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One of the easiest ways to impress girls that I've found is a way through music. This therefore requires you to be musically literate, but if you have Youtube, average IQ and a few hours of time, this could be an easy way to 'woo' them or make them think you're a cool, artistic vulnerable young man in touch with their creative side. This is done by writing a song or piece of music.
Also I just wanted to write a guide lmao
If asked about your hobbies, as any conversation would eventually cover, say you are interested in music / have been in the past. I like to go with in the past. If she asks you what you're doing one day, say you're fiddling around on some music composition website & just playing around. This will usually get her interested as I said before - artistic and creative. What's not to like.
For example:
Now, where do we start?
Download MuseScore and figure out how it all works. I prefer MuseScore not only because it is free, but the instrument sounds that they have are very good. Play around with things a bit. If you can't read music, this will be quite difficult but not impossible if you can hear. Again, this may be a complete waste of your time if you have to learn from the ground up.
Watch some Youtube videos on music theory and composing.
These will all set you up pretty well, and do some more research if you wish.
Writing the music
The hardest part is getting started. BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE, I like to pick a key signature. This is the key of the piece, meaning the tonal center a piece is built around. This means what your root note is. If i pick E major, my root note is E, and this means that there will be 4 sharp notes in the key - F,C,G and D sharp. If there is one of these notes that is not sharp, it will be dissonant and not fit in the key. I would recommend you go for C major. No sharps and no flats. Nice and simple.
Then, pick a chord progression. explained here:
Doesn't really matter, find something simple that works and you can understand. Search up a list of 4 chord progressions (4 steps, like I–V–vi–IV) for you to choose from even, and go from there. If you are in C major, and wish to use a I–V–vi–IV chord progression, look at the notes in the C major scale. CDEFGAB, in that order. We want the first, then fifth, then sixth, then fourth notes Therefore, our progression will be C, G, A and F.
Remembering back to the videos, the 6th or VI chord in a major chord sequence will always be minor, therefore finally, we end up with C major, G major, A minor and then F major.
This means, to make things simple, bar 1 will be in Cmaj, Bar 2 in Gmaj, Bar 3 in Amin and then Bar 4 in Fmaj. Then repeat.
You must compose within that key signature entirely, for the duration of that bar. Search up each key's scale, for example G major is GABCDEF#. That means you will only use those notes for bar 2, throughout each instrument.
Writing the melody
When constructing your melody, make sure that, if using a 4/4 time signature, the strong beats - 1 and 3 are notes from the chord. "But Qrdd", I hear you say, "Aren't they already from the chord if we have to stick to it the whole time?". No my dear child. That is the Scale. Continuing with our G major example, our Scale contains the notes GABCDEF#. However, we want the chord - Notes 1,3, and 5. This means that on the 1st and 3rd beats of the bar in bar 2, there should be either a G, a B, or a D, notes 1, 3, and 5 respectively. I would start with these and then go from there, and write the melody
Modulation
Now this is where things get hard. After writing your melody for one section, probably around 32 bars of our happy C major Section A, you might want to make the music sad and take a new turn if the girl's story does as well. This is where you will Modulate to a sad, minor key, for section B. Find out how to do so here:
We want to go to the relative minor of C, so that things make sense musically. You can search up what this is on google - in our case, A minor. Use the video to figure out how to go from C major to A minor, done in the last bit of Section A, not in between Section A and Section B.
After that, we will now do everything we did before, but with A minor. Find the scale, pick a chord progression, find out what chords those are, the scales of each chord , and then write the melody for that section. Rinse and repeat.
Again, remember what emotions you are trying to convey here.
Repeat this for a bit, and Voi La! You have a melody. You can switch between instruments when you want if you so wish, with what I said earlier of different woodland animals. A flute for a bird, an oboe for a duck, french horns for a wolf. You can use chat gpt for this part if you wish. You can switch which instrument carries the melody for each bit, or even create a harmony and have 2 at the same time. Again, just think of a tune in your head and go from there.
The rest of the music
What now? Well, fill in the rest of the instruments of course. Try and use instruments like violins or the piano in block chords, remembering to stick to the key, in order to support and carry the music other than the melody. I would recommend searching up example instrument parts for this, like example piano ACCOMPANIMENT parts, example violin accompaniment parts, etc. Use youtube if you are struggling.
Experiment a bit and have fun. Your piece could be from 64-128 bars, depending on the length of the story, and if you decide to make sections 16 or 32 bars long.
Again, this is a niche guide. This will not be for everyone. This is by no means necessary at all in any way shape or form and is so insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Nobody writes pieces of music for people, and they all do just fine. But, it might be a nice thing to do.
Who knows, I just enjoy writing guides.
Lmk if you guys want an example.
Also I just wanted to write a guide lmao
Disclaimers
THIS IS A NICHE GUIDE. NOT MANY PEOPLE WILL FIND USE IN IT.
This may not come as easily to everyone. I was lucky enough to always have been fairly musically gifted. This guide is mainly for those who have had some experience either playing musical instruments or possibly taken music at school.
This is feasible if you have basic musical intuition / can easily understand concepts and ideas and have decent pattern recognition. It may not be worth learning otherwise. It is much easier said than done.
This guide is for those capable that may just not realise it, as it is a cool skill to have. This is probably more appropriate for those seeking long term relationships looking for ways to impress a girl, due to the investment required.
The Setup
The thing is, it has to feel personal. Corny, but it works - on the right person - IF YOU DO IT CORRECTLY. Messaging a random girl you like saying you made a song for her will probably just make you look like a creepy obsessed weirdo - you want to make it look like this comes easily to you. Again another prerequisite, you have to be talking to a girl in the first place. Sorry not sorry, just how it is.THIS IS A NICHE GUIDE. NOT MANY PEOPLE WILL FIND USE IN IT.
This may not come as easily to everyone. I was lucky enough to always have been fairly musically gifted. This guide is mainly for those who have had some experience either playing musical instruments or possibly taken music at school.
This is feasible if you have basic musical intuition / can easily understand concepts and ideas and have decent pattern recognition. It may not be worth learning otherwise. It is much easier said than done.
This guide is for those capable that may just not realise it, as it is a cool skill to have. This is probably more appropriate for those seeking long term relationships looking for ways to impress a girl, due to the investment required.
The Setup
If asked about your hobbies, as any conversation would eventually cover, say you are interested in music / have been in the past. I like to go with in the past. If she asks you what you're doing one day, say you're fiddling around on some music composition website & just playing around. This will usually get her interested as I said before - artistic and creative. What's not to like.
The Method
Tell her you are experimenting with stuff and trying to see how much you can remember how to do, and that you're trying to compose a piece of music. What I do is ask them for a story to compose to. This is the only difficult part. For example, a girl once asked me to compose a song based on a story of an animal going through a forest or something, with various events occurring throughout. Something like a baby bird gets separated from its mother, bla bla bla, finds another forest friend and happy ever after. Some stupid bs like that which a girl should have no trouble making up. The idea is that you use basic musical ideas to create the story you are trying to portray. Say "I'll see what I can do", so no harm if you can't manage. Maybe you "just can't remember as much as you used to".For example:
- Using minor or major keys when going through a sad / happy part of the story
- Using specific instruments for specific things, like a flute or a light & airy instrument to represent a bird.
- Using tempo to control the energy of the music. Relaxed or Energetic.
Now, where do we start?
Download MuseScore and figure out how it all works. I prefer MuseScore not only because it is free, but the instrument sounds that they have are very good. Play around with things a bit. If you can't read music, this will be quite difficult but not impossible if you can hear. Again, this may be a complete waste of your time if you have to learn from the ground up.
Watch some Youtube videos on music theory and composing.
These will all set you up pretty well, and do some more research if you wish.
Writing the music
The hardest part is getting started. BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE, I like to pick a key signature. This is the key of the piece, meaning the tonal center a piece is built around. This means what your root note is. If i pick E major, my root note is E, and this means that there will be 4 sharp notes in the key - F,C,G and D sharp. If there is one of these notes that is not sharp, it will be dissonant and not fit in the key. I would recommend you go for C major. No sharps and no flats. Nice and simple.
Then, pick a chord progression. explained here:
Doesn't really matter, find something simple that works and you can understand. Search up a list of 4 chord progressions (4 steps, like I–V–vi–IV) for you to choose from even, and go from there. If you are in C major, and wish to use a I–V–vi–IV chord progression, look at the notes in the C major scale. CDEFGAB, in that order. We want the first, then fifth, then sixth, then fourth notes Therefore, our progression will be C, G, A and F.
Remembering back to the videos, the 6th or VI chord in a major chord sequence will always be minor, therefore finally, we end up with C major, G major, A minor and then F major.
This means, to make things simple, bar 1 will be in Cmaj, Bar 2 in Gmaj, Bar 3 in Amin and then Bar 4 in Fmaj. Then repeat.
You must compose within that key signature entirely, for the duration of that bar. Search up each key's scale, for example G major is GABCDEF#. That means you will only use those notes for bar 2, throughout each instrument.
Writing the melody
When constructing your melody, make sure that, if using a 4/4 time signature, the strong beats - 1 and 3 are notes from the chord. "But Qrdd", I hear you say, "Aren't they already from the chord if we have to stick to it the whole time?". No my dear child. That is the Scale. Continuing with our G major example, our Scale contains the notes GABCDEF#. However, we want the chord - Notes 1,3, and 5. This means that on the 1st and 3rd beats of the bar in bar 2, there should be either a G, a B, or a D, notes 1, 3, and 5 respectively. I would start with these and then go from there, and write the melody
Modulation
Now this is where things get hard. After writing your melody for one section, probably around 32 bars of our happy C major Section A, you might want to make the music sad and take a new turn if the girl's story does as well. This is where you will Modulate to a sad, minor key, for section B. Find out how to do so here:
We want to go to the relative minor of C, so that things make sense musically. You can search up what this is on google - in our case, A minor. Use the video to figure out how to go from C major to A minor, done in the last bit of Section A, not in between Section A and Section B.
After that, we will now do everything we did before, but with A minor. Find the scale, pick a chord progression, find out what chords those are, the scales of each chord , and then write the melody for that section. Rinse and repeat.
Again, remember what emotions you are trying to convey here.
Repeat this for a bit, and Voi La! You have a melody. You can switch between instruments when you want if you so wish, with what I said earlier of different woodland animals. A flute for a bird, an oboe for a duck, french horns for a wolf. You can use chat gpt for this part if you wish. You can switch which instrument carries the melody for each bit, or even create a harmony and have 2 at the same time. Again, just think of a tune in your head and go from there.
The rest of the music
What now? Well, fill in the rest of the instruments of course. Try and use instruments like violins or the piano in block chords, remembering to stick to the key, in order to support and carry the music other than the melody. I would recommend searching up example instrument parts for this, like example piano ACCOMPANIMENT parts, example violin accompaniment parts, etc. Use youtube if you are struggling.
Experiment a bit and have fun. Your piece could be from 64-128 bars, depending on the length of the story, and if you decide to make sections 16 or 32 bars long.
Again, this is a niche guide. This will not be for everyone. This is by no means necessary at all in any way shape or form and is so insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Nobody writes pieces of music for people, and they all do just fine. But, it might be a nice thing to do.
Who knows, I just enjoy writing guides.
Lmk if you guys want an example.
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