Blackpill we literally have to be simps to succeed in dating as sub-chads in 2024

[Jonnyboi]

muh just play cool and wait for them to come to you

muh just looksmax from subhuman to chad so you get 100s of matches

for average and below guys

we get barely any matches on dating apps

and even if we do get matches, those girls literally get 9999+ in a few days

we are literally worthless to them

and they are like diamond to us

there is an utterly disgustingly brutal power dynamic right there

and we're on the victim end of it

we can't expect a girl to make convo with us, do nice things for us etc

cos we're utterly worthess

realistically

we have to make all the convo, lead everything, simp

and she can just treat us like shit if she wants to cos we're immediately replaceable

literally the only options are- become irreplacable - via extreme softmaxxing, hardmaxxing, geomaxxing

or make all the convo, do nice things for, simp for every girl and expect most of them to treat you like worthless shit but numbersgamemaxx until you find the 1 which accepts you

 

[Rhino LeFort]

numbersgamemaxx until you find the 1 which accepts you

Unfortunate truth

 

[Deleted member 84469]

This is the case with anything you want in life though. If you're saying this is unfair you're essentially saying you want shit just handed to you. Why would an attractive woman just hand herself over to you?

 

[Jonnyboi]

This is the case with anything you want in life though. If you're saying this is unfair you're essentially saying you want shit just handed to you. Why would an attractive woman just hand herself over to you?

you should be able to get your smv match without simping and making all the convo and without getting mass rejected.

because youre meant to be equal smv

but that isnt possible in today's dating app dating market

 

[STAMPEDE]

Yeah that’s the brutal truth, a woman who’s even uglier than you has more smv and options than you because of simps

 

[pfl]

How can it be such a brutal smv difference if their is a foid for every man?

 

[Jonnyboi]

How can it be such a brutal smv difference if their is a foid for every man?

im not entirely sure but i think its something to do with theres way way more men on dating apps than women

and men of all ages competing for the 18-30yo girls

so its like 1 girl per 10 guys. all rich, all tall, good looking(in the west anyways)

 

[pfl]

im not entirely sure but i think its something to do with theres way way more men on dating apps than women

and men of all ages competing for the 18-30yo girls

so its like 1 girl per 10 guys. all rich, all tall, good looking(in the west anyways)

Whats the reason its mainly men on dating apps

 

[Deleted member 77954]

Htn+ is what you need to be

 

[Jonnyboi]

Whats the reason its mainly men on dating apps

men more horny so more casual dating/hookups. women are less into that cos less horny supposedly

women might feel dating apps are unsafe etc

women may have faced more judgment for being perceived as "actively seeking" relationships or casual encounters

 

[Clown Show]

If you are subchad, then you need to hyper NTmaxx, socialmaxx, statusmaxx, and low inhib maxx. Trust me, only a small amount of men are able to consistently slay through their looks alone, unlike what this forum would make you believe.

 

[Jonnyboi]

If you are subchad, then you need to hyper NTmaxx, socialmaxx, statusmaxx, and low inhib maxx. Trust me, only a small amount of men are able to consistently slay through their looks alone, unlike what this forum would make you believe.

how to ntmaxx and statusmaxx?

 

[Clown Show]

how to ntmaxx and statusmaxx?

Constantly talk with people, attend events, organize some events yourself and call people over, chat on social media, put yourself in spotlight, fix some weird gestures amd behaviors, be low inhib, stop being autistic, etc.

Shit like that you know...

 

[Lovecraftscat]

How can it be such a brutal smv difference if their is a foid for every man?

How can there be such a wealth difference if there is enough food for everyone? The answer is simply that it is a distribution problem, not scarcity problem.

 

[Deleted member 84469]

you should be able to get your smv match without simping and making all the convo and without getting mass rejected.

because youre meant to be equal smv

but that isnt possible in today's dating app dating market

No it is. You either are overestimating your smv or something is lost in communication with them if you feel like this. How are your convos going with them? How soon do you ask them out? Any screenshots of this supposed simping?

 

[Jonnyboi]

No it is. You either are overestimating your smv or something is lost in communication with them if you feel like this. How are your convos going with them? How soon do you ask them out? Any screenshots of this supposed simping?

Bro its common knowledge at this point... there was even experiments where a guy used faceapp to turn himself into a girl and got 10000x more matches. Its not about looks. It's just about being a girl

 

[Deleted member 84469]

Bro its common knowledge at this point... there was even experiments where a guy used faceapp to turn himself into a girl and got 10000x more matches. Its not about looks. It's just about being a girl

So you made this thread to just commiserate with others, you have no need to change your situation. Got it.

Meanwhile the guys who struggled with this and overcame it didn't continue to wallow in muh doomerism

 

[Jonnyboi]

So you made this thread to just commiserate with others, you have no need to change your situation. Got it.

Meanwhile the guys who struggled with this and overcame it didn't continue to wallow in muh doomerism

I literally put 2 solutions at the end of the thread you argumentative pretentious prick

 

[Deleted member 85196]

and even if we do get matches, those girls literally get 9999+ in a few days

Almost like it's easier to approach someone irl

 

[Deleted member 84615]

you need to simp and potentially betabux to fuck a psl 2 girl in Greece even as HTN

 

[Deleted member 84469]

I literally put 2 solutions at the end of the thread you argumentative pretentious prick

No you sarcastically spelled out some doomer bullshit. Muh become irreplaceable holy shit man you overcomplicate basic human interactions based on your own struggles so you conclude the solutions must be life changingly drastic