she loved me the most, who was so sweet, kind, and caring to me, showed her true colors like this in the end?

I don’t even miss you, but you gave me trauma. I wish you had just broken up with me when you lost interest instead of using me as a backup option. This is so wrong. When are you ever going to realize how much you hurt me? Will that ever even happen?

I hope, that I meet a kind, smart, beautiful girl, and that I can treat her the best way and that she treats me the same way. And hopefully these bad things never happen again, because if it happens one more time, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I swear I regret that relationship so much. I loved and cried over someone who treated me so badly, and someone who has no regret or guilt about anything. I don’t understand how someone’s heart can be that dark, honestly. I was never the problem that was you.

This is truly the end of this chapter. I’m going to forget you and move on with my life. I’m done with this. I’m not going to grieve over someone who treated me this badly.

How are you now?

 

[kurd]

How are you now?

I dont even know man my emotions are super bipolar sometimes i forget her sometimes i dont want her back sometimes i hate her

 

[griff1234]

I dont even know man my emotions are super bipolar sometimes i forget her sometimes i dont want her back sometimes i hate her

Yeah I’ve felt that way as well when my girlfriend talked to other guys. I just distract myself a lot and when I feel sad I just go in the shower and just let everything out idk if that helps but it’s what helps for me.

 

[kurd]

Yeah I’ve felt that way as well when my girlfriend talked to other guys. I just distract myself a lot and when I feel sad I just go in the shower and just let everything out idk if that helps but it’s what helps for me.

Are u still w her

 

[xrend]

I cant even talk to girls anymore bro because i would literally talk about anything witb my ex and it would be fine but now i gotta get to know ppl and shit oh my god bro i hate being autistic i cant talk to people like i genuinely get bored so fast of girls i just dnr them

im the same way, i would literally talk about everything to her and be retarded and have laughs. alot of our interest lined up and shi too

i know what you mean alot of new girls i talk to are so fuckin dry and retarded. just keep going out and talking to new girls and you will strike gold eventually.

i havent yet but one day

 

[griff1234]

Are u still w her

Im not proud of it but yeah. I hate myself for staying ig I don’t have the self respect I just don’t know. Like she says she just talked to them about their issues and trauma but it’s like idk why the fuck are you comforting another man. I just wanna find true love is that so hard maybe I’m the one being weird idk tbh

 

[kurd]

Im not proud of it but yeah. I hate myself for staying ig I don’t have the self respect I just don’t know. Like she says she just talked to them about their issues and trauma but it’s like idk why the fuck are you comforting another man. I just wanna find true love is that so hard maybe I’m the one being weird idk tbh

Break up before it gets worse, trust me man

 

[kurd]

im the same way, i would literally talk about everything to her and be retarded and have laughs. alot of our interest lined up and shi too

i know what you mean alot of new girls i talk to are so fuckin dry and retarded. just keep going out and talking to new girls and you will strike gold eventually.

i havent yet but one day

Literally, all of these new girls are dry and fucking stupid.