Went on the worst date of my life. ITS OVER!

[Ken]

I went on a third date with the girl who I kissed on the cheek after she turned her head last second. It took 3 weeks for her to "finally have time" to go on a date. I thought I would get my first real kiss and it would eventually lead to an LTR. She is only 19 lives with both parents, doesnt do drugs/alcohol, and is attractive. The only red flag I noticed was that her snap score was over 200k. I thought I had finally found a good girl to LTR and potentially marry. Of course like always it was too good to be true.

When I picked her up I noticed right away that she seemed cold, she was complaining about not getting enough hours at work. We went bowling and she would be on her phone anytime it was my turn. On our first two dates she would rarely get on her phone. She started complaining that she was hungry and asked if we could go eat. There was on overpriced burger place near by so I bought us some burgers. I payed for the bowling and the burgers. After we ate we went to an arcade, I asked if she had any dollar bills for the games. She lashed out at and me and said "I have no money remember!" I payed for one 2-player game and she didnt even pay attention. Afterward she said she wanted to go home to finish her homework. I dropped her off and I didnt even get a thanks. She even blocked me from seeing her stories on snapchat. I texted her asking if she was alright and got ignored. ITS OVER! I feel like I just got robbed.

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Brutal.

 

[Deleted member 18522]

within hours after you dropped her off she got a text "hey ken's date u up" and proceeded to pay uber from and back for a bootycall

its over.

fuck on 2nd date or ghost if you;re dealing with a western girl. zero exceptions(maybe if there's heavy petting/oral or something you can wait until 3rd but thats it)

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I went on a third date with the girl who I kissed on the cheek after she turned her head last second. It took 3 weeks for her to "finally have time" to go on a date. I thought I would get my first real kiss and it would eventually lead to an LTR. She is only 19 lives with both parents, doesnt do drugs/alcohol, and is attractive. The only red flag I noticed was that her snap score was over 200k. I thought I had finally found a good girl to LTR and potentially marry. Of course like always it was too good to be true.

When I picked her up I noticed right away that she seemed cold, she was complaining about not getting enough hours at work. We went bowling and she would be on her phone anytime it was my turn. On our first two dates she would rarely get on her phone. She started complaining that she was hungry and asked if we could go eat. There was on overpriced burger place near by so I bought us some burgers. I payed for the bowling and the burgers. After we ate we went to an arcade, I asked if she had any dollar bills for the games. She lashed out at and me and said "I have no money remember!" I payed for one 2-player game and she didnt even pay attention. Afterward she said she wanted to go home to finish her homework. I dropped her off and I didnt even get a thanks. She even blocked me from seeing her stories on snapchat. I texted her asking if she was alright and got ignored. ITS OVER! I feel like I just got robbed.

Could be that she had a bad day or something else that was effecting her tbh, don't sweat it too much Bhai, just focus on having fun at dates, this shit is bound to happen at some point. Find a new girl in the meantime to avoid making yourself get desperate and feeling like you need her. Yh high snapscore girls are my "ick" as well as it's an indicator or dopamine/validation addiction

 

[NotoriousLoser]

If u need 3 dates, its fcking over for u. Chad needs 1 date and already puts his cock in her pussy and u need 3 dates for a fcking kiss

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

If u need 3 dates, its fcking over for u. Chad needs 1 date and already puts his cock in her pussy and u need 3 dates for a fcking kiss

Tbh i respect women that take time to not have sex with a guy if I'm looking for a LTR like op stated he did, unless she fucks other guys on the first day ofc it's not necessarily a bad thing

 

[Solar]

Damn brutal

Try to not spend as much money on dates

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Bro why are you paying for these whores' food?

Do not spend a penny on these bitches

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Damn brutal

Try to not spend as much money on dates

^ coffee dates outside, ice-skating and wine dates are ideal right now if you're looking for a LTR partner cheap and good stuff

 

[Deleted member 21628]

the girl who I kissed on the cheek after she turned her head last second

WHAT??

wtf you on man

 

[Deleted member 2381]

^ coffee dates outside, ice-skating and wine dates are ideal right now if you're looking for a LTR partner cheap and good stuff

No girl who is on online dating apps are worthy for a LTR, no exceptions

If she's online, you should be looking to slay first time you meet

I slayed all my dates on the first meeting. I always made sure to go for drink, no daytime dates. And we'd take turns buying rounds, anything less is unacceptable

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

No girl who is on online dating apps are worthy for a LTR, no exceptions

If she's online, you should be looking to slay first time you meet

I slayed all my dates on the first meeting. I always made sure to go for drink, no daytime dates. And we'd take turns buying rounds, anything less is unacceptable

I agree, you're most likely not gonna find an ideal LTR partner through OLD, wouldn't do it myself. OLD should only be for slays/short term, (unless it's hinge then maybe viable, haven't tried it myself so can't speak on that matter). But i was refferering to date stuff in general

 

[Alt Number 3]

Not a molecule

I know it’s over for u though

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

Tbh i respect women that take time to not have sex with a guy if I'm looking for a LTR like op stated he did, unless she fucks other guys on the first day ofc it's not necessarily a bad thing

Yeah but how do u tell she didnt fuck other guys on the first day

And btw after how many dates and her not being eager to fuck do you consider her LTR-worthy

 

[Ken]

Could be that she had a bad day or something else that was effecting her tbh, don't sweat it too much Bhai, just focus on having fun at dates, this shit is bound to happen at some point. Find a new girl in the meantime to avoid making yourself get desperate and feeling like you need her. Yh high snapscore girls are my "ick" as well as it's an indicator or dopamine/validation addiction

Yeah I will give up on her after that unless she asks me out which I doubt. I tried my best to stay positive during the date, its hard when the girl is acting like that. The waitress probably thought I was abusing her.

I do have another girl to go out with but she is a slut that parties every weekend. Not LTR material but looks decent. I will try losing my virginity to her.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Yeah but how do u tell she didnt fuck other guys on the first day

And btw after how many dates and her not being eager to fuck do you consider her LTR-worthy

Depends on the girl, i only dated virgins, so I wouldn't know how long it would take for a non-virgin girl (3-5 dates I'd assume is okay, anything over that seems to be waste of time unless there's a specific reason for it)

 

[Deleted member 22918]

Time to move on boyo

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

Depends on the girl, i only dated virgins, so I wouldn't know how long it would take for a non-virgin girl (3-5 dates I'd assume is okay, anything over that seems to be waste of time unless there's a specific reason for it)

How tf did you manage to only date virgins, brutal Nikopill

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I went on a third date

I thought I had finally found a good girl to LTR and potentially marry.

LTR is chad-only. sorry bud

 

[Deleted member 16203]

Could be that she had a bad day or something else that was effecting her tbh, don't sweat it too much Bhai, just focus on having fun at dates, this shit is bound to happen at some point. Find a new girl in the meantime to avoid making yourself get desperate and feeling like you need her. Yh high snapscore girls are my "ick" as well as it's an indicator or dopamine/validation addiction

As much as I like OP, but what kind of grooming date is he taking these girls on.

Bowling, eating Burgers and arcade? After she basically played „unavailable for 3 Weeks“ and has a snapscore of 200k.

The girl is 19, not 13. OP needs to let his old groomimg habits die and take girls out for more goal oriented dates.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

I agree, you're most likely not gonna find an ideal LTR partner through OLD, wouldn't do it myself. OLD should only be for slays/short term, (unless it's hinge then maybe viable, haven't tried it myself so can't speak on that matter). But i was refferering to date stuff in general

I got a kinda Situationship on hinge… I never slayed on first date but I did get head 69 wank basically everything except for sex in 2nd date then I slayed her on third date. I dunno how a guy can have a 2nd date with a foid and not at least get a handjob? Like wtf is this shit in reading this foid was Muslim as well btw.


Imagine now dating a white woman and she ain’t sucking you off in the 2nd date? Bro LEAVE she ain’t into you

Like you I only date girls who are virgin-1 body count but I’ll date a girl who has more I’ll just cheat on her cos Idgaf

 

[justinzayn]

As much as I like OP, but what kind of grooming date is he taking these girls on.

Bowling, eating Burgers and arcade? After she basically played „unavailable for 3 Weeks“ and has a snapscore of 200k.

The girl is 19, not 13. OP needs to let his old groomimg habits die and take girls out for more goal oriented dates.

whats"s op age

 

[Deleted member 21700]

whats"s op age

32

 

[Deleted member 16203]

whats"s op age

late 20s/early 30s i think. mogs her by 10 years.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Could be that she had a bad day or something else that was effecting her tbh, don't sweat it too much Bhai, just focus on having fun at dates, this shit is bound to happen at some point. Find a new girl in the meantime to avoid making yourself get desperate and feeling like you need her. Yh high snapscore girls are my "ick" as well as it's an indicator or dopamine/validation addiction

Idk man I don't think you really know what it's like dating as an average guy.

Dating is NOT fun for average guys as you will likely be dating a woman that doesn't find you attractive. Your presence/existance on its own is NOT enough for women if you are not chad. They will have high expectations of your behavior and/or you paying for shit for them.

'Finding a new girl' is also not an option for average men. The reason why guys simp and date girls that are obviously not all that interested in them is because they don't have options. It's either this girl or nothing (for the next 6-12 months).

It's best to go MGTOW as a normie-male because it's the only way to deal with the fact that dating will always suck. Be open for the right opportunity, but don't have any expectations in life and focus on yourself only.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

How tf did you manage to only date virgins, brutal Nikopill

First one was in boarding school when I was 14-16, the other one was my best female friends cousin when I was 20, she needed to lose her virginity i needed to get a lightning bolt in my studentcap (Danish student tradition), i offered, then we got together afterwards as we "caught" feeling for eachother

 

[Deleted member 21628]

I got a kinda Situationship on hinge… I never slayed on first date but I did get head 69 wank basically everything except for sex in 2nd date then I slayed her on third date. I dunno how a guy can have a 2nd date with a foid and not at least get a handjob? Like wtf is this shit in reading this foid was Muslim as well btw.


Imagine now dating a white woman and she ain’t sucking you off in the 2nd date? Bro LEAVE she ain’t into you

Like you I only date girls who are virgin-1 body count but I’ll date a girl who has more I’ll just cheat on her cos Idgaf

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

How is this “cucked” I was getting sex without the responsibility of an relationship we were just FAR TOO close to be FWB

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Idk man I don't think you really know what it's like dating as an average guy.

Dating is NOT fun for average guys as you will likely be dating a woman that doesn't find you attractive. Your presence/existance on its own is NOT enough for women if you are not chad. They will have high expectations of your behavior and/or you paying for shit for them.

'Finding a new girl' is also not an option for average men. The reason why guys simp and date girls that are obviously not all that interested in them is because they don't have options. It's either this girl or nothing (for the next 6-12 months).

It's best to go MGTOW as a normie-male because it's the only way to deal with the fact that dating will always suck. Be open for the right opportunity, but don't have any expectations in life and focus on yourself only.

Probably some truth to it, but yes you gotta be very lucky, i also support MGTOW and there's a 50% chance I'll do it myself, but i even managed to get a partner while I looked like this. My point was to not force it and be contempt with the fact that you might end up alone so you don't lose yourself chasing one girl

 

[Allandro]

I went on a third date with the girl who I kissed on the cheek after she turned her head last second. It took 3 weeks for her to "finally have time" to go on a date. I thought I would get my first real kiss and it would eventually lead to an LTR. She is only 19 lives with both parents, doesnt do drugs/alcohol, and is attractive. The only red flag I noticed was that her snap score was over 200k. I thought I had finally found a good girl to LTR and potentially marry. Of course like always it was too good to be true.

When I picked her up I noticed right away that she seemed cold, she was complaining about not getting enough hours at work. We went bowling and she would be on her phone anytime it was my turn. On our first two dates she would rarely get on her phone. She started complaining that she was hungry and asked if we could go eat. There was on overpriced burger place near by so I bought us some burgers. I payed for the bowling and the burgers. After we ate we went to an arcade, I asked if she had any dollar bills for the games. She lashed out at and me and said "I have no money remember!" I payed for one 2-player game and she didnt even pay attention. Afterward she said she wanted to go home to finish her homework. I dropped her off and I didnt even get a thanks. She even blocked me from seeing her stories on snapchat. I texted her asking if she was alright and got ignored. ITS OVER! I feel like I just got robbed.

Nigga, so u pay all of this for a girl u didn't even kiss on her lips?

 

[Allandro]

Probably some truth to it, but yes you gotta be very lucky, i also support MGTOW and there's a 50% chance I'll do it myself, but i even managed to get a partner while I looked like this. My point was to not force it and be contempt with the fact that you might end up alone so you don't lose yourself chasing one girl
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What was your bf% here?

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

What was your bf% here?

Good question, probably somewhere between 22-24, but no idea tbh

 

[Allandro]

Good question, probably somewhere between 22-24, but no idea tbh

I look like this at 18% over

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

how many fucking dates have you been on to not even have 1 slay wtf

 

[NFA PB]

damn, that shit sad

 

[NFA PB]

are you ltn/mtn/htn ?

 

[NFA PB]

The girl is 19, not 13. OP needs to let his old groomimg habits die and take girls out for more goal oriented dates.

what type of dates???

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

why are u paying for her bruh stupid

 

[Deleted member 16203]

what type of dates???

these if you're chad and confident, ideally you even meet them at your place first.

I slayed all my dates on the first meeting. I always made sure to go for drink, no daytime dates. And we'd take turns buying rounds, anything less is unacceptable

If you aren't a sexappealed max chad, but are looking for a LTR, you do this:

coffee dates outside, ice-skating and wine dates are ideal right now if you're looking for a LTR partner cheap and good stuff

arcade and bowling sounds like what a creepy uncle would do to get some of that nephew ass

 

[NFA PB]

these if you're chad and confident, ideally you even meet them at your place first.


If you aren't a sexappealed max chad, but are looking for a LTR, you do this:



arcade and bowling sounds like what a creepy uncle would do to get some of that nephew ass

what about weed/drinks at a park? its my go to

 

[Deleted member 16203]

what about weed/drinks at a park? its my go to

solid option.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

U need to get ur dates drunk or high. Cant slay otherwise

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Probably some truth to it, but yes you gotta be very lucky, i also support MGTOW and there's a 50% chance I'll do it myself, but i even managed to get a partner while I looked like this. My point was to not force it and be contempt with the fact that you might end up alone so you don't lose yourself chasing one girl
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Avg man needs to escortmax to get sex when single.

Money money money

 

[Psychophilly]

she literally told you she doesn't want you when turn her head, and yet you go on another date and buy her expensive food?
u deserve it tbh

 

[KingBetaTut]

Op You can’t make concessions in a date without knowing the other party will reciprocate. Should’ve just ended the date when she acted so grumpy

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Could be that she had a bad day or something else that was effecting her tbh, don't sweat it too much Bhai, just focus on having fun at dates, this shit is bound to happen at some point. Find a new girl in the meantime to avoid making yourself get desperate and feeling like you need her. Yh high snapscore girls are my "ick" as well as it's an indicator or dopamine/validation addiction

You are a cuck
And also oblivious to modern dating for an incel

 

[Ken]

As much as I like OP, but what kind of grooming date is he taking these girls on.

Bowling, eating Burgers and arcade? After she basically played „unavailable for 3 Weeks“ and has a snapscore of 200k.

The girl is 19, not 13. OP needs to let his old groomimg habits die and take girls out for more goal oriented dates.

Yeah now I realize how retarded it was. I only took her there because she had brought it up and said we should go. I was letting her lead, every place I took her to was where she told me she wanted to go. She acts childish sometimes, I think shes autistic.

 

[Leo69]

Probably some truth to it, but yes you gotta be very lucky, i also support MGTOW and there's a 50% chance I'll do it myself, but i even managed to get a partner while I looked like this. My point was to not force it and be contempt with the fact that you might end up alone so you don't lose yourself chasing one girl
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@Niko unfrauded.

@Xangsane it's your turn now to show yourself unfrauded.

 

[Leo69]

I went on a third date with the girl who I kissed on the cheek after she turned her head last second. It took 3 weeks for her to "finally have time" to go on a date. I thought I would get my first real kiss and it would eventually lead to an LTR. She is only 19 lives with both parents, doesnt do drugs/alcohol, and is attractive. The only red flag I noticed was that her snap score was over 200k. I thought I had finally found a good girl to LTR and potentially marry. Of course like always it was too good to be true.

When I picked her up I noticed right away that she seemed cold, she was complaining about not getting enough hours at work. We went bowling and she would be on her phone anytime it was my turn. On our first two dates she would rarely get on her phone. She started complaining that she was hungry and asked if we could go eat. There was on overpriced burger place near by so I bought us some burgers. I payed for the bowling and the burgers. After we ate we went to an arcade, I asked if she had any dollar bills for the games. She lashed out at and me and said "I have no money remember!" I payed for one 2-player game and she didnt even pay attention. Afterward she said she wanted to go home to finish her homework. I dropped her off and I didnt even get a thanks. She even blocked me from seeing her stories on snapchat. I texted her asking if she was alright and got ignored. ITS OVER! I feel like I just got robbed.

This is why "Peaky Blinders & Wine?" is the ultimate pickup line of all time discovered by @Niko

This is the ultimate line that makes all your dates translate to smash on the first night if you are a mogger to pull it off.

Actually lol for this. The black pill is here to guide you to avoid BS like this, but it seems to be blue pilled clearly getting played like this left and right. Get your head in the game.

 

[Deleted member 16203]

@Niko unfrauded.

fatmaxxed, and looks like an indian with that collarless button-up.