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A single environment change completely transformed my life.

This is your sign to switch schools if you are known as weird or awkward.

I was known as awkward and weird n highschool and tried for the longest
time to try to change what people thought of me, for a full year I tried looking
people in the eyes, going to parties, hanging out with popular kids and nothing
would work. I eventually gave up and realized I was always just going to be known
as the weird kid.

UNTIL

My mom has known my struggles with social anxiety and inhibition and brought up the idea
of me switching schools to try to ease the social anxiety, it was thought by me that since nobody
knew me it would be easier for them not to make any assumptions or know that I struggle with social
anxiety and try to potentially mask it and oh boy this was probably the best fucking idea ever.


SOME THINGS THAT HELPED MY SUCCESS
  1. Copying popular kids clothing style shirts, pants, backpack, water bottle, hoodies, down to every single last fucking detail I copied.
  2. Having a simple clean aesthetic, smelling good, clean shoes, messy but groomed hair
  3. Kindness, giving people pencils to who needed them, giving compliments to people
  4. Never looking down no matter what, chin up always or it gives you the vibe that you are a fucking weird freak

Week 1 was fucking brutal, I didn't fucking know anyone lmfao but I was going to make the best of it.
got a lot of stares but that is normal for being the new kid I just smiled at people, I knew I was already off
to a good start, I blended in perfectly but on a new level, the day was going so good little did I know it was just
going to get better, week 2 I got invited to sit at a table full of girls at lunch, they made me introduce myself and I
just made complete utter bullshit up to try to spark conversation, this led me to get invited to go hangout with them
the next fucking day:lul: week 2 was like some shit I have never experienced before, 2 girls asked me to walk them to class
same day and i have never talked to either of them before it was honestly just crazy treatment I was not used to
1st week I had like 7 girls follow me from my school I have never even talked to, all the girls were laughing at every joke I fucking
said shit was not even funny I was just saying bullshit. And it was somehow working, went from talking to absolutley nobody to
becoming a social king and a roster in 2 weeks



For refrence I am a 5'8 mmtn and this can honestly work for anyone.:feelswhy:
 
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A single environment change completely transformed my life.

This is your sign to switch schools if you are known as weird or awkward.

I was known as awkward and weird n highschool and tried for the longest
time to try to change what people thought of me, for a full year I tried looking
people in the eyes, going to parties, hanging out with popular kids and nothing
would work. I eventually gave up and realized I was always just going to be known
as the weird kid.

UNTIL

My mom has known my struggles with social anxiety and inhibition and brought up the idea
of me switching schools to try to ease the social anxiety, it was thought by me that since nobody
knew me it would be easier for them not to make any assumptions or know that I struggle with social
anxiety and try to potentially mask it and oh boy this was probably the best fucking idea ever.


SOME THINGS THAT HELPED MY SUCCESS
  1. Copying popular kids clothing style shirts, pants, backpack, water bottle, hoodies, down to every single last fucking detail I copied.
  2. Having a simple clean aesthetic, smelling good, clean shoes, messy but groomed hair
  3. Kindness, giving people pencils to who needed them, giving compliments to people
  4. Never looking down no matter what, chin up always or it gives you the vibe that you are a fucking weird freak

Week 1 was fucking brutal, I didn't fucking know anyone lmfao but I was going to make the best of it.
got a lot of stares but that is normal for being the new kid I just smiled at people, I knew I was already off
to a good start, I blended in perfectly but on a new level, the day was going so good little did I know it was just
going to get better, week 2 I got invited to sit at a table full of girls at lunch, they made me introduce myself and I
just made complete utter bullshit up to try to spark conversation, this led me to get invited to go hangout with them
the next fucking day:lul: week 2 was like some shit I have never experienced before, 2 girls asked me to walk them to class
same day and i have never talked to either of them before it was honestly just crazy treatment I was not used to
1st week I had like 7 girls follow me from my school I have never even talked to, all the girls were laughing at every joke I fucking
said shit was not even funny I was just saying bullshit. And it was somehow working, went from talking to absolutley nobody to
becoming a social king and a roster in 2 weeks



For refrence I am a 5'8 mmtn and this can honestly work for anyone.:feelswhy:
Good advice. Glad it worked out for you.
 
mirin, if I looksmaxed and statusmaxed in high school a few years back (I mean i somewhat did but not enough) i would be a killer.
 
mirin, if I looksmaxed and statusmaxed in high school a few years back (I mean i somewhat did but not enough) i would be a killer.
Dude wish I did it sooner, these girls are all over me and it is kind of overwhelming coming from being known as weird your whole life
 
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A W is a W but its a shame switching schools isnt so easy... how would u even like convince ur parents because you don't want them to believe you're suicidal
 
A W is a W but its a shame switching schools isnt so easy... how would u even like convince ur parents because you don't want them to believe you're suicidal
Well you know if you are suicidal thats a whole different issue, my parents knew my struggles with social anxiety and were there for me and gave me the resources I needed.
 
Well you know if you are suicidal thats a whole different issue, my parents knew my struggles with social anxiety and were there for me and gave me the resources I needed.
no im not suicidal i meant to not look like i was suicidal or getting shoved in lockers by the entire school so they wouldn't have to worry
 

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