Warm approach is legit?!

[Richard_Hungwell]

I won't go into details too much...but I've gotten into a new social circle of females introduced through a female relative of mine and they have sort of changed my view on women. They've gotten to know me a bit and have shown me that women can be very kind, caring and friendly (and even a bit flirty) towards guys that they've gotten to know. I was a bit shocked at first to be honest because it's been such a huge contrast to how the vast majority of women on the street have treated me.

I believe there is some truth to the whole "warm approach" thing.

Cold approach is really fucking tough. For the past few years before getting into this new social circle, my interactions were pretty much solely limited to women in public that didn't know me...and I developed this view that women are very cold and I must be absolutely fucking repulsive to them (with a few exceptions, some stranger women were still kind towards me, but it was relatively rare).

If nothing else, it's just so nice to not be treated like a fucking creep for a change (as I am treated by like 80% of women in public... Like, I get that they don't know me and are probably just being cautious...but damn...the borderline hostility from some of them is really uncalled for IMO...).

I guess this is mainly a message to the guys out there that have absolutely no social circle and think all women hate them because they're only cold approaching women in public who don't know them (and the guys haven't been socially vetted by other females beforehand/pre-selected):

Don't always take their cold treatment personally...they might genuinely like you if they got to know you.

 

[BoredPrince]

It's true that having social circle is underated (especially on .org)

But the problem is finding and getting into one, especially one with women

 

[Deleted member 33826]

I won't go into details too much...but I've gotten into a new social circle of females introduced through a female relative of mine and they have sort of changed my view on women. They've gotten to know me a bit and have shown me that women can be very kind, caring and friendly (and even a bit flirty) towards guys that they've gotten to know. I was a bit shocked at first to be honest because it's been such a huge contrast to how the vast majority of women on the street have treated me.

I believe there is some truth to the whole "warm approach" thing.

Cold approach is really fucking tough. For the past few years before getting into this new social circle, my interactions were pretty much solely limited to women in public that didn't know me...and I developed this view that women are very cold and I must be absolutely fucking repulsive to them (with a few exceptions, some stranger women were still kind towards me, but it was relatively rare).

If nothing else, it's just so nice to not be treated like a fucking creep for a change (as I am treated by like 80% of women in public... Like, I get that they don't know me and are probably just being cautious...but damn...the borderline hostility from some of them is really uncalled for IMO...).

I guess this is mainly a message to the guys out there that have absolutely no social circle and think all women hate them because they're only cold approaching women in public who don't know them (and the guys haven't been socially vetted by other females beforehand/pre-selected):

Don't always take their cold treatment personally...they might genuinely like you if they got to know you.

100%. Ive been to several parties and gatherings as well with the same females and some new ones from a social circle im a part of, and the girls actually are kind and initating in convos. However i havent noticed any strong interest signs yet but if my circle keeps expanding then i will probably meet some that will make it obvious for me and that way i can ask them on dates if im sure they have an interest for me

 

[Richard_Hungwell]

It's true that having social circle is underated (especially on .org)

But the problem is finding and getting into one, especially one with women

Yeah, it's not easy, but if you can somehow luck out and get into one...it is like a completely different world.

 

[Zenis]

I won't go into details too much...but I've gotten into a new social circle of females introduced through a female relative of mine and they have sort of changed my view on women. They've gotten to know me a bit and have shown me that women can be very kind, caring and friendly (and even a bit flirty) towards guys that they've gotten to know. I was a bit shocked at first to be honest because it's been such a huge contrast to how the vast majority of women on the street have treated me.

I believe there is some truth to the whole "warm approach" thing.

Cold approach is really fucking tough. For the past few years before getting into this new social circle, my interactions were pretty much solely limited to women in public that didn't know me...and I developed this view that women are very cold and I must be absolutely fucking repulsive to them (with a few exceptions, some stranger women were still kind towards me, but it was relatively rare).

If nothing else, it's just so nice to not be treated like a fucking creep for a change (as I am treated by like 80% of women in public... Like, I get that they don't know me and are probably just being cautious...but damn...the borderline hostility from some of them is really uncalled for IMO...).

I guess this is mainly a message to the guys out there that have absolutely no social circle and think all women hate them because they're only cold approaching women in public who don't know them (and the guys haven't been socially vetted by other females beforehand/pre-selected):

Don't always take their cold treatment personally...they might genuinely like you if they got to know you.

This is basicelly impossible if your non nt

 

[vermillioncorefan]

hopefully i die soon

 

[nobodyspecial369]

Don't always take their cold treatment personally...they might genuinely like you if they got to know you.

this. it’s nothing personal. good post OP

 

[traveler]

warm and cold is legit

 

[Deleted member 27152]

It's true that having social circle is underated (especially on .org)

But the problem is finding and getting into one, especially one with women

 

[Deleted member 45338]

yeah man if you are a genuine good looking gentleman girls will want you. all girls do is talk talk talk so the second one perceives you as a cool dude the whole group will want/respect u. also being friends with girls is a power move cuz they will introduce you to more chicks (socialcirlcemaxxing), (does not work if you are lower than htn)