Water: having access to group of peers is a must for mental health

[Luquier]

You don’t want to be stuck hanging out with ‘friends’ who can’t relate with you. Terrible for mental health, you’ll always be that weird outsider who just doesn’t belong.

Incels should hang out with incels, ethnics should hang out with ethnics, autists/weirdos should hang out with autists/weirdos

 

[maximuslaid]

you’ll always be that weird outsider who just doesn’t belong.

Thats how i feel my whole life

 

[Luquier]

Thats how i feel my whole life

Tbh even if you hang out with loser peers, you will still be seen as the low status group. But at least you gain a stable social circle that accepts you.

 

[maximuslaid]

Tbh even if you hang out with loser peers, you will still be seen as the low status group. But at least you gain a stable social circle that accepts you.

Id rather hang out by myself than hanging out w other losers

 

[Luquier]

Id rather hang out by myself than hanging out w other losers

Hanging out with losers is better

But even ‘losers’ have criteria for joining

So it’s over

 

[maximuslaid]

Hanging out with losers is better

The stuffs that they talk ab and are interested in are always the corniest shit that ive ever heard

Even when hanging out w them i still feel like i dont belong in that group

 

[Luquier]

The stuffs that they talk ab and are interested in are always the corniest shit that ive ever heard

Even when hanging out w them i still feel like i dont belong in that group

You need a level of accompanying social value to talk about interesting topics. Nobody irl wants to hear takes from some social outcast

 

[Luquier]

The stuffs that they talk ab and are interested in are always the corniest shit that ive ever heard

Even when hanging out w them i still feel like i dont belong in that group

Adding to this your presence probably makes the vibe awkward and corny in a way. They have to accommodate you with boring topics. Also you’re demanding that an entire social group alter themselves to cater to and entertain you

 

[maximuslaid]

Adding to this your presence probably makes the vibe awkward and corny in a way. They have to accommodate you with boring topics. Also you’re demanding that an entire social group bends itself to accommodate and entertain you

Yea thats why i think its better to hang out alone

 

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Water

 

[Luquier]

Yea thats why i think its better to hang out alone

Agreed, it’s fucking impossible to socialise as a non NT. I am basically social anathema

 

[Luquier]

Yea thats why i think its better to hang out alone

Because you’re probably still in middle school, I’d suggest trying to contribute value to/invest in social circles ASAP. Social isolation breeds laziness

 

[chitarine]

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[chitarine]

Thats how i feel my whole life

Id rather hang out by myself than hanging out w other normies

Yea thats why i think its better to hang out alone

In reality, my life ended for me because I have had ND since the moment I was born.

Throughout all my school years and when interacting with peers my age, I never even had a single close friend.

The first thing I think of when someone looks at me is "It’s over", not an opportunity to talk or communicate, because I’m afraid they will notice my ND status and isolate me due to not fitting in society's standards.

But that’s fine, because I’d rather be alone than have contact with low-vibrational normies.

 

[maximuslaid]

In reality, my life ended for me because I have had ND since the moment I was born.

Throughout all my school years and when interacting with peers my age, I never even had a single close friend.

The first thing I think of when someone looks at me is "It’s over", not an opportunity to talk or communicate, because I’m afraid they will notice my ND status and isolate me due to not fitting in society's standards.


But that’s fine, because I’d rather be alone than have contact with low-vibrational normies.

Sounds depressing

 

[MOSSADGLOWIE]

You don’t want to be stuck hanging out with ‘friends’ who can’t relate with you. Terrible for mental health, you’ll always be that weird outsider who just doesn’t belong.

Incels should hang out with incels, ethnics should hang out with ethnics, autists/weirdos should hang out with autists/weirdos

i've been waiting for peers my whole life yet none are showing up. Fuck this disgusting country i live in all the outcasts are isolating themselves
And I'm unfortunately not high iq enough to be able to be content with myself alone

 

[chitarine]

Sounds depressing

I’ve been left out because of my autism, so I just accept it, and that’s okay.