Was this Chad-like or cucked?

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Chad would have still went for the close, Chad would have also smoked the weed

Chad woulda said “oh no big deal, we can just chill.” And then spent the whole time escalating and only left if he got a hard no mid escalation. Not because he’s upset but because he has better shit to do. You chill, go for the close a few times and when the night is looking like it’s going to be unfruitful, you say your goodbyes with no ill will. Just be like “oh it’s getting late and you do have to go to bed, this was fun, I’ll ttyl.”

You gotta atleast go for it man. After all, she invited you to her apartment from a dating app.

I’ve had girls give me hard no’s after inviting them over to my place and I didn’t kick them out, I just acted chill and displayed value. Next thing I know these girls are hitting me up the next day asking to see me.

If you are higher value than her she will realize the mistake she made by not letting you smash and quickly seek to reverse it.

There were two possibilities if you stayed:

1. You hang with her, mog the shit out of her with your social skills and displays of value and she decides she actually does want to fuck.

2. You do what I said above, she doesn’t want to fuck that night but then realizes you’re actually a cool guy and that she’s being silly and hits you up later to fuck.

By doing what you did, you closed off both of those options and ruined your chances of fucking at all.

It was aspie and emotional. You gotta be cooler than that.

Chad already gets mad pussy, he isn’t worried about smashing a girl right then and there. Chad stays and has a good time cause fuck it why not. He smokes the weed and sees if he can make a new friend because he’s not in a rush to fuck every girl he sees. He knows he has pussy waiting for him so he just enjoys the moment.
 
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It’s self-respect, something which a lot of men today lack. A Chad has self-respect and won’t take shit from girls. But I think escalation could have been better if you agreed to some weed
 
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1. You hang with her, mog the shit out of her with your social skills and displays of value and she decides she actually does want to fuck.

2. You do what I said above, she doesn’t want to fuck that night but then realizes you’re actually a cool guy and that she’s being silly and hits you up later to fuck.
Or option 3: I waste an hour of my life trying to escalate with a woman who doesn’t want me in her apartment, she blocks me when I leave and I’m annoyed again. I’m very good at observing body language and tonality. She wasn’t interested in fucking so I had to cut her loose
 
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Or option 3: I waste an hour of my life trying to escalate with a woman who doesn’t want me in her apartment, she blocks me when I leave and I’m annoyed again. I’m very good at observing body language and tonality. She wasn’t interested in fucking so I had to cut her loose
that’s my point. It’s not wasting an hour of your life if you are setting it up for another day.

You basically ensured she will never want to fuck you, while if you had stayed she may have wanted to fuck you at a later date.

Usually if I’m going to see a girl I don’t have shit to do anyway so I wouldn’t view it as a waste of time.

She matched with you and invited you over after all so she must have been attracted on some level. All you gotta do is mog her to oblivion while you hang out and she’d probably hit your line within the week.

I’m only saying this because I’ve been in similar situations.

But at the end of the day I wasn’t there
 
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CHADLITE IN DISGUISE!
 
kinda dumb as you wasted it but I know I'd do the same, it's my problem I can't take shit like that and instantly get irritated and leave. I have zero patience to stuff like this and I have no idea what to do about it, I don't think normal people react like that lmao
 
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based fuck that hoe

but you should’ve escalated physically rather than bringing up kissing

girls will always bring up some bull shit so they don’t come across slutty
 
Neither
 
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based fuck that hoe

but you should’ve escalated physically rather than bringing up kissing

girls will always bring up some bull shit so they don’t come across slutty
Hasn’t been my experience. It has always either been incredibly easy or impossible. I’m very good at reading body language and vibe
 
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idk what chad like would be but i can say it would way more admirable if you could reverse a situation like that than to just ran and get angry
 
MEGA CHAD MOVE OP

got my shit wet as well
 

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