venting about my ex

[daunas]

we met in tenth grade, she followed me on tiktok amd we started talking, got to know each other, talked about our music tastes, complimented each other, i had a crush before but she rejected me and i stop chasing girls cuz that shit was draining.. i talked about my crush to her and she felt bad for me, said i needed better, 1 or 2 weeks by she started to send “i have a crush on u” type tiktoks and i was shocked cuz im pretty sure im not even good looking, i wasnt even intended to looksmax at that time(it all started in early january) and i felt confused, i didnt know what to do, i kinda didnt like her but out of my kindness i chose to stay thru the boredom and talk to her, she asked me out and we became a couple, and the first two months was fucking amazing, had my first makeout, almost had sex(she was on period so we couldnt do it) and i didnt even think about any girls just about her, and i finally felt special to someone.. until the third month of our relationship, she started to push me away for shorter periods, i didnt think much of it, people need their time, she became cold, didnt hug me in school, nor go out with me outside, then she became annoyed by me, got icks from me, i wasnt doing anything wrong, i was so fucking lost like what was i doing wrong (plot twist: it wasnt me, it was her), she started to focus on my flaws, on all the bad stuff i was doing and ignored all the good stuff i did for her, and by the end of our third month of relationship, she wanted to break up with me.

i was in severe depression and loss of meaning of life, like how could you do this to me, u promised me u would stay no matter what, and build our future together.

after our breakup we talked, she said relationships are not for her, she said shes just “overwhelmed” by the relationship or wtv, and needed time to process things till maybe we can start over, and she asked me if we can stay friends, and me - a dumbass, said yes, because i didnt want to lose her.

but i couldnt stand her being my friend after the breakup i needed to heal and take time to move on.

i didnt reply to her one day and boom, im blocked, after a week she found a new man and instantly became a couple, instead of taking things slow like she did with me

she started lying about me that i didnt love her enough, that im a bad person, and shes greatful that she broke up with me

after 1 month of no contact, i still stalk her reposts and check how shes doing.

but i dont gaf now cuz i mog her new bf in every aspect, and nothing was serious in that relationship, she lost me, not me lost her

 

[italianltn]

we met in tenth grade, she followed me on tiktok amd we started talking, got to know each other, talked about our music tastes, complimented each other, i had a crush before but she rejected me and i stop chasing girls cuz that shit was draining.. i talked about my crush to her and she felt bad for me, said i needed better, 1 or 2 weeks by she started to send “i have a crush on u” type tiktoks and i was shocked cuz im pretty sure im not even good looking, i wasnt even intended to looksmax at that time(it all started in early january) and i felt confused, i didnt know what to do, i kinda didnt like her but out of my kindness i chose to stay thru the boredom and talk to her, she asked me out and we became a couple, and the first two months was fucking amazing, had my first makeout, almost had sex(she was on period so we couldnt do it) and i didnt even think about any girls just about her, and i finally felt special to someone.. until the third month of our relationship, she started to push me away for shorter periods, i didnt think much of it, people need their time, she became cold, didnt hug me in school, nor go out with me outside, then she became annoyed by me, got icks from me, i wasnt doing anything wrong, i was so fucking lost like what was i doing wrong (plot twist: it wasnt me, it was her), she started to focus on my flaws, on all the bad stuff i was doing and ignored all the good stuff i did for her, and by the end of our third month of relationship, she wanted to break up with me.

i was in severe depression and loss of meaning of life, like how could you do this to me, u promised me u would stay no matter what, and build our future together.

after our breakup we talked, she said relationships are not for her, she said shes just “overwhelmed” by the relationship or wtv, and needed time to process things till maybe we can start over, and she asked me if we can stay friends, and me - a dumbass, said yes, because i didnt want to lose her.

but i couldnt stand her being my friend after the breakup i needed to heal and take time to move on.

i didnt reply to her one day and boom, im blocked, after a week she found a new man and instantly became a couple, instead of taking things slow like she did with me

she started lying about me that i didnt love her enough, that im a bad person, and shes greatful that she broke up with me

after 1 month of no contact, i still stalk her reposts and check how shes doing.

but i dont gaf now cuz i mog her new bf in every aspect, and nothing was serious in that relationship, she lost me, not me lost her

DNR #don'tgiveafuck!!!!!!!

Seriously though, this is very standard and this shit just happens. Immature/younger women have very little reasoning when it comes to relationships. It sucks but you have to just tough it out, stop stalking her, stop caring about her, give it a couple weeks of not giving a fuck about the bitch and you'll stop giving a fuck.

 

[fynn]

we met in tenth grade, she followed me on tiktok amd we started talking, got to know each other, talked about our music tastes, complimented each other, i had a crush before but she rejected me and i stop chasing girls cuz that shit was draining.. i talked about my crush to her and she felt bad for me, said i needed better, 1 or 2 weeks by she started to send “i have a crush on u” type tiktoks and i was shocked cuz im pretty sure im not even good looking, i wasnt even intended to looksmax at that time(it all started in early january) and i felt confused, i didnt know what to do, i kinda didnt like her but out of my kindness i chose to stay thru the boredom and talk to her, she asked me out and we became a couple, and the first two months was fucking amazing, had my first makeout, almost had sex(she was on period so we couldnt do it) and i didnt even think about any girls just about her, and i finally felt special to someone.. until the third month of our relationship, she started to push me away for shorter periods, i didnt think much of it, people need their time, she became cold, didnt hug me in school, nor go out with me outside, then she became annoyed by me, got icks from me, i wasnt doing anything wrong, i was so fucking lost like what was i doing wrong (plot twist: it wasnt me, it was her), she started to focus on my flaws, on all the bad stuff i was doing and ignored all the good stuff i did for her, and by the end of our third month of relationship, she wanted to break up with me.

i was in severe depression and loss of meaning of life, like how could you do this to me, u promised me u would stay no matter what, and build our future together.

after our breakup we talked, she said relationships are not for her, she said shes just “overwhelmed” by the relationship or wtv, and needed time to process things till maybe we can start over, and she asked me if we can stay friends, and me - a dumbass, said yes, because i didnt want to lose her.

but i couldnt stand her being my friend after the breakup i needed to heal and take time to move on.

i didnt reply to her one day and boom, im blocked, after a week she found a new man and instantly became a couple, instead of taking things slow like she did with me

she started lying about me that i didnt love her enough, that im a bad person, and shes greatful that she broke up with me

after 1 month of no contact, i still stalk her reposts and check how shes doing.

but i dont gaf now cuz i mog her new bf in every aspect, and nothing was serious in that relationship, she lost me, not me lost her

happens to every boy i his life

 

[Noriju]

we met in tenth grade, she followed me on tiktok amd we started talking, got to know each other, talked about our music tastes, complimented each other, i had a crush before but she rejected me and i stop chasing girls cuz that shit was draining.. i talked about my crush to her and she felt bad for me, said i needed better, 1 or 2 weeks by she started to send “i have a crush on u” type tiktoks and i was shocked cuz im pretty sure im not even good looking, i wasnt even intended to looksmax at that time(it all started in early january) and i felt confused, i didnt know what to do, i kinda didnt like her but out of my kindness i chose to stay thru the boredom and talk to her, she asked me out and we became a couple, and the first two months was fucking amazing, had my first makeout, almost had sex(she was on period so we couldnt do it) and i didnt even think about any girls just about her, and i finally felt special to someone.. until the third month of our relationship, she started to push me away for shorter periods, i didnt think much of it, people need their time, she became cold, didnt hug me in school, nor go out with me outside, then she became annoyed by me, got icks from me, i wasnt doing anything wrong, i was so fucking lost like what was i doing wrong (plot twist: it wasnt me, it was her), she started to focus on my flaws, on all the bad stuff i was doing and ignored all the good stuff i did for her, and by the end of our third month of relationship, she wanted to break up with me.

i was in severe depression and loss of meaning of life, like how could you do this to me, u promised me u would stay no matter what, and build our future together.

after our breakup we talked, she said relationships are not for her, she said shes just “overwhelmed” by the relationship or wtv, and needed time to process things till maybe we can start over, and she asked me if we can stay friends, and me - a dumbass, said yes, because i didnt want to lose her.

but i couldnt stand her being my friend after the breakup i needed to heal and take time to move on.

i didnt reply to her one day and boom, im blocked, after a week she found a new man and instantly became a couple, instead of taking things slow like she did with me

she started lying about me that i didnt love her enough, that im a bad person, and shes greatful that she broke up with me

after 1 month of no contact, i still stalk her reposts and check how shes doing.

but i dont gaf now cuz i mog her new bf in every aspect, and nothing was serious in that relationship, she lost me, not me lost her

 

[ropeicl10]

we met in tenth grade, she followed me on tiktok amd we started talking, got to know each other, talked about our music tastes, complimented each other, i had a crush before but she rejected me and i stop chasing girls cuz that shit was draining.. i talked about my crush to her and she felt bad for me, said i needed better, 1 or 2 weeks by she started to send “i have a crush on u” type tiktoks and i was shocked cuz im pretty sure im not even good looking, i wasnt even intended to looksmax at that time(it all started in early january) and i felt confused, i didnt know what to do, i kinda didnt like her but out of my kindness i chose to stay thru the boredom and talk to her, she asked me out and we became a couple, and the first two months was fucking amazing, had my first makeout, almost had sex(she was on period so we couldnt do it) and i didnt even think about any girls just about her, and i finally felt special to someone.. until the third month of our relationship, she started to push me away for shorter periods, i didnt think much of it, people need their time, she became cold, didnt hug me in school, nor go out with me outside, then she became annoyed by me, got icks from me, i wasnt doing anything wrong, i was so fucking lost like what was i doing wrong (plot twist: it wasnt me, it was her), she started to focus on my flaws, on all the bad stuff i was doing and ignored all the good stuff i did for her, and by the end of our third month of relationship, she wanted to break up with me.

i was in severe depression and loss of meaning of life, like how could you do this to me, u promised me u would stay no matter what, and build our future together.

after our breakup we talked, she said relationships are not for her, she said shes just “overwhelmed” by the relationship or wtv, and needed time to process things till maybe we can start over, and she asked me if we can stay friends, and me - a dumbass, said yes, because i didnt want to lose her.

but i couldnt stand her being my friend after the breakup i needed to heal and take time to move on.

i didnt reply to her one day and boom, im blocked, after a week she found a new man and instantly became a couple, instead of taking things slow like she did with me

she started lying about me that i didnt love her enough, that im a bad person, and shes greatful that she broke up with me

after 1 month of no contact, i still stalk her reposts and check how shes doing.

but i dont gaf now cuz i mog her new bf in every aspect, and nothing was serious in that relationship, she lost me, not me lost her

the habit of u checking her reposts gotta go, those late night thinking about ur past etc will hit considering u check her reposts every now and then, and the mistake u did is telling her about ur previous crush and how she rejected u and how that hurt u etc