We should really have a talk about this scam that "Men peak in their 40s", it's not helping the young fellas at all

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There is this insane idea that men peak in their 30s so they should hold it in their 20s and teens while working to get as high as possible in their peak while disregarding their current condition.

I'm sure it's unbelievable BS.

I'm 30+ myself and even though I'm better off economically than my 20s and teens, there is no chance in hell that a single factor among many could overtake all the others.

If the focus is just the ability to get women, it's even more obvious.
Yeah you are taken more seriously from women but it's the ones above late 20s and for reason beyong genuine attraction.

Young fresh attractive girls are not into older guys unless they passed the no longer fresh threeshold in their late 20s.
They dont want to rub them to you on the dance floor and see what happens, they want to "date" and get to know each other first with all the dancing around and entertainment.

Then the fact that if you need financial strength and status to get a woman, it's very likely she wants a long term arrangement to secure her lifestyle...that's not about attraction but calculation and settling and for sure it's not anything peak related.

Your peak is when as many factors as possible of yourself are in the top wheter it's mere aesthetics, looks, energy, strenght, status, finance and so on.

Guys at 30, if you spend the whole day doing stuff you dont have the energy to pull an all nighter running clubs and flirting...and even if you get the hottie at bed at 5am, you're very unlikely to nail her hard, you probably just do a quickie to get a return on your investment then collapse at bed.

Many would rather not dress at all and watch a movie on their sleepers at 10pm then go to bed before midnight.

Keeping that six pack (if you have it) it's way more expensive than 10 years before.

If women get jaded with age and experience, we get detached and aloof but for real not as a trick.

The best suggestions we should give guys is to improve their condition in terms of aesthetics, lifestyle and positioning for the future as much as possible but WITHIN A CERTAIN WINDOW.

Even with a long term view where you want to get a great girl and settle down, having a family and kids...you still need to get the best resources in the optimal timeframe and that's girls below mid 20s before they ruin themselves and turn into agenda mode to secure a lifestyle.

A clean starting point where you grow together in the long terms creates way better bases.

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It’s a funny cope that my blackpilled friend and I talk about. My friend is in his early 30s so I often say “Don’t worry, you still have 23 years before you reach your peak.” And then we both start caging at the delusions that men seem to have.
 
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Young fresh attractive girls are not into older guys unless they passed the no longer fresh threeshold in their late 20s.
The young fresh attractive girls in question (according to org. autists)

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just be born rich, talented, attractive and NT theory
yeah nigga, some of us will not get to experience youth anyways so forget that shit and work towards building a future that is not utter trash, it's still better than to ruminate on what you're missing and whatnot
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They've been watching too many James Bond 007 films. Your not Roger Moore from 1977 (age 49-50), Timothy Dalton from 1990 (44) or Pierce Brosnan from 1995 (42yo).

FFS, i'm 47 and know my peak was 22-36. Unfortuantely for me I didn't discover Blackpill stuff until I was 31, 32.
 
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