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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
 
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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
There isn’t much you can do to stop it.

It’s just a product of the world we live in
 
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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
if you try to stop her you will be seen as insecure, even though youd be doing the right thing
and if you dont, she might slip away
i dont think you can take much action here
are you sure youre not perhaps overthinking it?
nothing in reality turns out to be as bad as we imagine
 
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if you try to stop her you will be seen as insecure, even though youd be doing the right thing
and if you dont, she might slip away
i dont think you can take much action here
are you sure youre not perhaps overthinking it?
nothing in reality turns out to be as bad as we imagine
Im pretty firm on the fact im overthinking it, we meet up quite often and she lets me go through her phone when ever im feeling bad, but it doesnt really help beacuse in reality she could just be blocking a guy every time we meet up. she also has me in all her bios on socials, but than the guy could just be in on the fact shes cheating and not gaf.


My dad occasionally does shrooms, and told me if I ever want to do it to talk to him and we can do it together. Ive heard that you can microdose shrooms to lower inhib would it be worth to have this talk with him about wanting to do it?
 
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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
ask her for sex
 
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we usually fuck when ever we meet up
 
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Im pretty firm on the fact im overthinking it, we meet up quite often and she lets me go through her phone when ever im feeling bad, but it doesnt really help beacuse in reality she could just be blocking a guy every time we meet up. she also has me in all her bios on socials, but than the guy could just be in on the fact shes cheating and not gaf.


My dad occasionally does shrooms, and told me if I ever want to do it to talk to him and we can do it together. Ive heard that you can microdose shrooms to lower inhib would it be worth to have this talk with him about wanting to do it?
dont do shrooms

I will say it is a good sign if she lets u go thru her phone and has u n her bio so I would definitely be far less worried.
 
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:feelspanties: Idk
 
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dont do shrooms

I will say it is a good sign if she lets u go thru her phone and has u n her bio so I would definitely be far less worried.
why not do shrooms?
 
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Im pretty firm on the fact im overthinking it, we meet up quite often and she lets me go through her phone when ever im feeling bad, but it doesnt really help beacuse in reality she could just be blocking a guy every time we meet up. she also has me in all her bios on socials, but than the guy could just be in on the fact shes cheating and not gaf.


My dad occasionally does shrooms, and told me if I ever want to do it to talk to him and we can do it together. Ive heard that you can microdose shrooms to lower inhib would it be worth to have this talk with him about wanting to do it?
we usually fuck when ever we meet up

i hope it works out for you two bro
i wont advise anyone to take drugs/shrooms, since ive never done anything like that myself
ask @LowInhibNoSMV about that, he seems to be an expert on the subject
 
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i hope it works out for you two bro
i wont advise you anyone to take drugs/shrooms, since ive never done anything like that myself
ask @LowInhibNoSMV about that, he seems to be an expert on the subject
thanks for the tag let me read through this rq
 
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i hope it works out for you two bro
i wont advise you anyone to take drugs/shrooms, since ive never done anything like that myself
ask @LowInhibNoSMV about that, he seems to be an expert on the subject
thank you dude:love:
 
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You must train yourself to let go of anything you are afraid to lose. Accept it as part of life. Your relatives can die, your girlfriend can leave you for chad. It happens.
 
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Do you talk to other girls yourself, even platonically?
 
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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
Everything gives me the gut-wrenching feeling you talk about. Idk how you niggas cope this shit has kept me locked in my room
 
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Interesting, i understand why your jealous.
It hurts when you don‘t have the right mindset

Ask yourself
Why are you getting jealous?
It‘s your girlfriend
she chose you over those guys
shes a independant person
she can do as she pleases in a way
if you become resentful about it,
you‘ll just chase her away

trust me ive gone through this many times

your goal shouldn‘t be chasing the others away
you also shouldn‘t just be a little sissy that tells your girl „yes go play with those guys“
then you just ask to be cucked

let her do what she wants in some aspects
dont show support for them playing together but dont actively say you dont like it

work on your mind, body, style
not for her but for yourself

the side effect is her wanting you more
the main effect is you not even needing her anymore

you have to, even if its just in your head, get the spiritual overhand in the relationship.
Once you stop feeling bad and insecure, you stop projecting it
and life will bend to your will.
 
Do you talk to other girls yourself, even platonically?
i talk to my coworkers who are girls during work about random shit, other than that no i dont talk to any other girls
 
if you try to stop her you will be seen as insecure, even though youd be doing the right thing
and if you dont, she might slip away
i dont think you can take much action here
are you sure youre not perhaps overthinking it?
nothing in reality turns out to be as bad as we imagine
The only thing u can do is show ur girl u have options talk to other girls but in a friendly way u alr have gf which boosts ur social proof to other girls so they will react positively to u. Just have female frnds and make her insecure aswell if she leaves get with the other girl .
 
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it's pretty hard for the friend guys not to catch feelings for her, at least hope they're ugly or something
 
Interesting, i understand why your jealous.
It hurts when you don‘t have the right mindset

Ask yourself
Why are you getting jealous?
It‘s your girlfriend
she chose you over those guys
shes a independant person
she can do as she pleases in a way
if you become resentful about it,
you‘ll just chase her away

trust me ive gone through this many times

your goal shouldn‘t be chasing the others away
you also shouldn‘t just be a little sissy that tells your girl „yes go play with those guys“
then you just ask to be cucked

let her do what she wants in some aspects
dont show support for them playing together but dont actively say you dont like it

work on your mind, body, style
not for her but for yourself

the side effect is her wanting you more
the main effect is you not even needing her anymore

you have to, even if its just in your head, get the spiritual overhand in the relationship.
Once you stop feeling bad and insecure, you stop projecting it
and life will bend to your will.
thank you so much, saving this in my notes on my phone.

just for an example next time she says she wants to play with them should i be like "alright have fun ill go call *friends name*"
 
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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
Ahahahshajaha cuckkk booiii
 
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it's pretty hard for the friend guys not to catch feelings for her, at least hope they're ugly or something
both have small frames and are shorter than me so i hope thats a big enough thing for her to care about
 
thank you so much, saving this in my notes on my phone.

just for an example next time she says she wants to play with them should i be like "alright have fun ill go call *friends name*"
glad i could help.
for sure, but don‘t do it just to spite her.

thats the thing, you dont have to do anything for anyone

your bored? sure, call the friend
you arent? then you can also be alone for a while

its your life, you have to do what YOU want to do.
not what others want from you or even what you expect them to want from you.
good luck my bro
 
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Been with my irl gf for 2 years now, but when ever she talks to other boys in any regard i feel this deep sinking feeling in my stomach and i cant break it. right now my gf and her friend are playing minecraft with 2 other guys that go to there school, she assures me that she isnt flurting and tries to comfort me but nothing works, am i retarded? any tips to help stop being so pussy?
:ROFLMAO: What are u doin Brah
 
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The only thing u can do is show ur girl u have options talk to other girls but in a friendly way u alr have gf which boosts ur social proof to other girls so they will react positively to u. Just have female frnds and make her insecure aswell if she leaves get with the other girl .
ty bro
 
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yeah i have the same issue, its why i can never be in a relationship. im too insecure, possessive and get easily jealous 😢
 
ong its horrible
Its hell on earth even anything I do, or did even in school is just gut wrenching, taking a deep breath before going into a lesson.
 
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There's no point of girls having guy friends like that tbh. I've talked to girls back in school but never to the point of playing video games together and shit
 
And don't ever show her ur insecure just act like u don't like her talking with other guys but don't mention it often and show her u have got options and are also capable of getting back at her with a better girl if she cheats on u

There are two kinds of men in this world bro bvlls and cucks it's upto u what u wanna be
 
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noted, i just got to work on not seeing every boy and girl friendship as a flirty fling and get some friends that are girls
 
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