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I basically gave one of my friends an ultimatum, either me or Y (his fake name for .org), because I dropped Y as a friend, he was extremely toxic and bitched me infront of others, he also got cucked, he got cucked because some girl liked him and he liked her back but that same girl would always talk about “fine ass” anime characters.

Anyways I told him that I want him to choose because if I let their friendship be as is, he will try to incorporate us into hangouts and I’ll possible befriend Y again and I don’t want that for my future self, I’d rather have no friends than have toxic faggots around me.

I’m pretty sure he’ll drop Y cuz me and this guy are going to the same school but Y’s going to a diff school.

It’s not like I’m a faggot but I could write a massive fucking thread of the bullshit Y has done to me (maybe I will if one of you request it)
 
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I basically gave one of my friends an ultimatum, either me or Y (his fake name for .org), because I dropped Y as a friend, he was extremely toxic and bitched me infront of others, he also got cucked, he got cucked because some girl liked him and he liked her back but that same girl would always talk about “fine ass” anime characters.

Anyways I told him that I want him to choose because if I let their friendship be as is, he will try to incorporate us into hangouts and I’ll possible befriend Y again and I don’t want that for my future self, I’d rather have no friends than have toxic faggots around me.

I’m pretty sure he’ll drop Y cuz me and this guy are going to the same school but Y’s going to a diff school.

It’s not like I’m a faggot but I could write a massive fucking thread of the bullshit Y has done to me (maybe I will if one of you request it)
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I basically gave one of my friends an ultimatum, either me or Y (his fake name for .org), because I dropped Y as a friend, he was extremely toxic and bitched me infront of others, he also got cucked, he got cucked because some girl liked him and he liked her back but that same girl would always talk about “fine ass” anime characters.

Anyways I told him that I want him to choose because if I let their friendship be as is, he will try to incorporate us into hangouts and I’ll possible befriend Y again and I don’t want that for my future self, I’d rather have no friends than have toxic faggots around me.

I’m pretty sure he’ll drop Y cuz me and this guy are going to the same school but Y’s going to a diff school.

It’s not like I’m a faggot but I could write a massive fucking thread of the bullshit Y has done to me (maybe I will if one of you request it)
Y sounds like a bitch
 
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Y sounds like a bitch
He is bruh, this nigga is such a fucking faggot. He’s a hypocrite too and acts like he’s some nice guy
 
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Bro, read this from an unbiased perspective. You sound like a female. Don’t make him choose. He will choose you if I had to guess. I would read if you wrote a thread explaining.
 
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I basically gave one of my friends an ultimatum, either me or Y (his fake name for .org), because I dropped Y as a friend, he was extremely toxic and bitched me infront of others, he also got cucked, he got cucked because some girl liked him and he liked her back but that same girl would always talk about “fine ass” anime characters.

Anyways I told him that I want him to choose because if I let their friendship be as is, he will try to incorporate us into hangouts and I’ll possible befriend Y again and I don’t want that for my future self, I’d rather have no friends than have toxic faggots around me.

I’m pretty sure he’ll drop Y cuz me and this guy are going to the same school but Y’s going to a diff school.

It’s not like I’m a faggot but I could write a massive fucking thread of the bullshit Y has done to me (maybe I will if one of you request it)
@Stalker i was starting to like you man, fuck you
 
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He is bruh, this nigga is such a fucking faggot. He’s a hypocrite too and acts like he’s some nice guy
I distance myself from people the moment they start acting weird, maybe you should try to do the same:unsure:

Also dont give your friend an ultimatum, just leave if he decides to stay with that nigga you dropped expecting you to do the same with him
 
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Post this on Reddit
 
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Bro, read this from an unbiased perspective. You sound like a female. Don’t make him choose. He will choose you if I had to guess. I would read if you wrote a thread explaining.
Well essentially, there was another friend “J” who didn’t like me, and him and Y were friends, so Y would basically lie about J saying I can’t come to hangouts, and since I had the idea that J would exclude me, I organized some massive hangout and excluded him, but then J claimed Y was lying about him saying no to excluding me, so essentially Y lied to me and caused unnecessary fuckshit between me and J, I then got mad at Y and told him I’ll drop him, then he begged me, and after the hangout this nigga distanced from me?!

I know I sound crazy but I’ve gotten bitched way too many times
 
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Y sounds like those performative males who gives their homies a noogie whenever there’s a female present
 
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Y sounds like those performative males who gives their homies a noogie whenever there’s a female present
He did make fun of me a lot in front of girls, especially online in class group chats.
 
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Well essentially, there was another friend “J” who didn’t like me, and him and Y were friends, so Y would basically lie about J saying I can’t come to hangouts, and since I had the idea that J would exclude me, I organized some massive hangout and excluded him, but then J claimed Y was lying about him saying no to excluding me, so essentially Y lied to me and caused unnecessary fuckshit between me and J, I then got mad at Y and told him I’ll drop him, then he begged me, and after the hangout this nigga distanced from me?!

I know I sound crazy but I’ve gotten bitched way too many times
Oh shit sounds pretty crazy fuck Y and J haha I don’t know what to say I haven’t been in a situation like this in forever.
 
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i don’t get people who think abt friendships and drama this much just be friends with everyone
 
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He did make fun of me a lot in front of girls, especially online in class group chats.
very cringe, even if he’s not doing it with ill or malicious intent (some dudes naturally just switch up hella hard with women without even thinking about it), you should press him about it or just ego him when tries to be all buddy-buddy with you
 
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Oh shit sounds pretty crazy fuck Y and J haha I don’t know what to say I haven’t been in a situation like this in forever.
Yeah lmao, it’s a bit feminine to give friendship ultimatums but I really don’t want to have to do the same exact thing all over again. Too much stress
 
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i don’t get people who think abt friendships and drama this much just be friends with everyone
If only if it was that easy where I live, and being friends with everyone won’t get you anywhere. Think about it
 
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very cringe, even if he’s not doing it with ill or malicious intent (some dudes naturally just switch up hella hard with women without even thinking about it), you should press him about it or just ego him when tries to be all buddy-buddy with you
I dropped him as a friend, but bro I would tell him to stop making fun of me, he’d stop for a bit, then repeat it
 
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If only if it was that easy where I live, and being friends with everyone won’t get you anywhere. Think about it
True, but dont worry abt this shit that much lmao u even made a thread. Who gives a fuck really it’s just you at the end of the day
 
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I dropped him as a friend, but bro I would tell him to stop making fun of me, he’d stop for a bit, then repeat it
yeah that’s just his personality man, can’t really change it unless the mf has a crazy revelation about how braindead he’s been acting
 
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do a thread saying what he did
 
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True, but dont worry abt this shit that much lmao u even made a thread. Who gives a fuck really it’s just you at the end of the day
Well the friend who I gave the ultimatum to, is gonna be in a bus ride with me about every single day, and the bus ride is an hour long, maybe a bit longer. So I can’t risk anything
 
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Well the friend who I gave the ultimatum to, is gonna be in a bus ride with me about every single day, and the bus ride is an hour long, maybe a bit longer. So I can’t risk anything
He can be friends with him if he wants tho why is that of ur concern (if i read it right)

Sounds like foid behavior
 
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I dropped him as a friend, but bro I would tell him to stop making fun of me, he’d stop for a bit, then repeat it
if he makes fun of you all the time he's not really your friend. drop him
 
He can be friends with him if he wants tho why is that of ur concern (if i read it right)

Sounds like foid behavior
Good question, essentially when I unfriended that same kid before, the same guy I gave the ultimatum to, would basically beg me to be his friend again. And a thing about me is I’m a high inhib guy so if people pressure me to do something I won’t say no, it’s also been the reason people use me for my money, just because I’m bad at saying no.

So I fear if I don’t care about them being friends, he’ll try to get me to be his friend again, and the cycle of humiliation repeats.
 
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He can be friends with him if he wants tho why is that of ur concern (if i read it right)

Sounds like foid behavior
Another reason:
Well essentially, there was another friend “J” who didn’t like me, and him and Y were friends, so Y would basically lie about J saying I can’t come to hangouts, and since I had the idea that J would exclude me, I organized some massive hangout and excluded him, but then J claimed Y was lying about him saying no to excluding me, so essentially Y lied to me and caused unnecessary fuckshit between me and J, I then got mad at Y and told him I’ll drop him, then he begged me, and after the hangout this nigga distanced from me?!

I know I sound crazy but I’ve gotten bitched way too many times
 
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I basically gave one of my friends an ultimatum, either me or Y (his fake name for .org), because I dropped Y as a friend, he was extremely toxic and bitched me infront of others, he also got cucked, he got cucked because some girl liked him and he liked her back but that same girl would always talk about “fine ass” anime characters.

Anyways I told him that I want him to choose because if I let their friendship be as is, he will try to incorporate us into hangouts and I’ll possible befriend Y again and I don’t want that for my future self, I’d rather have no friends than have toxic faggots around me.

I’m pretty sure he’ll drop Y cuz me and this guy are going to the same school but Y’s going to a diff school.

It’s not like I’m a faggot but I could write a massive fucking thread of the bullshit Y has done to me (maybe I will if one of you request it)
this made me feel so low iq, i cant grasp y as people bro this made no sense to me
 
this made me feel so low iq, i cant grasp y as people bro this made no sense to me
It doesn’t make sense to me either, his opinions are always fluctuating. He seems like a good person but he’s really something else
 
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Good question, essentially when I unfriended that same kid before, the same guy I gave the ultimatum to, would basically beg me to be his friend again. And a thing about me is I’m a high inhib guy so if people pressure me to do something I won’t say no, it’s also been the reason people use me for my money, just because I’m bad at saying no.

So I fear if I don’t care about them being friends, he’ll try to get me to be his friend again, and the cycle of humiliation repeats.
I stand correxted nigga ur right
 
It doesn’t make sense to me either, his opinions are always fluctuating. He seems like a good person but he’s really something else
you should surround yourself with people you want to be like. cuz u start to imitate people you're around with
 
I mean making your friend choose is a bit dumb but I see your point looking out yourself should always be your #1 priority and Y seems like a clown show
 
I mean making your friend choose is a bit dumb but I see your point looking out yourself should always be your #1 priority and Y seems like a clown show
It’s a bit dumb rn but if you go see my reasoning, I feel like you’ll understand.

Reasoning:
Good question, essentially when I unfriended that same kid before, the same guy I gave the ultimatum to, would basically beg me to be his friend again. And a thing about me is I’m a high inhib guy so if people pressure me to do something I won’t say no, it’s also been the reason people use me for my money, just because I’m bad at saying no.

So I fear if I don’t care about them being friends, he’ll try to get me to be his friend again, and the cycle of humiliation repeats.
Well essentially, there was another friend “J” who didn’t like me, and him and Y were friends, so Y would basically lie about J saying I can’t come to hangouts, and since I had the idea that J would exclude me, I organized some massive hangout and excluded him, but then J claimed Y was lying about him saying no to excluding me, so essentially Y lied to me and caused unnecessary fuckshit between me and J, I then got mad at Y and told him I’ll drop him, then he begged me, and after the hangout this nigga distanced from me?!

I know I sound crazy but I’ve gotten bitched way too many times
 
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It’s a bit dumb rn but if you go see my reasoning, I feel like you’ll understand.

Reasoning:
I feel like no matter what anyways your friend will still be friends with Y and just not tell you tbh
 
I feel like no matter what anyways your friend will still be friends with Y and just not tell you tbh
I have the same hunch, if I catch him I might isolate myself from everybody.
 
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